Fazer estas coisas vai fazer-te perder a rapariga que é tudo o que sempre quiseste

Uma mulher única na vida. Uma mulher que te ama mais do que a si própria.

Uma mulher que está sempre lá para ti. Uma mulher que te respeita e aprecia tudo o que fazes por ela.

É aquela que fica sempre acordada até tarde só para lhe desejar boa noite.

Ela é a tua maior líder de claque e o teu maior apoio. Ela inspira-o a ser um homem melhor. Ela é a pessoa que virou o teu mundo de pernas para o ar.

Maybe you are lucky and you already found her but if you haven’t, don’t be sad; be patient. She will come soon.

Quando finalmente a conheceres, o teu coração saberá imediatamente. Depois, terás de ter cuidado.

After all, you’ll only have one chance to meet your once-in-a-lifetime girl. She’ll be everything you ever hoped for and even more than that.

She is aware of her worth and if you don’t treat her the way she deserves, she won’t hesitate to leave. Don’t take that risk because you know that you’ll never find a woman like her again.

Aqui estão algumas coisas que nunca deve fazer se quiser mantê-la para sempre ao seu lado. Fazer estas coisas vai fazer com que a percas.

If you take her for granted…

She is the only person in your life who doesn’t deserve this. Don’t take her or o seu amor é garantido.

Ela só está lá porque o ama, mas isso pode mudar e ela pode compreender que merece mais.

She’ll do everything she can just to make you happy but she can also get tired of trying so hard. She can get tired of you and your relationship.

Seja grato e mostre o seu apreço por tudo o que ela faz.

If you don’t listen when she is talking…

És a pessoa em quem ela mais confia.

She feels safe when she is around you and that’s why she opens up to you and maybe you are the only person in her life with whom she can talk about important things.

If you don’t listen to her, she’ll think that you aren’t interested in her life and she won’t open up to you anymore.

Quer mesmo perder essas conversas honestas (que, aliás, são a base de qualquer relação saudável)?

If you lie to her…

There shouldn’t be lies in your relationship; even those little white lies aren’t allowed.

If she catches you lying, she’ll be afraid that you’ll do it again and she’ll never feel comfortable in your relationship again.

If you aren’t her protector…

Por mais forte que uma mulher seja, ela precisa de alguém mais forte para a apoiar. A sua cara-metade deve sentir-se sempre segura, não apenas quando está perto de si.

Maybe she had some bad experiences. Show her that you won’t let anyone hurt her ever again.

If your woman understands that you don’t even try to protect her and what’s hers, she won’t have the same opinion about you anymore.

She won’t want a man with whom she doesn’t feel safe.

If you don’t make her smile anymore…

The most beautiful part of a relationship is being able to make someone smile and that shouldn’t be difficult.

Even one lousy joke can make her smile, just because it’s you who tried to make her smile.

Afinal de contas, apaixonou-se primeiro pelo seu sorriso, lembra-se disso?

If she sees that you don’t even bother to make her smile anymore, she’ll start to think that her happiness isn’t important to you anymore.

If you don’t respect her…

Mostrar respeito por uma rapariga que fez de ti um homem melhor é algo que DEVES fazer.

Don’t swear or use filthy words when you are talking to her. She is a lady and you must show that you are a gentleman.

If you don’t show respect to her, her family or her friends, she’ll think that your intentions with her aren’t serious because you don’t care about the people who are important to her.

If you play games with her…

She wants a forever love and she doesn’t have time por jogar jogos consigo. She won’t consider you as a serious man.

Para ela, os jogos são uma forma de cobardia e esse tipo de pessoas é o pior.

She won’t tolerate you being dishonest or indirect.

If you don’t want to commit…

You know that she is your soulmate and you shouldn’t be afraid to commit. It’s not scary, you won’t have to change your life; you’ll just get more obligations than you already have.

Ela quer comprometer-se consigo. Ela é determinada e sabe muito bem o que quer.

She wants to spend the rest of her life with you and she can’t wait to start living with you.

If you stop showing her affection…

You don’t have to make some romantic gestures for her every day but it would be nice to surprise her with some little things from time to time.

Envie-lhe um ramo de flores para o seu local de trabalho ou prepare-lhe um jantar. Estas pequenas coisas fá-la-ão feliz e mostrar-lhe-ão que ainda gosta dela.

If you hide your emotions…

Don’t make her wonder whether you love her or not, say what you feel about her.

You’re not a strong person se guardares tudo dentro de ti. Não há nada mais atraente do que um homem que é suficientemente forte para dizer a uma mulher o que sente por ela.

After a while, if you aren’t honest about your feelings, she might think that you don’t like her.

If you are never up for adventures…

As aventuras são sempre boas para a vossa relação e fazer algo novo ajudará a refrescá-la.

If she proposes a new adventure, accept it; otherwise, she’ll think that your relationship is stuck in a rut and that will be the biggest reason for her leaving.

She doesn’t want to be with someone who is bored with her. She doesn’t want to be a burden for someone. If you don’t want to spend time with her, someone else would be more than happy to do so.

If you treat her like an option…

Ela provou-te que tu és a sua prioridade, por isso como podes tratá-la como uma opção?

Ela desempenha o papel mais importante na sua vida. Ela é a tua companheira de vida, alguém que estará contigo para sempre, por isso trata-a como se quisesses que ela ficasse contigo para sempre.

Your friends are important also but they aren’t as important as she is. Don’t cancel your plans with her just because they invite you out.

If you don’t stand behind your words…

Se prometeres algo, tens de cumprir essa promessa.

For her, there is nothing worse than a man who doesn’t stand behind his words. She sees him as a coward and a liar.

If you give her an ultimatum…

Os ultimatos não têm absolutamente nada a ver com o amor. Se a amas verdadeiramente, nunca a obrigarás a escolher entre duas coisas.

She wants a healthy relationship and she knows that this is not a sign of one. She’ll want to go and she’ll leave you without any regrets.

If you don’t apologize when needed…

If you did something wrong, you must apologize and that’s it.

She’ll expect o vosso pedido de desculpas sincero so don’t disappoint her. Tell her how sorry you are and that you won’t do it ever again.

And really try not to do it as that’s the most important part of an honest apology.

It’s not difficult to keep a once-in-a-lifetime woman and if you don’t want to lose the woman of your life, try not to do these things.

Uma rapariga assim ama cada parte de si própria e sabe como o amor-próprio e a autoestima são importantes para uma relação saudável.

She won’t allow you to love her any less than she loves herself.

No matter how much she loves you, she can leave any second if you don’t treat her well.

Love is important to her but it’s not the most important part of a relationship.

Confiança, respeito e lealdade são os três ingredientes de uma relação saudável. And that is everything she’ll ask of you to have a healthy relationship.

Whatever you do, you should remember that you’ll only meet a girl like this once in your life and you won’t get a second chance.

Don’t let her be ‘the one who got away’.