Hacer estas cosas te hará perder a la chica que siempre quisiste
Una mujer única en la vida. Una mujer que te ama más de lo que se ama a sí misma.
Una mujer que siempre está ahí para ti. Una mujer que te respete y aprecie todo lo que haces por ella.
Es la que siempre se queda hasta tarde sólo para desearte buenas noches.
Es tu mayor animadora y tu mayor apoyo. Ella te inspira a ser un hombre mejor. Ella es la que puso tu mundo patas arriba.
Maybe you are lucky and you already found her but if you haven’t, don’t be sad; be patient. She will come soon.
Cuando por fin la conozcas, tu corazón lo sabrá al instante. Entonces, tendrás que tener cuidado.
After all, you’ll only have one chance to meet your once-in-a-lifetime girl. She’ll be everything you ever hoped for and even more than that.
She is aware of her worth and if you don’t treat her the way she deserves, she won’t hesitate to leave. Don’t take that risk because you know that you’ll never find a woman like her again.
Estas son algunas cosas que nunca debes hacer si quieres tenerla siempre a tu lado. Hacer estas cosas hará que la pierdas.
If you take her for granted…
She is the only person in your life who doesn’t deserve this. Don’t take her or su amor por sentado.
Sólo está ahí porque te quiere, pero eso puede cambiar y entender que se merece más.
She’ll do everything she can just to make you happy but she can also get tired of trying so hard. She can get tired of you and your relationship.
Sé agradecido y muestra tu aprecio por todo lo que hace.
If you don’t listen when she is talking…
Eres la persona en la que más confía.
She feels safe when she is around you and that’s why she opens up to you and maybe you are the only person in her life with whom she can talk about important things.
If you don’t listen to her, she’ll think that you aren’t interested in her life and she won’t open up to you anymore.
¿De verdad quieres perder esas conversaciones sinceras (que, por cierto, son la base de toda relación sana)?
If you lie to her…
There shouldn’t be lies in your relationship; even those little white lies aren’t allowed.
If she catches you lying, she’ll be afraid that you’ll do it again and she’ll never feel comfortable in your relationship again.
If you aren’t her protector…
Por muy fuerte que sea una mujer, necesita a alguien más fuerte que le cubra las espaldas. Tu media naranja debe sentirse segura todo el tiempo, no solo cuando está cerca de ti.
Maybe she had some bad experiences. Show her that you won’t let anyone hurt her ever again.
If your woman understands that you don’t even try to protect her and what’s hers, she won’t have the same opinion about you anymore.
She won’t want a man with whom she doesn’t feel safe.
If you don’t make her smile anymore…
The most beautiful part of a relationship is being able to make someone smile and that shouldn’t be difficult.
Even one lousy joke can make her smile, just because it’s you who tried to make her smile.
Al fin y al cabo, primero te enamoraste de su sonrisa, ¿lo recuerdas?
If she sees that you don’t even bother to make her smile anymore, she’ll start to think that her happiness isn’t important to you anymore.
If you don’t respect her…
Mostrar respeto por una chica que te hizo un hombre mejor es algo que DEBES hacer.
Don’t swear or use filthy words when you are talking to her. She is a lady and you must show that you are a gentleman.
If you don’t show respect to her, her family or her friends, she’ll think that your intentions with her aren’t serious because you don’t care about the people who are important to her.
If you play games with her…
She wants a forever love and she doesn’t have time por jugar contigo. She won’t consider you as a serious man.
Cree que jugar demuestra cobardía y piensa que ese tipo de personas son las peores.
She won’t tolerate you being dishonest or indirect.
If you don’t want to commit…
You know that she is your soulmate and you shouldn’t be afraid to commit. It’s not scary, you won’t have to change your life; you’ll just get more obligations than you already have.
Quiere comprometerse contigo. Está decidida y sabe muy bien lo que quiere.
She wants to spend the rest of her life with you and she can’t wait to start living with you.
If you stop showing her affection…
You don’t have to make some romantic gestures for her every day but it would be nice to surprise her with some little things from time to time.
Envíale un ramo de flores a su lugar de trabajo o prepárale una cena. Esas pequeñas cosas la harán feliz y le demostrarán que sigues preocupándote por ella.
If you hide your emotions…
Don’t make her wonder whether you love her or not, say what you feel about her.
You’re not a strong person si lo guardas todo dentro. No hay nada más atractivo que un hombre lo suficientemente fuerte como para decirle a una mujer lo que siente por ella.
After a while, if you aren’t honest about your feelings, she might think that you don’t like her.
If you are never up for adventures…
Las aventuras siempre son buenas para tu relación y hacer algo nuevo te ayudará a refrescarla.
If she proposes a new adventure, accept it; otherwise, she’ll think that your relationship is stuck in a rut and that will be the biggest reason for her leaving.
She doesn’t want to be with someone who is bored with her. She doesn’t want to be a burden for someone. If you don’t want to spend time with her, someone else would be more than happy to do so.
If you treat her like an option…
Te ha demostrado que eres su prioridad, así que ¿cómo puedes tratarla como una opción?
Ella desempeña el papel más importante de tu vida. Es tu compañera de vida, alguien que estará contigo para siempre, así que trátala como si quisieras que estuviera contigo para siempre.
Your friends are important also but they aren’t as important as she is. Don’t cancel your plans with her just because they invite you out.
If you don’t stand behind your words…
Si prometes algo, tienes que cumplirlo.
For her, there is nothing worse than a man who doesn’t stand behind his words. She sees him as a coward and a liar.
If you give her an ultimatum…
Los ultimátums no tienen absolutamente nada que ver con el amor. Si la amas de verdad, nunca la harás elegir entre dos cosas.
She wants a healthy relationship and she knows that this is not a sign of one. She’ll want to go and she’ll leave you without any regrets.
If you don’t apologize when needed…
If you did something wrong, you must apologize and that’s it.
She’ll expect tu sincera disculpa so don’t disappoint her. Tell her how sorry you are and that you won’t do it ever again.
And really try not to do it as that’s the most important part of an honest apology.
It’s not difficult to keep a once-in-a-lifetime woman and if you don’t want to lose the woman of your life, try not to do these things.
Una chica así ama cada parte de sí misma y sabe lo importantes que son el amor propio y la autoestima para una relación sana.
She won’t allow you to love her any less than she loves herself.
No matter how much she loves you, she can leave any second if you don’t treat her well.
Love is important to her but it’s not the most important part of a relationship.
Confianza, respeto y lealtad son los tres ingredientes de una relación sana. And that is everything she’ll ask of you to have a healthy relationship.
Whatever you do, you should remember that you’ll only meet a girl like this once in your life and you won’t get a second chance.
Don’t let her be ‘the one who got away’.
