A once-in-a-lifetime woman. A woman who loves you more than she loves herself.
A woman who is always there for you. A woman who respects you and appreciates everything you do for her.
She is the one who always stays up late just to wish you a goodnight.
She is your biggest cheerleader and your biggest support. She inspires you to be a better man. She is the one who turned your world upside down.
Maybe you are lucky and you already found her but if you haven’t, don’t be sad; be patient. She will come soon.
When you finally meet her, your heart will know instantly. Then, you will have to be careful.
After all, you’ll only have one chance to meet your once-in-a-lifetime girl. She’ll be everything you ever hoped for and even more than that.
She is aware of her worth and if you don’t treat her the way she deserves, she won’t hesitate to leave. Don’t take that risk because you know that you’ll never find a woman like her again.
Here are some things you should never do if you want to keep her forever by your side. Doing these things will make you lose her.
If you take her for granted…
She is the only person in your life who doesn’t deserve this. Don’t take her or her love for granted.
She is only there because she loves you but that can change and she can understand that she deserves more.
She’ll do everything she can just to make you happy but she can also get tired of trying so hard. She can get tired of you and your relationship.
Be grateful and show your appreciation for everything she does.
If you don’t listen when she is talking…
You are the person she trusts the most.
She feels safe when she is around you and that’s why she opens up to you and maybe you are the only person in her life with whom she can talk about important things.
If you don’t listen to her, she’ll think that you aren’t interested in her life and she won’t open up to you anymore.
Do you really want to lose those honest conversations (that are the foundation for every healthy relationship by the way)?
If you lie to her…
There shouldn’t be lies in your relationship; even those little white lies aren’t allowed.
If she catches you lying, she’ll be afraid that you’ll do it again and she’ll never feel comfortable in your relationship again.
If you aren’t her protector…
No matter how strong a woman is, she still needs someone stronger to have her back. Your better half should feel safe all the time, not only when she is around you.
Maybe she had some bad experiences. Show her that you won’t let anyone hurt her ever again.
If your woman understands that you don’t even try to protect her and what’s hers, she won’t have the same opinion about you anymore.
She won’t want a man with whom she doesn’t feel safe.
If you don’t make her smile anymore…
The most beautiful part of a relationship is being able to make someone smile and that shouldn’t be difficult.
Even one lousy joke can make her smile, just because it’s you who tried to make her smile.
After all, you first fell in love with her smile; remember that?
If she sees that you don’t even bother to make her smile anymore, she’ll start to think that her happiness isn’t important to you anymore.
If you don’t respect her…
Showing respect for a girl who made you a better man is something that you MUST do.
Don’t swear or use filthy words when you are talking to her. She is a lady and you must show that you are a gentleman.
If you don’t show respect to her, her family or her friends, she’ll think that your intentions with her aren’t serious because you don’t care about the people who are important to her.
If you play games with her…
She wants a forever love and she doesn’t have time for playing games with you. She won’t consider you as a serious man.
She thinks playing games shows cowardice and she thinks that those types of people are the worst.
She won’t tolerate you being dishonest or indirect.
If you don’t want to commit…
You know that she is your soulmate and you shouldn’t be afraid to commit. It’s not scary, you won’t have to change your life; you’ll just get more obligations than you already have.
She wants to commit to you. She is determined and she knows full well what she wants.
She wants to spend the rest of her life with you and she can’t wait to start living with you.
If you stop showing her affection…
You don’t have to make some romantic gestures for her every day but it would be nice to surprise her with some little things from time to time.
Send a bouquet of flowers to her at her workplace or make her dinner. Those little things will make her happy and will show her that you still care for her.
If you hide your emotions…
Don’t make her wonder whether you love her or not, say what you feel about her.
You’re not a strong person if you keep everything inside. There is nothing more attractive than a man who is strong enough to tell a woman what he feels about her.
After a while, if you aren’t honest about your feelings, she might think that you don’t like her.
If you are never up for adventures…
Adventures are always good for your relationship and doing something new will help to refresh it.
If she proposes a new adventure, accept it; otherwise, she’ll think that your relationship is stuck in a rut and that will be the biggest reason for her leaving.
She doesn’t want to be with someone who is bored with her. She doesn’t want to be a burden for someone. If you don’t want to spend time with her, someone else would be more than happy to do so.
If you treat her like an option…
She proved to you that you are her priority, so how can you treat her as an option?
She plays the most important role in your life. She is your life partner, someone who will be with you forever, so treat her like you want her to stay with you forever.
Your friends are important also but they aren’t as important as she is. Don’t cancel your plans with her just because they invite you out.
If you don’t stand behind your words…
If you promise something then you have to keep that promise.
For her, there is nothing worse than a man who doesn’t stand behind his words. She sees him as a coward and a liar.
If you give her an ultimatum…
Ultimatums have absolutely nothing to do with love. If you truly love her, you will never make her choose between two things.
She wants a healthy relationship and she knows that this is not a sign of one. She’ll want to go and she’ll leave you without any regrets.
If you don’t apologize when needed…
If you did something wrong, you must apologize and that’s it.
She’ll expect your honest apology so don’t disappoint her. Tell her how sorry you are and that you won’t do it ever again.
And really try not to do it as that’s the most important part of an honest apology.
It’s not difficult to keep a once-in-a-lifetime woman and if you don’t want to lose the woman of your life, try not to do these things.
A girl like this loves every part of herself and she knows how important self-love and self-esteem are for a healthy relationship.
She won’t allow you to love her any less than she loves herself.
No matter how much she loves you, she can leave any second if you don’t treat her well.
Love is important to her but it’s not the most important part of a relationship.
Trust, respect and loyalty are the three ingredients for a healthy relationship. And that is everything she’ll ask of you to have a healthy relationship.
Whatever you do, you should remember that you’ll only meet a girl like this once in your life and you won’t get a second chance.
Don’t let her be ‘the one who got away’.