Jogos de Escorpião 101: Como passar nos testes da sua alma gémea
People like to badmouth Scorpios. Along with Gemini and Capricorns, they’re often considered among the worst sun signs of the zodiac. Those who don’t like them have probably run into one or more bad examples of these signs because o facto é que não há sinais bons ou maus.
Often, Scorpio’s reputation claims that they like to play mind games, and guess what? They do.
However, like everything else when it comes to Scorpios, the truth isn’t that simple. They play games, but it’s not just for the sake of the chase or because they enjoy them. Scorpio plays games to test you, push you, and determine whether you’re the one for him.
When you’re already in a relationship with a Scorpio, he plays games to test your loyalty. Pode levá-lo à loucura, mas a profunda ligação emocional e sexual que pode nutrir com um Escorpião pode valer a pena.
Recognizing Scorpio’s games isn’t hard when you know what this sign is all about. Let’s look deep into Scorpio’s mind to see what he wants from you.
Jogos de Escorpião que ele faz para te testar
If this is your first time dealing with a Scorpio, you might understandably feel overwhelmed. Even someone who has experience with Scorpio men’s mind games can find them challenging because if there’s one thing to be said without a doubt about Scorpios, it’s that they’re intenso.
When a Scorpio man plays games, it’s to test you. He wants to see what kind of reaction you have to certain things and what that says about you. In the fases iniciais do namoro, Scorpio games are all about weeding out potential partners he can’t be serious about.
He’s never looking for a fling but a soulmate, so he’s trying to find out if you could be that person. As mulheres de Escorpião são iguais.
Trair a sua confiança é o que mais magoa um Escorpião. Ele quer honestidade total e a mais profunda intimidade, por isso precisa de saber que lha pode dar. Antes de se comprometer, ele quer ter a certeza de que pode contar com a sua lealdade e que pode confiar em si.
TESTE 1: O jogo da honestidade.
Honesty is extremely important to a Scorpio. He wants to know everything: what you think, where you go, who you’re with, but most importantly, ele quer que contar ele todas essas coisas e ser verdadeiro.
A Scorpio man despises lying in any form – lies of omission, white lies, secrets. To him, all of them are lies. He will use any means necessary to discover the truth, especially if he feels like you’ve been dishonest.
When he gets suspicious, there are no depths an insecure Scorpio won’t stoop to to get to the bottom of things. Ele pode fazer coisas como espiar as suas redes sociais, ver o seu telemóvel, bisbilhotar o seu apartamento ou até segui-lo.
Um Escorpião mais confiante começaria provavelmente por lhe perguntar diretamente. If he isn’t convinced, you might see in action why a Scorpio is considered a master manipulator.
He’ll use what he already knows to try to get the truth out of you. He’ll bring something up that you said a while ago to see if your story still matches, and he’ll push the envelope with his questions and get you in a position where you can really either be honest or admit to every lie you’ve ever told anyone in your life.
TESTE 2. O jogo da fidelidade.
After you enter into a relationship with him, a Scorpio tests your loyalty until he’s convinced that you’re the real deal. He’ll make you the center of his world, and he wants to be everything to you. He’s extremely loving, attentive, and completely devoted to his partner and expects the same in return.
Quando um homem de Escorpião ama, as long as his partner loves him back and shows it, he’s supportive, faithful, and caring. If he’s testing your loyalty, it means that his feelings for you have grown and that he wants to make sure that you won’t hurt him.
Loyalty doesn’t only mean that you won’t cheat on him. He wants to know that you’ll stand by him and that he’ll be able to rely on you.
Algumas formas de o testar são contar-lhe um segredo e esperar que o guarde. Pode jogar ao quente e ao frio para ver como lida com isso. He might lie and tell you that he’s done something terrible to see how you react. Ele pode dizer-lhe que aceitou a ex de volta. Em casos extremos, pode mandar um amigo namoriscar consigo para ver o que faz.
He’s doing all this because he needs to make sure that you’re the person he can give all of his love to and expect to get love back.
TESTE 3. O jogo do controlo.
Think twice before deciding to pursue a romance with a Scorpio – one of his características mais importantes é que he does nothing halfway, and he can be a bit too much for people who don’t like that amount of intensity.
A Scorpio’s compatibility is high with Pisces, Virgo, Taurus, and Aries, which shows you that Scorpio’s intense way of loving isn’t for everyone, and only the very grounded or very emotional signs are usually attracted to Scorpios.
If he hasn’t spent time working on himself and dealing with his own issues, estar numa relação com ele pode ser sufocante devido à sua atitude de tudo ou nada e possessividade.
It doesn’t matter if you’re dealing with a Scorpio who has a lot of work to do on himself or a Scorpio who’s a realized person; he’ll push to see how far he can go and whether or not you can handle him.
He’ll try to stretch your boundaries and control you. He’ll play with your feelings. He’ll use silence, nagging, complaining, and anything else that might push your buttons to see how far he can go. If you react emotionally, he’ll accuse you of being too sensitive.
Sometimes he won’t do anything obvious. He’s intelligent and intuitive, so he’ll read you and be able to learn how you tick without ever showing you that he’s paying attention. He’ll read your body language, figure out the things you don’t say, and try to control the relationship.
TESTE 4: O jogo da confiança.
When you think about Scorpios, your first thought probably isn’t that they’re sensitive, but that’s exactly what they are. They might present a cool exterior, but they’re incredibly emotional and feel very deeply.
Ele quer alguém que tenha um interesse genuíno por ele e que o queira conhecer. Quer ser capaz de se abrir e partilhar a paixão e o amor que tem. Ele quer alguém em quem possa confiar e que confie nele. Se ele encontrar isso em ti, um Escorpião vai perseguir-te until you’re committed to each other.
Unfortunately, the way a Scorpio chooses to look for this is by testing you in increasingly annoying ways. He’ll do things that make you prove to him whether or not he can rely on you not to hurt him, and muitas vezes, trata-se de lidar com os seus ciúmes.
Talking about getting serious when you’ve just met, telling you his secrets unprovoked, asking you about other men in your life, bringing up other women, ignoring you all of a sudden, canceling plans – these can all be signs that he’s testing you.
TESTE 5. O jogo da vulnerabilidade.
Scorpio doesn’t care for superficial people, conversations, or relationships. He wants a raw, open, and real connection, and he’ll test you to find out whether you can give it to him.
Quando um homem de Escorpião gosta de siEle quer conhecer-te tal como és. Ele quer saber os teus segredos, aqueles que nunca contaste a ninguém. He wants to love the parts of you you’re ashamed of. This is a man who insists on eye contact during sex and forces you to throw away your inhibitions.
Embora isto pareça romântico e sexy em teoria, nem toda a gente é feita do mesmo tecido que um Escorpião. Some people would rather have a soft and pleasant relationship with a loved one instead of Scorpio’s hardcore intensity and unbridled passion.
Um homem de Escorpião quer uma verdadeira ligação emocional. Apesar da sua reputação como o signo mais sensual, para ele, a intimidade física vem em segundo lugar em relação à intimidade emocional. O sexo com um Escorpião não é apenas poderoso e excitante, mas sempre emocional.
He gets attached quickly because he knows how to distinguish the substance of the person he’s interested in, but he doesn’t let you in easily. Um homem de Escorpião vai testar a sua vontade de se abrir e de se desnudar, de o deixar amá-la e de ser a pessoa a quem ele pode recorrer em troca.
Como jogar com um homem de Escorpião no seu próprio jogo
Entenda que a maioria dos escorpianos faz jogos para se proteger. Um Escorpião entrega-se totalmente a uma relação e ama profunda e desesperadamente. He’s terrified of becoming open and vulnerable just to end up getting hurt.
A Scorpio who has worked on himself and learned how to deal with his insecurities won’t play games at all, or he’ll only play them if you give him a reason to doubt you.
The obvious signs a Scorpio man is playing you say that he’s still a work in progress. As you get to know your Scorpio guy, you’ll be able to tell where he is in his own development, depending on how much he plays Scorpio games.
A melhor maneira de lidar com um Escorpião é não jogar os seus jogos, mas manter a sua própria posição.
1. Dizer a verdade.
A melhor maneira de lidar com um Escorpião que duvida da sua honestidade é dizer sempre a verdade. Dizer a verdade, mesmo que penses que ele pode não gostar. Don’t omit anything you think he wants to know. Show him you have nothing to hide.
This doesn’t mean that he’s entitled to know everything about you. Deixe claro para ele que algumas coisas são privadas e fora dos limites, pelo menos por enquanto. Ninguém compreende melhor a importância da privacidade do que um Escorpião. Ele deve saber que algumas informações têm de ser obtidas.
If he becomes suspicious for no reason, don’t try to justify yourself. Don’t make up excuses and struggle with explanations.
For example, if you’ve told him that you won’t be able to meet him next weekend because you’re hanging out with a friend, it’s not your problem if he’s jealous and suspicious or thinks you’re with another man.
He might try to come up with something that would expose you, such as showing up unannounced or checking up on you, but don’t tolerate that kind of behavior. Tell him that he needs to respect your word and not make demands.
Unless you actually give him a real reason to mistrust you, in time, he’ll realize that you’re being truthful and he’s being unreasonable.
2. Estar ao lado dele.
Um homem de Escorpião está a tentar descobrir o que seria necessário para o trair, e a traição é o seu maior medo. He doesn’t want a hookup – he wants the love of his life, so he’s very careful in deciding whether to let you in.
Just because he does stupid things because he wants to be sure that he can count on you not to hurt him doesn’t mean that they’re always acceptable. Don’t be afraid to let him know when he crosses the line.
Como é que se passa neste teste? Porque há tantas maneiras de ele testar a sua lealdade, a única forma de a passar é senti-la realmente. Depende do seu próprio nível de empenho e amor pelo seu escorpiano. Examine os seus sentimentos por ele e responda com sinceridade até que ponto ele é importante para si.
Vê-se a si própria a estar com ele e a dar-lhe 100% de si própria?
If you can’t, you’ll likely break up sooner than expected because when a Scorpio realizes that you’re not as prepared to commit as he is, he’ll move on before he gets hurt.
If you’re ready to give this relationship your all and be his best friend, partner, and soulmate, then passing this test will come naturally to you. Nada do que ele te atire fará com que duvides dos teus sentimentos.
3. Aguentar-se a si próprio.
The way to handle a Scorpio who’s trying to see what you’ll let him get away with is to give as good as you get.
Quando ele tentar ultrapassar os seus limites, reivindique-os com firmeza. Se ele tentar provocá-la com manipulação emocional, mantenha a cabeça fria. Quando ele disser algo destinado a fazê-la reagir com raiva, dê-lhe uma resposta espirituosa.
Façam o que fizerem, dar-lhe o que ele realmente quer e não o que ele parece querer. On the surface, it might seem like he’s trying to take control of the relationship. In reality, he’s not looking to be in charge – he’s looking for an equal and a partner.
Don’t submit to what he wants just because he says so: ask for what you want, and speak up when you don’t want something.
He wants to see that you can take anything he can dish out and throw it right back. A Scorpio isn’t interested in shallow relationships, and Scorpio games have a purpose: to see whether he’s met his match.
No final, tudo se resume ao que quer dele e da sua relação com ele.
4. Estabelecer limites.
O Escorpião pode demorar algum tempo a baixar as suas muralhas e a permitir-lhe ver o fogo que tem dentro de si. Until you earn his trust, he’ll only give you a glimpse into who he is. He doesn’t let people in easily, but when he decides that you’re worth it, you’ll experience the strength of his passion.
Até lá, ele pode enlouquecê-la com os seus jogos para se certificar de que pode confiar em si. If you’re still into him after he pulls all these stunts, you probably like him enough to jump through his hoops. Among the many examples of Scorpio mind games, those that make you doubt yourself are the worst.
A forma de o enfrentar neste jogo é manter a sua posição e ser autêntico. Show him you care and want to nurture your relationship but that you also won’t forget yourself to be with him. For all his intense energy, a Scorpio respects boundaries when they’re clearly set (unless he’s also testing you in that way.)
You’ll pass all his tests if you have genuine feelings for him and the self-esteem needed to stand your ground. Make sure you don’t let him make things one-sided: if he wants to be able to trust you, he needs to prove you can trust him too.
5. Abre o teu coração.
Se queres estabelecer uma ligação com o teu rapaz de Escorpião, tens de ser genuína. He can easily figure out when you’re faking or telling him what he wants to hear. Show him who you really are because he’s eager to know.
He’ll prod, poke, and delve until he discovers your innermost fears and desires. He’ll show you his dark side – his possessiveness, obsession, and depth. Whether or not you can deal with this will help you decide if a relationship with a Scorpio is for you.
He doesn’t want a relationship in which either of you chooses to hide. Vulnerabilidade emocional is terrifying because you’re putting your heart into another person’s hands. If you choose to do it, it won’t be easy, but he’ll meet you halfway and show you that you can do it.
Ele quer que a vossa relação se torne uma parte de ambos, que crie raízes e vos dê força. Sinceramente, uma relação romântica com um Escorpião pode ser cheia de dramas emocionais, mas quando ambos estão dispostos a entrar em ação, pode transformar-se numa verdadeira parceria.
If you want a connection so deep that it’s almost spiritual, where the both of you give each other the whole of yourselves, you can have one with a Scorpio.
O seu Escorpião vale a pena?
Pode ser um desafio lidar com os jogos do Escorpião. Ele ultrapassa os teus limites e quer que ganhes a sua confiança e que te conheças a um nível tão profundo que talvez não te conheças a ti própria.
This doesn’t apply to everyone, and not every Scorpio is the same, of course – your relationship depends on the rest of your horoscopes. Still, a man with a Scorpio sun always has a passionate nature that demands complete dedication and powerful emotions.
Tudo o que envolve uma relação com um Escorpião é intensificado, assim como as formas como ele a pressiona para vos testar. It’s up to you to decide whether the payoff is worth it.
