10 coisas que o vão manter agarrado

Há muitos conselhos e formas de o manter agarrado, mas o que é preciso ter em conta é que cada pessoa é diferente.

The best way to keep him hooked is to be yourself and avoid all the games, such as ignoring his texts for twenty minutes, being available for another twenty, then sacrificing two kittens while you’re ghosting him for three hours. Repeat as necessary.

A sério, o amor não é assim tão complicado e se for, it’s not real love. So, here’s the list of things you can do to keep him hooked, without sacrificing kittens or your soul or counting the minutes.

Seja você mesmo viciado

There is no point in getting him hooked if you’re not hooked yourself. You need to be sure that this is what you want and that it makes you feel truly good.

If you’re genuinely interested, he will be too. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman who wants you.

Divertir-se

When a relationship passes the honeymoon phase it gets serious, and that’s what you want. But when it’s too serious, it loses that spark that keeps it going and that keeps it alive.

So be spontaneous and have fun. Buy water balloons and declare war with him and just go for it. It’s also a great way to let go of some of the pressure and tensions that build up over time.

Ser apaixonado

About him, about your relationship and about yourself. He fell in love with your passion and if you put it aside because someone said that love is supposed to be steady and serious, you’ll just end up losing yourself and the parts of yourself he fell in love with in the first place. Don’t change who you are just because you’re in a relationship.

Don’t be afraid to slay

Men are usually the ones with a fragile ego but a real man will be proud of his woman slaying. So don’t put your life on hold for him, because he will hardly notice it.

And even if he does, he will say that he never asked you to do it and be angry because you think he’s fragile (even if he is).

Tu fazes o que queres e haverá melhor maneira de o deixar viciado do que com o teu jogo fantástico? Casais que se divertem juntos, ficam juntos!

Mostrar independência

While asking him for help and advice is really good because it shows that you believe in him and his opinion, don’t overdo it. Waiting for him to help you with every decision is only going to chase him away.

Lembre-se que já era dona do seu mundo muito antes de ele entrar nele e que também o pode fazer agora.

Ter a sua própria vida

Just because he’s not into the same things you are it doesn’t mean you should give up on them. There are always compromissos para fazer e formas de resolver as coisas.

Vá às compras com as raparigas e deixe-o ir ao jogo. Ambos irão apreciar o tempo que têm a sós e, assim, ficarão mais ansiosos por voltar a estar juntos no final do dia.

Ser honesto

Esconder-lhe a verdade não vos levará a lado nenhum. Pequenas mentiras brancas parecem inocentes, mas às vezes a verdade é tudo o que vocês dois precisam.

So don’t be afraid to say what’s on your mind, because he will appreciate the fact that you trust him enough to speak your mind.

But keep in mind that there’s no need to be brutally honest. Always go with the idea of how you would you like to be approached and there’s no way you can go wrong.

Mostrar iniciativa no quarto

Showing him how attractive he is to you will help him feel better about himself. But don’t do this just because you feel you have to.

Do it if you really want to do it. If you feel like ripping his clothes off and getting it on right there in the middle of the kitchen, do it. But if you don’t feel like it, he will notice and you will both feel shitty afterward.

Seja solidário e demonstre apreço

A little bit of support can go a long way and we all know it. If he’s super-passionate about following his dream, be passionate with him.

Se ele fez algo por vocês os dois, não se esqueça de lhe agradecer. A pior coisa que um homem pode sentir numa relação é ser tomado como garantido.

And even if you don’t do it intentionally, it still hurts. So show him that you see what he’s doing and that it means so much to you. Soon enough he will return the favor and your relationship will significantly improve.

Confiar nele

Não há melhor maneira de lhe mostrar que se preocupa do que mostrar-lhe que tem a sua confiança. Confie nele com o seu coração, com as suas memórias e medos.

Open up to him, no matter how scary it seems. If you’re sure that he’s the one and that he’s worth it, don’t hold any of it back.

Ele merece saber como te sentes e tu mereces sentir paz. E haverá melhor maneira de a sentir do que construir a confiança?