Não tenho medo do compromisso, tenho medo de perder o meu tempo com o homem errado

O amor não devia ser tão complicado a toda a hora.

Por vezes, basta exprimir claramente as suas intenções e as suas emoções.

I wish you knew that. I wish you’d just told me how you felt about me right away, instead of making me guess and leaving me to turn cold and look for love elsewhere.

I was never the spiteful type; you could’ve just been honest.

Deixámos de falar porque não tomaste a iniciativa.

I’m not here to chase you. I was ready for a mature relationship, not some teenage puppy love filled with passive-aggressive behavior and unspoken words.

Unfortunately, the way you acted has forced me to become colder. That didn’t happen because I didn’t care, it was because I wanted you to do something.

I’m done with men who can’t take initiative and wait for me to start something first.

Quem é que estamos a enganar?!

I have no problem admitting I’m a strong, bold woman, but that only means I need a strong, bold man too.

A man who’s decisive and ready to take action. A man who doesn’t let things just happen, but puts effort into reaching his goals.

That’s the kind of man I want.

I want to be sure he’s committed. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life thinking I’m not enough.

I want a man who has long term goals and lets me know, without hesitation, that I’m one of them.

Quero um homem que faça questão de me compreender sempre e de comunicar comigo diariamente.

I don’t want to beg for anything.

I want someone who can follow me and won’t be afraid. Someone to share my future with. Someone to make me feel special.

A person who is ready to put me first and be proud of me. Until I find that man, I’m ready to stay single, I’m not afraid.

I’d rather stay single than waste my time on a man who is not committed.

If you’re not committed, that means you’re not serious about me. You treat me like an option.

And I’m so much more than that. I deserve better.

Luckily, I don’t base my self-worth on whether I’m in a relationship or not. I choose to accept my life as it is and enjoy it.

I’m deeply convinced that someone out there is just the right for me. I know that person will never make me guess our commitment and our love.

Ele nunca me deixará duvidar da coisa mais importante numa relação. Falaremos das nossas emoções mais profundas e dos nossos desejos secretos. Ele certificar-se-á de que me sinto segura com ele.

He won’t insist on the childish things that make me uncomfortable. Instead, he will act like a grown man and his actions will make me trust him.

He won’t make weird remarks, ignore me in front of his friends, interrupt me while I talk, mansplain things to me, or text with his ex and act like that’s okay.

Time we spend together will fill me with hope, joy, and happiness and by that, I will know he’s the one.

Ele vai fazer-me rir como ninguém, preparar-me o pequeno-almoço na cama e deixar-me escolher o filme. Sentir-me-ei válida e acarinhada.

That’s what I never felt with you. That’s why I gave up. You couldn’t give me the simplest thing I needed.

Nunca me deste a devoção de que preciso para me sentir apreciado.

Tomaste-me por garantido e foi isto que aconteceu. Eu disse adeus.

Interestingly enough – I didn’t even miss you, which made me realize it’s because you were never really there to begin with. You were somehow passively selfish.

I didn’t like that.

There’s too much life in me. I set myself free by letting you go.

I outgrew the need to be loved by someone who doesn’t show he cares for me.

Ao mesmo tempo, comecei a amar-me para me preparar para aquele que fará questão de me mostrar o seu amor todos os dias da sua vida.