Mereces alguém que te mande uma mensagem de "boa noite" todas as noites

I know you’re tired of men who’re good for nothing. Tired of the texting games, being ignored and taken for granted. 

I know you’re exhausted from giving your best and getting the worst in return.

Sei que queres algo mais. Devias querer mais. Mereces mais. 

Mereces estar com alguém que se lembre sempre de te mandar uma mensagem de boa noite. Tão simples quanto isso. Complicado para a maioria dos homens. 

Uma mensagem de boa noite do homem com quem está parece um pequeno gesto, mas significa tudo. 

És o principal pensamento dele antes de adormecer.

He’s thinking of you. He cares. He wants you in his life. You are his priority. 

Yes, that’s all hidden beneath that small yet thoughtful and mensagem romântica dele. 

You need someone like that. Someone who doesn’t complicate simple things such as a text goodnight.

Someone who won’t hide his feelings and play hard to get. 

You don’t need a man who plays games and leaves you deciphering his actions or lack thereof.  

Não precisa de alguém que o persiga e o faça sentir que a sua relação é mais do que é na realidade.

Alguém que está mais concentrado em aproximar-se de si entre os lençóis do que em aproximar-se do seu coração. 

You don’t need a guy who’s cheap with texts because he will be cheap in everything else. 

He will be cheap with his feelings, time, affection, warmth, and love – and that’s not how things are supposed to be. 

He’s supposed to shower you with kisses. He should hug you long and tight so that you feel like you’re where you belong. 

Your man should show you respect and understanding. He should let you know that you’re the only one for him and that his feelings are genuine. 

Se ele não o fizer, falhará consigo. 

Precisas de um homem que seja suficientemente corajoso para te mostrar que te quer na vida dele. 

He’s the only one who will make you feel safe. He won’t make you question his intentions.

He’ll be so honest and open that you won’t have any mixed signals to decipher. 

He will reassure you and silence your overthinking, show you that relationships shouldn’t be painful, and demonstrate that love doesn’t equal hurt. 

That’s not so hard. All he needs to do is send at least a text goodnight on his busiest day. 

Com essa simples mensagem, ele mostra que encontra sempre tempo para si, mesmo quando o mundo fica agitado. 

With that one simple text, he says you are important to him and he can’t imagine ending his day without hearing from you.  

So don’t allow anyone to convince you that you’re needy if you want him to text, show up, and make an effort.

You’re not asking for too much – it’s nothing less than you yourself are willing to give.

It’s nothing out of this world. It’s showing you care in the plainest possible way. 

If you are investing, he should too. The relationship needs two people. Love has to come from both sides. If it doesn’t, it’s not true. 

A maioria de nós, mulheres, é culpada de um erro gigantesco: Damos demasiado e contentamo-nos com muito pouco do homem da nossa vida. 

We become too available. We drop everything to be with them. We initiate texts all the time. We even send a followup text when he doesn’t reply.

Esquecemo-nos das nossas vidas e concentramo-nos nelas. Ignoramos as nossas necessidades e damos prioridade às deles. 

Even though we hate to admit it, we do it. And it’s high time we stop.

Not just because it’s making your man pull away, but because this approach will never make us happy. 

Sim, as mulheres também precisam de enviar uma mensagem de boa noite – we need to make the effort. But only if we have the right man who we can do it for. 

Só um homem que a encontre a meio caminho é digno dos seus esforços, um homem que esteja disposto a mostrar com acções que gosta de si e a respeita. 

You need reciprocity in every step of your relationship, from the beginning to the end. You need to get back what you’re willing to give, otherwise it’s pointless. 

So, don’t believe a man who says he’s too busy to text you goodnight (or to enviar-lhe uma mensagem primeiro). 

Nobody is that busy. If he cared, he would text – and not just goodnight, but textos de bom dia e também textos de tarde óptimos. 

You deserve a man like that. One who makes texting, loving, and being there for you seem effortless. Don’t settle for less.