Ti meriti qualcuno che ti mandi un sms della buonanotte ogni notte

I know you’re tired of men who’re good for nothing. Tired of the texting games, being ignored and taken for granted.

I know you’re exhausted from giving your best and getting the worst in return.

So che vuoi qualcosa di più. Dovresti volere di più. Ti meriti di più.

Meritate di stare con qualcuno che si ricordi sempre di darvi la buonanotte con un messaggio. È semplice. Complicato per la maggior parte degli uomini.

Un messaggio di buonanotte da parte dell'uomo con cui si sta insieme sembra un piccolo gesto, ma significa tutto.

Siete il pensiero principale della sua mente prima di addormentarsi.

He’s thinking of you. He cares. He wants you in his life. You are his priority.

Yes, that’s all hidden beneath that small yet thoughtful and messaggio romantico da parte sua.

You need someone like that. Someone who doesn’t complicate simple things such as a text goodnight.

Someone who won’t hide his feelings and play hard to get.

You don’t need a man who plays games and leaves you deciphering his actions or lack thereof.

Potreste fare a meno di una persona che vi tira per la giacchetta e vi fa credere che la vostra relazione sia più di quello che è in realtà.

Qualcuno che è più concentrato ad avvicinarsi a voi tra le lenzuola che ad avvicinarsi al vostro cuore.

You don’t need a guy who’s cheap with texts because he will be cheap in everything else.

He will be cheap with his feelings, time, affection, warmth, and love – and that’s not how things are supposed to be.

He’s supposed to shower you with kisses. He should hug you long and tight so that you feel like you’re where you belong.

Your man should show you respect and understanding. He should let you know that you’re the only one for him and that his feelings are genuine.

Se non riesce a farlo, fallirà con voi.

Avete bisogno di un uomo che sia abbastanza coraggioso da dimostrarvi che vi vuole nella sua vita.

He’s the only one who will make you feel safe. He won’t make you question his intentions.

He’ll be so honest and open that you won’t have any mixed signals to decipher.

He will reassure you and silence your overthinking, show you that relationships shouldn’t be painful, and demonstrate that love doesn’t equal hurt.

That’s not so hard. All he needs to do is send at least a text goodnight on his busiest day.

Con quel semplice messaggio, ti dimostra che trova sempre il tempo per te anche quando il mondo diventa frenetico.

With that one simple text, he says you are important to him and he can’t imagine ending his day without hearing from you.

So don’t allow anyone to convince you that you’re needy if you want him to text, show up, and make an effort.

You’re not asking for too much – it’s nothing less than you yourself are willing to give.

It’s nothing out of this world. It’s showing you care in the plainest possible way.

If you are investing, he should too. The relationship needs two people. Love has to come from both sides. If it doesn’t, it’s not true.

La maggior parte di noi donne è colpevole di un errore gigantesco: Diamo troppo e ci accontentiamo di poco dall'uomo della nostra vita.

We become too available. We drop everything to be with them. We initiate texts all the time. We even send a followup text when he doesn’t reply.

Dimentichiamo la nostra vita e ci concentriamo su di essa. Ignoriamo i nostri bisogni e diamo priorità ai loro.

Even though we hate to admit it, we do it. And it’s high time we stop.

Not just because it’s making your man pull away, but because this approach will never make us happy.

Sì, Anche le donne devono inviare un messaggio di buonanotte – we need to make the effort. But only if we have the right man who we can do it for.

Solo un uomo che vi incontra a metà strada è degno dei vostri sforzi, un uomo che è disposto a dimostrare con i fatti che vi vuole bene e vi rispetta.

You need reciprocity in every step of your relationship, from the beginning to the end. You need to get back what you’re willing to give, otherwise it’s pointless.

So, don’t believe a man who says he’s too busy to text you goodnight (or to prima ti mando un messaggio).

Nobody is that busy. If he cared, he would text – and not just goodnight, but testi del buongiorno e anche i testi del pomeriggio.

You deserve a man like that. One who makes texting, loving, and being there for you seem effortless. Don’t settle for less.