Não se contente com um homem que já a deixou uma vez

Por favor, não caiam nessa armadilha mais uma vez. Por favor, não sejam tão ingénuos.

You think that things are going to be different, you think he has changed for the better, but deep down you know that’s not true.

What’s happening to you now is you’re lonely. You miss him and you feel rejected, so your heart longs to go back to something familiar and safe.

Quer voltar à fase da sua relação em que se sentia confortável e feliz.

Esqueceste-te da humilhação, de ficar sempre em segundo lugar. Esqueceste-te de todas as coisas más que aconteceram.

You only remember the good times and… you miss them. You suppressed the real reason why the two of you didn’t work out.

Don’t go back to the person who ripped your heart out and stomped on it. Don’t go back to the person who treated you like a doormat.

Don’t once again let yourself feel less worthy, devastated, and betrayed.

Lembra-se de quanto tempo demorou a recuperar? Quanto tempo passou até começar a sentir-se novamente como o seu antigo eu?

I know you don’t want to go there again, but for the sake of preventing yourself from making a terrible mistake, take a trip down memory lane and remember all the things you went through.

Lembra-te de como ele te partiu o coração. Lembra-te das lágrimas que derramaste e da dor no peito que te invadia sempre que pensavas nele.

É preciso lembrar-se de todos os pormenores que se forçou a esquecer.

You need to stop yourself from going back to the person who hurt you. He did it once, he’ll do it again.

Forget about all the promises he made; they don’t mean squat.

Don’t you think you deserve a man who will at least go through with something he said? Don’t you think you deserve that much?

És muito mais do que ele te convenceu a ser. A tua fasquia devia ser muito mais alta do que a dele.

I can’t believe I’m saying this once again, but I have to because it’s true – don’t go back to him, he doesn’t deserve you.

You know he’ll come running back to you for the same reason you miss him, if he hasn’t come already.

He got scared, he’s lonely, and he wants to get back to the last things known to him. He wants to get back to the safer version of life with you in it.

He’ll tell you everything you ever wanted to hear.

He’ll do everything you asked him to do so many times in the past but never did. He’ll show a face you always wanted him to wear.

Don’t believe those fairytales. Don’t believe his lies. Don’t go back.

Ele já a deixou, não tem o direito de a expor ao risco de ser magoada novamente.

He had a chance to love you and he blew it. He can’t have another one. You mustn’t give it to him.

A vida continua e, depois de tudo o que passaste com ele, achas mesmo que ele é a pessoa que estava destinada a amar-te?

Achas mesmo que ele vai estar presente, para o bem e para o mal, em tudo o que a vida te atira?

Foge dele, querida. Foge e nunca olhes para trás. Abre as portas para o novo amor que está a entrar na tua vida.

Welcome the new with an open heart and a hope of true love. Don’t let your last relationship make you close inside and never let anyone in.

Don’t let him destroy your chance of happiness. Ele não vale a pena!

You deserve the world. I don’t know you, but if you’re reading this and if you recognize yourself, then you do: you do deserve every single thing I wrote.

Este texto não é sobre uma pessoa. Este texto não é sobre um único coração partido.

It’s about all of us who had that episode in our lives we’re trying to forget.

It’s about us who failed to recover from a broken heart, we who have a hard time letting go and moving on.

It’s for all of us who are on the verge of making a terrible mistake. For us who want to go back, knowing we shouldn’t.  

Please don’t! This too shall pass. It’s just a crisis that you can go through. It’s just another battle fought to win the whole war.

Don’t go back to lies and fake promises. Don’t go back to insecurity and thinking you’re not good enough.

Tu és suficientemente boa. Só tens de ser paciente para que o homem certo apareça.

O homem certo verá como é especial. Ele confiará em si e respeitá-la-á. Nunca duvidará de si.

And you know what? He’ll never hurt you.

Mas acho que já sabes isso.