No te conformes con un hombre que ya te ha dejado una vez

Por favor, no vuelvas a caer en esa trampa. Por favor, no seas tan ingenuo.

You think that things are going to be different, you think he has changed for the better, but deep down you know that’s not true.

What’s happening to you now is you’re lonely. You miss him and you feel rejected, so your heart longs to go back to something familiar and safe.

Quieres volver a la fase de vuestra relación en la que estabais cómodos y felices.

Te olvidaste de la humillación, de quedar siempre en segundo lugar. Te olvidaste de todas las cosas malas que pasaron.

You only remember the good times and… you miss them. You suppressed the real reason why the two of you didn’t work out.

Don’t go back to the person who ripped your heart out and stomped on it. Don’t go back to the person who treated you like a doormat.

Don’t once again let yourself feel less worthy, devastated, and betrayed.

¿Recuerdas cuánto tardaste en recuperarte? ¿Cuánto tardaste en volver a sentirte como antes?

I know you don’t want to go there again, but for the sake of preventing yourself from making a terrible mistake, take a trip down memory lane and remember all the things you went through.

Recuerda cómo te rompió el corazón. Recuerda las lágrimas que derramaste y el dolor en el pecho que te invadía cada vez que pensabas en él.

Necesitas recordar cada detalle que te obligaste a olvidar.

You need to stop yourself from going back to the person who hurt you. He did it once, he’ll do it again.

Forget about all the promises he made; they don’t mean squat.

Don’t you think you deserve a man who will at least go through with something he said? Don’t you think you deserve that much?

Eres mucho más de lo que él te convenció de ser. Tu listón debería estar mucho más alto que él.

I can’t believe I’m saying this once again, but I have to because it’s true – don’t go back to him, he doesn’t deserve you.

You know he’ll come running back to you for the same reason you miss him, if he hasn’t come already.

He got scared, he’s lonely, and he wants to get back to the last things known to him. He wants to get back to the safer version of life with you in it.

He’ll tell you everything you ever wanted to hear.

He’ll do everything you asked him to do so many times in the past but never did. He’ll show a face you always wanted him to wear.

Don’t believe those fairytales. Don’t believe his lies. Don’t go back.

Ya te ha dejado, no tiene derecho a exponerte al riesgo de que te vuelvan a hacer daño.

He had a chance to love you and he blew it. He can’t have another one. You mustn’t give it to him.

La vida sigue y de todo lo que pasaste con él, ¿realmente crees que es la persona que estaba destinada a amarte?

¿De verdad crees que va a estar ahí para lo bueno y para lo malo, en todo lo que la vida te depare?

Huye de él, cariño. Huye y nunca mires atrás. Abre las puertas al nuevo amor que llega a tu vida.

Welcome the new with an open heart and a hope of true love. Don’t let your last relationship make you close inside and never let anyone in.

Don’t let him destroy your chance of happiness. No vale la pena!

You deserve the world. I don’t know you, but if you’re reading this and if you recognize yourself, then you do: you do deserve every single thing I wrote.

Este texto no trata de una sola persona. Este texto no trata de un solo corazón roto.

It’s about all of us who had that episode in our lives we’re trying to forget.

It’s about us who failed to recover from a broken heart, we who have a hard time letting go and moving on.

It’s for all of us who are on the verge of making a terrible mistake. For us who want to go back, knowing we shouldn’t.  

Please don’t! This too shall pass. It’s just a crisis that you can go through. It’s just another battle fought to win the whole war.

Don’t go back to lies and fake promises. Don’t go back to insecurity and thinking you’re not good enough.

Eres lo suficientemente buena. Sólo tienes que ser paciente para que llegue el hombre adecuado.

El hombre adecuado verá lo especial que eres. Confiará en ti y te respetará. Nunca dudará de ti.

And you know what? He’ll never hurt you.

Pero creo que ya lo sabes.