O que é que os homens gostam de ouvir? 35 elogios PODEROSOS

O que é que os homens gostam de ouvir? Gostam das mesmas coisas que as mulheres ou, afinal, os homens são intrinsecamente diferentes?

That’s what we’re here to decipher. People in general love certain things a certain way. It’s unlikely you’ll meet two different women who’ll appreciate specific things in the same way.

When it comes to men, it can be challenging to find a powerful compliment that they’ll appreciate on a deeper level.

Lucky for you, I’ve tested a whole bunch, and I’m going to share my findings with you.

If you’ve found amor verdadeiro e estão num estado saudável, relação romântica but still can’t figure out how to make your man blush, I’ve uncovered the best ways to hit the mark.

The best thing about this? It’ll strengthen your bond (at least a little bit) and make your man feel as desired as he (probably) makes you feel all the time. Isn’t that cool?

Ao contrário do que se pensa, os homens também gostam de ouvir que têm um ótimo aspeto (entre muitas, muitas outras coisas).

Sussurrar-lhe palavras doces ao ouvido é uma óptima forma de aumentar a sua autoestima e tornar a sua vida quotidiana muito melhor.

I’m sure you’re already doing a good job at being an awesome girlfriend. But little things like occasional compliments will make the best times that much better and the bad days much more bearable.

After all, a relationship is a two-way street. If he does the little things so well, it’s time you kick it up a notch!
Without further ado, here’s what every guy LOVES to hear but will (probably) never tell you.

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I’m not a relationship expert per se, but through my extensive research on this topic, I’ve found that THESE sweet compliments make all the difference.

Sinto-me tão sortuda por vos ter.

Complimenting his physical appearance certainly does the job. But for a long term relationship, you need to think deeper. I’ve found that guys respond well to this one.

Men love knowing how important they are in their girl’s life and what a difference they make.

Don’t think for a second that it’s cheesy. This is important for any relationship. Never forget that your words are his safety net for bad days.

Adoro o facto de dizeres sempre a coisa certa.

Posso dizer-vos pelo menos 5 coisas que o meu homem diz e que me alegram instantaneamente.

I’m sure yours is similar. I don’t know what it is, but when you’re with someone for so long, they just know how to always say the right thing. At least my man does.

If you lucked out in this department, by all means, tell him. Judging by how all men from my research responded to this, you’ll make him one happy dude.

A sua capacidade de se dar bem com as pessoas é espantosa.

Who doesn’t like to be told that they’re super friendly and nice? Personally, one of my favorite things about my guy is how much he genuinely loves people.

I don’t think he’s ever met someone he couldn’t find common ground with. Is your man anything like that? Congrats! Now go out there and make his day.

Acredito em ti (e sempre acreditarei).

Por vezes, a vida acontece e os nossos sonhos ficam em suspenso. Os tempos tornam-se difíceis e é necessário algum encorajamento. Diz-lhe que acreditas nele.

Seja o vento sob as asas dele e apoie-o, aconteça o que acontecer. Estas coisas são muito importantes.

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Fica a saber que agradeço tudo o que fazes por mim.

The way he listens to you ramble on about Becky from work without rolling his eyes. All the times he has picked you up from a drunken night out when you couldn’t drive.

Every “little thing” he does that makes your daily life more bearable means a great deal. Acknowledge it.

Querida, preciso da tua ajuda para resolver isto!

What do guys like to hear? That they’re needed! ESPECIALLY to fix things around the house.

It could be opening a jar of pickles for you or fixing the faulty faucet in the bathroom – anything to make him feel capable and appreciated.

Obrigado por ouvires sempre o meu drama.

Todos nós sabemos que guys aren’t into discussing cada pequena coisa que lhes acontece durante o dia.

So, when you have a man who’ll gladly go over your entire day and jump in, sigh, and get annoyed FOR you, girl… Thank him. Not all men will do that, you know.

Uau, estás tão bonita hoje!

Even if he’s not built like Jason Momoa, he’s going to appreciate the sentiment.

Maybe he works hard at his physique, and it’s finally starting to show. Never neglect to notice the progress he’s been making. It’s most likely that you’re one of the reasons he wants to look good in the first place.

Quando se trabalha arduamente em algo, ser reconhecido por isso faz a diferença.

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Adoro o teu novo corte de cabelo!

It’s not only women who like to hear this compliment. Men love it too.

If you’ve noticed that he’s done something different with his hair, especially if he drastically changed it, be sure to notice it. He’ll be wondering what you think anyway, so you might as well beat him to it.

Tens a personalidade mais doce de todos os teus amigos.

In no way should you diss his buddies. But casually mention how you’ve landed on the right member of the crew. His buddies are probably cool and all.

But your guy just oozes sweetness that you can’t help but marvel at your impeccable taste (hehe).

És um pai fantástico (se ele tiver filhos)!

Se o seu homem é pai (ou se vocês têm filhos juntos), diga-lhe que faz um excelente trabalho com eles!

The role of a father is undoubtedly the most important one in his life. Hearing that you think he’s a good dad will make his day.

Being a parent is no picnic, as I’m sure you’re aware. There are beautiful days, as well as more challenging ones. Complimenting his skills as a dad will mean a lot to him.

Lida com situações difíceis com tanta facilidade.

There are two types of people: Those who get frustrated at the first sign of trouble and those who react rationally and calmly. I’m the former.

Se o seu homem tem a capacidade única de se manter calmo e controlado durante contratempos inesperados, case com ele! (Brincadeira).

But for real. Having someone around like that is life-saving. Don’t you agree? Sim? Ok, vai agradecer-lhe o mais rápido possível.

I’m sorry (for anything you may have done wrong recently).

Sometimes, I suck at apologizing. It’s not one of my best qualities, but I’m working on improving.

If you’ve been at fault recently (for any number of things) but found it hard to tell your man he was right, go right that wrong instantly.

Os rapazes raramente ouvem a famosa “I’m sorry, it was me.” Por isso, vai e pede desculpa por qualquer coisinha e vê a cara dele a ficar confusa.

You’re nothing like the other guys I dated.

Talvez até acrescentar algo do género: “You’re the best guy I’ve ever had. In EVERY aspect.”

Who wouldn’t go nuts for that? Even if it’s not true, it’s not like he’ll know. Stroke his ego and watch him be all proud of himself and his abilities.

There’s not a single thing I’d change about you.

I’m talking physically, emotionally, and mentally. He’s an amazing support system, he gets you on an emotional level, and he’s a real hunk!

Quando se pensa nisso, he’s a jackpot boyfriend. Why not tell him? It’ll make him love you that much more.

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Adoro os vossos amigos!

It’s so important to get along with your man’s crew. These are the people he chooses to have in his life, which means you’ll see them regularly.

Porque não fazer um esforço para se relacionar com eles? O seu homem vai ADORAR ouvir que você aprova os amigos dele. Isso torna a vida dele (e a sua) muito mais simples.

Quer ficar excitado?

This one’s self-explanatory. Guys will never say no to this question. Okay, maybe 0,1% of the time.
Aposto que ele vai baixar as calças antes mesmo de terminar a frase.

Tu iluminas o meu mundo.

De todas as coisas que se podem dizer, uma coisa destas vai iluminar o mundo dele. Mas, sinceramente, ter alguém cuja simples presença tem um efeito tão reconfortante em nós não tem preço.

Whenever I’m having a bad day, just seeing my man’s face lights up my mood. And you know that he’d be elated to hear something like this.

Sinto-me mais seguro nos teus braços.

Again, I don’t know how this happens, but I feel invincible whenever I’m with him. I don’t have a single worry in the world, and it’s like all my problems disappear.

Kind of like magic. While I don’t like to be cheesy (okay, por vezes I do…), when something’s true, you can’t NOT say it, am I right?

Os teus dotes culinários são de outro nível!

I love a man who can cook. Thankfully, I lucked out on that front. If you can relate to this, you’re one lucky gal.

O que é que os homens gostam de ouvir mais do que a maioria das coisas? That they’re cooking is TOP-NOTCH. Just trust me on this one.

I’m on your side.

Whatever happens to him, you’ll always be by his side. Tell him that he never has to question your loyalty.
Not that he ever has, but it’s important to reassure him from time to time.

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Tens toda a minha confiança.

O que é que os homens acham atraente? Uma rapariga que confia nele. As raparigas que não se importam que os seus homens saiam para a cidade sem rebentarem com os seus telemóveis são ROCK.

Be that woman. Trust your man to be loyal to you. Trust him enough not to question his motives. If he’s never done anything to suggest otherwise, give him your trust. It means the world.

Como é que consegues fazer-me sorrir sempre?

What do guys like when flirting? Making you smile! Just saying it will make him giggle (even though he’ll try to hide it). Just watch him!

És TÃO trabalhadora.

Tell him how much you admire his work ethic. Tell him you’ve never met someone as ambitious and driven as him.

Ser reconhecido por ser um verdadeiro profissional no seu sector de atividade é uma sensação agradável.

Quero que tudo corra bem.

What kind of things do guys like? Effort and commitment. He likes to know that you’ll be there come hell or high water.

Show him you’re invested in a sua relação. Nada é mais atrativo do que duas pessoas decididas a fazer com que as coisas funcionem contra todas as probabilidades.

You’re the gift that keeps on giving.

Meaning his presence continues to make you happy daily. Every time you think he couldn’t possibly be more amazing, he proves otherwise.

Ninguém me consegue surpreender como tu.

Estar com alguém que nos pode surpreender (especialmente numa relação a longo prazo) é muito importante!

After having been together for so long, it’s hard not to predict each other’s every move. If your dude can STILL catch you by surprise, let him know how much you love it.

You’re so knowledgeable about (insert his areas of expertise).

What compliments do guys like to hear? Being told that they’re smart is for certo um deles.
Who doesn’t like to be admired for their intellect?

A vossa família é muito querida!

Meeting his parents can go well or badly. If you’re one of the lucky ones who actually gets along with his family, kudos.

Now, imagine how much he’s going to love hearing this from you?

Thank you for sticking by me even when I’m super needy.

We all get needy and difficult sometimes. But having a partner means having someone who’ll stick by you no matter what. If your dude is a source of constant support, thank him for it.

Some guys run the moment it gets serious. Only real men stay even when you’re pushing them away.

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Fazes de mim uma pessoa melhor de todas as formas possíveis.

Isto não é algo que se diga de ânimo leve. Se o seu homem a faz realmente sentir-se uma pessoa melhor, diga-lhe isso.

I feel exactly like that with my man. There’s just something about him that makes me want to be better and do better. I guess that’s what happens when you find your other half.

I’m at my happiest when I’m with you.

Tell him he’s your happy place. Tell him that when you’re by his side, there’s nowhere else you’d rather be.

The thing is, you have to mean it. Otherwise, who are you lying to? If your man makes you feel the happiest you’ve ever been, return the favor and make him the happiest ele‘s ever been.

You’re a ROCKSTAR!

My dude LOVES hearing this. He gets all excited and pretends as if I’m just being silly. But secretly, he loves to hear it almost as much as I love to say it.

Adoro ver a reação dele e a sua cara a ficar toda vermelha. Para dizer a verdade, ele toca guitarra como uma verdadeira estrela de rock, já para não falar da sua voz de cantor.

Encontrar algo o seu homem is amazingly good at, go out there and tell him. We all secretly want to be rockstars, don’t we?

You’re cuter than Ryan Reynolds and Channing Tatum combined!

Or any other celeb hunks that you (and him) find cute AF. Tell him that during a sweet, intimate moment when you know that he’ll know you mean it.

Sure, those guys are cute as hell, but if you’re being honest, you wouldn’t trade your guy for all the famous Ryan’s combined. He’s just too cute!

Estiveste fenomenal ontem à noite.

Acredita em mim. Os homens adoram ouvir que atingiram o ponto certo na cama. Se o teu homem faz isso por ti (e eu espero sinceramente que faça), não te esqueças de lhe dizer!

He’ll blush like never before, and it’ll work wonders for his self esteem. And you know what that means: He’ll be at 101% during your next rendezvous between the sheets!

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Nunca pense duas vezes antes de elogiar o seu homem

It shouldn’t even be a question of whether men like to be told nice things. They do! And I believe I’ve done a pretty thorough job answering your question: O que é que os homens gostam de ouvir?

Tell him he does it for you in bed. Tell him you feel invincible in his arms. Go on about his ability to make you smile when that’s the last thing you feel like doing. Men live for these things.

Besides, we live in the 21st century. Rules that used to apply are outdated and don’t work in today’s society when people are no longer expected to abide by their designated gender roles.

Os homens podem ter sentimentos too, and it’s silly to expect your guy to hide his just because he’s a man.

Encourage him to be in touch with his emotions. Show that you love his willingness to be vulnerable. THAT’S what being a man is all about.

Fora com as coisas machistas antigas, dentro com sermos nós próprios sem remorsos (independentemente do género).

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