¿Qué les gusta oír a los hombres? 35 PODEROSOS cumplidos

Qué les gusta oír a los chicos? ¿Disfrutan de las mismas cosas que las mujeres o, después de todo, los hombres son intrínsecamente diferentes?

That’s what we’re here to decipher. People in general love certain things a certain way. It’s unlikely you’ll meet two different women who’ll appreciate specific things in the same way.

When it comes to men, it can be challenging to find a powerful compliment that they’ll appreciate on a deeper level.

Lucky for you, I’ve tested a whole bunch, and I’m going to share my findings with you.

If you’ve found amor verdadero y están sanos, relación romántica but still can’t figure out how to make your man blush, I’ve uncovered the best ways to hit the mark.

The best thing about this? It’ll strengthen your bond (at least a little bit) and make your man feel as desired as he (probably) makes you feel all the time. Isn’t that cool?

En contra de la creencia popular, a los hombres también les gusta oír que están estupendos (entre otras muchas cosas).

Susurrarle cosas dulces al oído es una forma estupenda de aumentar su autoestima y hacer que su vida diaria sea mucho mejor.

I’m sure you’re already doing a good job at being an awesome girlfriend. But little things like occasional compliments will make the best times that much better and the bad days much more bearable.

After all, a relationship is a two-way street. If he does the little things so well, it’s time you kick it up a notch!
Without further ado, here’s what every guy LOVES to hear but will (probably) never tell you.

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I’m not a relationship expert per se, but through my extensive research on this topic, I’ve found that THESE sweet compliments make all the difference.

Me siento muy afortunada de tenerte.

Complimenting his physical appearance certainly does the job. But for a long term relationship, you need to think deeper. I’ve found that guys respond well to this one.

Men love knowing how important they are in their girl’s life and what a difference they make.

Don’t think for a second that it’s cheesy. This is important for any relationship. Never forget that your words are his safety net for bad days.

Me encanta que siempre digas lo correcto.

Puedo decirte al menos 5 cosas que mi hombre dirá y me alegrarán el ánimo al instante.

I’m sure yours is similar. I don’t know what it is, but when you’re with someone for so long, they just know how to always say the right thing. At least my man does.

If you lucked out in this department, by all means, tell him. Judging by how all men from my research responded to this, you’ll make him one happy dude.

Su capacidad para llevarse bien con la gente es asombrosa.

Who doesn’t like to be told that they’re super friendly and nice? Personally, one of my favorite things about my guy is how much he genuinely loves people.

I don’t think he’s ever met someone he couldn’t find common ground with. Is your man anything like that? Congrats! Now go out there and make his day.

Creo en ti (y siempre lo haré).

A veces, la vida pasa y tus sueños quedan en suspenso. Los tiempos se ponen difíciles y se necesita mucho ánimo. Dile que crees en él.

Sé el viento bajo sus alas y apóyale pase lo que pase. Estas cosas ayudan mucho.

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Que sepas que aprecio cada cosa que haces por mí.

The way he listens to you ramble on about Becky from work without rolling his eyes. All the times he has picked you up from a drunken night out when you couldn’t drive.

Every “little thing” he does that makes your daily life more bearable means a great deal. Acknowledge it.

¡Nena, necesito tu ayuda para arreglar esto!

What do guys like to hear? That they’re needed! ESPECIALLY to fix things around the house.

It could be opening a jar of pickles for you or fixing the faulty faucet in the bathroom – anything to make him feel capable and appreciated.

Gracias por escuchar siempre mi drama.

Todos sabemos que guys aren’t into discussing cada pequeña cosa que les ocurra durante el día.

So, when you have a man who’ll gladly go over your entire day and jump in, sigh, and get annoyed FOR you, girl… Thank him. Not all men will do that, you know.

¡Vaya, qué buen aspecto tienes hoy!

Even if he’s not built like Jason Momoa, he’s going to appreciate the sentiment.

Maybe he works hard at his physique, and it’s finally starting to show. Never neglect to notice the progress he’s been making. It’s most likely that you’re one of the reasons he wants to look good in the first place.

Cuando trabajas duro en algo, que te lo reconozcan marca la diferencia.

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¡Me encanta tu nuevo corte de pelo!

It’s not only women who like to hear this compliment. Men love it too.

If you’ve noticed that he’s done something different with his hair, especially if he drastically changed it, be sure to notice it. He’ll be wondering what you think anyway, so you might as well beat him to it.

Tienes la personalidad más dulce de todos tus amigos.

In no way should you diss his buddies. But casually mention how you’ve landed on the right member of the crew. His buddies are probably cool and all.

But your guy just oozes sweetness that you can’t help but marvel at your impeccable taste (hehe).

Eres un padre increíble (si es que tiene hijos).

Si tu chico es padre (o si tenéis hijos juntos), ¡dile lo bien que se porta con ellos!

The role of a father is undoubtedly the most important one in his life. Hearing that you think he’s a good dad will make his day.

Being a parent is no picnic, as I’m sure you’re aware. There are beautiful days, as well as more challenging ones. Complimenting his skills as a dad will mean a lot to him.

Manejas las situaciones difíciles con tanta facilidad.

There are two types of people: Those who get frustrated at the first sign of trouble and those who react rationally and calmly. I’m the former.

Si tu chico tiene la habilidad única de mantener la calma y la serenidad durante los contratiempos inesperados, ¡cásate con él! (Bromas).

But for real. Having someone around like that is life-saving. Don’t you agree? Sí? Vale, ve a darle las gracias cuanto antes.

I’m sorry (for anything you may have done wrong recently).

Sometimes, I suck at apologizing. It’s not one of my best qualities, but I’m working on improving.

If you’ve been at fault recently (for any number of things) but found it hard to tell your man he was right, go right that wrong instantly.

Los chicos rara vez oyen el famoso “I’m sorry, it was me.” Así que ve y discúlpate por cualquier minucia y observa su cara de confusión.

You’re nothing like the other guys I dated.

Tal vez incluso añadir algo como: “You’re the best guy I’ve ever had. In EVERY aspect.”

Who wouldn’t go nuts for that? Even if it’s not true, it’s not like he’ll know. Stroke his ego and watch him be all proud of himself and his abilities.

There’s not a single thing I’d change about you.

I’m talking physically, emotionally, and mentally. He’s an amazing support system, he gets you on an emotional level, and he’s a real hunk!

Si lo piensas bien, he’s a jackpot boyfriend. Why not tell him? It’ll make him love you that much more.

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¡Me encantan tus amigos!

It’s so important to get along with your man’s crew. These are the people he chooses to have in his life, which means you’ll see them regularly.

¿Por qué no hacer un esfuerzo por conectar con ellos? A tu hombre le ENCANTARÁ saber que apruebas a sus amigos. Le simplifica mucho la vida a él (y a ti).

¿Quieres ponerte juguetón?

This one’s self-explanatory. Guys will never say no to this question. Okay, maybe 0,1% of the time.
Apuesto a que se bajará los pantalones antes de que llegues a terminar la frase.

Iluminas mi mundo.

De todas las cosas que puedes decir, algo así iluminará SU mundo. Pero, sinceramente, tener a alguien cuya mera presencia tiene un efecto tan tranquilizador en ti no tiene precio.

Whenever I’m having a bad day, just seeing my man’s face lights up my mood. And you know that he’d be elated to hear something like this.

Me siento más segura en tus brazos.

Again, I don’t know how this happens, but I feel invincible whenever I’m with him. I don’t have a single worry in the world, and it’s like all my problems disappear.

Kind of like magic. While I don’t like to be cheesy (okay, a veces I do…), when something’s true, you can’t NOT say it, am I right?

¡Tus habilidades culinarias están a otro nivel!

I love a man who can cook. Thankfully, I lucked out on that front. If you can relate to this, you’re one lucky gal.

¿Qué es lo que más les gusta oír a los chicos? That they’re cooking is TOP-NOTCH. Just trust me on this one.

I’m on your side.

Whatever happens to him, you’ll always be by his side. Tell him that he never has to question your loyalty.
Not that he ever has, but it’s important to reassure him from time to time.

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Tienes toda mi confianza.

¿Qué es lo que atrae a los hombres? Una chica que confía en él. Las chicas que están perfectamente de acuerdo con sus hombres salir por la ciudad sin volar sus teléfonos ROCK.

Be that woman. Trust your man to be loyal to you. Trust him enough not to question his motives. If he’s never done anything to suggest otherwise, give him your trust. It means the world.

¿Cómo consigues hacerme sonreír siempre?

What do guys like when flirting? Making you smile! Just saying it will make him giggle (even though he’ll try to hide it). Just watch him!

Eres TAN trabajadora.

Tell him how much you admire his work ethic. Tell him you’ve never met someone as ambitious and driven as him.

Que te reconozcan por ser un auténtico profesional en tu trabajo es una sensación agradable.

Quiero que hagamos que funcione.

What kind of things do guys like? Effort and commitment. He likes to know that you’ll be there come hell or high water.

Show him you’re invested in tu relación. No hay nada más atractivo que dos personas decididas a hacer que funcione contra viento y marea.

You’re the gift that keeps on giving.

Meaning his presence continues to make you happy daily. Every time you think he couldn’t possibly be more amazing, he proves otherwise.

Nadie puede sorprenderme como tú.

Estar con alguien que pueda sorprenderte (sobre todo en una relación duradera) es muy importante.

After having been together for so long, it’s hard not to predict each other’s every move. If your dude can STILL catch you by surprise, let him know how much you love it.

You’re so knowledgeable about (insert his areas of expertise).

What compliments do guys like to hear? Being told that they’re smart is for seguro uno de ellos.
Who doesn’t like to be admired for their intellect?

¡Tu familia es de lo más dulce!

Meeting his parents can go well or badly. If you’re one of the lucky ones who actually gets along with his family, kudos.

Now, imagine how much he’s going to love hearing this from you?

Thank you for sticking by me even when I’m super needy.

We all get needy and difficult sometimes. But having a partner means having someone who’ll stick by you no matter what. If your dude is a source of constant support, thank him for it.

Some guys run the moment it gets serious. Only real men stay even when you’re pushing them away.

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Me haces mejor persona en todos los sentidos posibles.

Esto no se dice a la ligera. Si tu hombre realmente te hace sentir mejor persona, díselo.

I feel exactly like that with my man. There’s just something about him that makes me want to be better and do better. I guess that’s what happens when you find your other half.

I’m at my happiest when I’m with you.

Tell him he’s your happy place. Tell him that when you’re by his side, there’s nowhere else you’d rather be.

The thing is, you have to mean it. Otherwise, who are you lying to? If your man makes you feel the happiest you’ve ever been, return the favor and make him the happiest he‘s ever been.

You’re a ROCKSTAR!

My dude LOVES hearing this. He gets all excited and pretends as if I’m just being silly. But secretly, he loves to hear it almost as much as I love to say it.

Me encanta ver su reacción y cómo se le pone la cara colorada. Toca la guitarra como una auténtica estrella del rock, por no hablar de su preciosa voz.

Encuentra algo tu hombre is amazingly good at, go out there and tell him. We all secretly want to be rockstars, don’t we?

You’re cuter than Ryan Reynolds and Channing Tatum combined!

Or any other celeb hunks that you (and him) find cute AF. Tell him that during a sweet, intimate moment when you know that he’ll know you mean it.

Sure, those guys are cute as hell, but if you’re being honest, you wouldn’t trade your guy for all the famous Ryan’s combined. He’s just too cute!

Estuviste fenomenal anoche.

Créeme. A los tíos les ENCANTA oír que han dado en el clavo en la cama. Si tu chico lo hace por ti (y sinceramente espero que lo haga), ¡asegúrate de decírselo!

He’ll blush like never before, and it’ll work wonders for his self esteem. And you know what that means: He’ll be at 101% during your next rendezvous between the sheets!

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No dude en piropear a su hombre

It shouldn’t even be a question of whether men like to be told nice things. They do! And I believe I’ve done a pretty thorough job answering your question: ¿Qué les gusta oír a los chicos?

Tell him he does it for you in bed. Tell him you feel invincible in his arms. Go on about his ability to make you smile when that’s the last thing you feel like doing. Men live for these things.

Besides, we live in the 21st century. Rules that used to apply are outdated and don’t work in today’s society when people are no longer expected to abide by their designated gender roles.

Los hombres llegan a tener sentimientos too, and it’s silly to expect your guy to hide his just because he’s a man.

Encourage him to be in touch with his emotions. Show that you love his willingness to be vulnerable. THAT’S what being a man is all about.

Fuera el antiguo machismo, dentro ser uno mismo sin complejos (sin importar el género).

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