Deus não está a testar a sua relação, o seu parceiro é apenas tóxico

You know what this is? This isn’t just some lame letter. It’s an intervention. For you.

Eu percebo-te mesmo, a sério que sim. Estás perdidamente apaixonada por ele e tentas justificá-lo sempre que ele te faz alguma coisa má.

Compreendo-o porque já estive no vosso lugar. Já estive tão cegamente apaixonada por um homem. Juro que esse homem podia fazer tudo o que quisesse e, mesmo assim, eu nunca o deixaria.

Eu entreguei-me demasiado a essa relação. Era esse tipo de amor quando se esquece tudo e todos à sua volta. Essa pessoa torna-se o centro do seu mundo.

O meu mundo girava apenas à volta dele. A nossa relação tornou-se a única coisa que era importante para mim.

Ele tornou-se o meu último pensamento antes de me deitar, o meu primeiro pensamento quando acordei. A razão do meu sorriso. Num período tão curto de tempo, ele tornou-se o meu universo inteiro.

I know that there are no guarantees in life but I never could even imagine that I’d fall so deeply in love with someone who’d be my worst nightmare in the end.

I gave my all to a man who didn’t even deserve for me to wave at him when I see him on the street.

Por causa dele, perdi muitas pessoas que me amavam sinceramente e arrependo-me disso até hoje.

He never gave me any reason to love him at all and even so, I loved him with all my heart. I couldn’t explain that to anyone.

I think that’s how love actually is—unexplainable and unreasonable. However, I know that you get me.  

Ele só está a brincar contigo, confia em mim. You are worth so much more than that. You are worthy of a man who’ll be able to love you the same way you love him and even more. Someone who’ll appreciate and cherish you.

I turned my back on all the people who spoke badly about him—my family and friends… They all tried to warn me that he wasn’t good for me but I didn’t want to listen. 

Pensei que estavam apenas a ser invejosos.

Ciúmes de quê? De uma relação tão tóxica e danificada? De um homem que me desrespeitou e humilhou tantas vezes?

I didn’t think clearly back then. Now I do but it’s too late. I already hurt my loved ones, people who only wanted to save me from that toxic man and who only wanted what was best for me.

This is my story and I only wanted to get through to you through my experience. I wanted to share my story with you and make you realize what is also waiting for you if you don’t stop it in time.

Don’t blame God anymore for your damaged relationship. Trust me, God is always on your side. He would never make you suffer like you’re suffering right now.

God isn’t testing your relationship. All those terrible things that you’re going through right now aren’t God’s fault. It’s only your partner. He is the one who makes you suffer so much.

Acorda. He doesn’t love you and he never will. He’s there only because he knows how you feel about him and that you’ll do whatever it takes to keep him in your life.

I know that he often tells you how he loves you more than anything in this world and how he’ll stay with you until the end, no matter what.

Esses são apenas palavras and words mean nothing when his actions speak differently. Remember that he’s a player and a pretty good one. He’s good with words because he knows that most women like to hear sweet words.

Por favor, sejam mais espertos do que eu fui. Deixem-no de uma vez por todas. Don’t allow yourself to lose all the people who love you because of a man who never did.

As hard as it is, you have to burn that bridge. You have to close that chapter. It’s time to listen to that advice from your loved ones.

It’s time to take back control over your own life. It’s time to make a change. It’s time to admit that you were wrong all this time. It’s time to show that toxic man who o verdadeiro jogador é.

Confia em mim, há um capítulo melhor escrito para ti no teu livro da vida but you’ll never be able to open it until you completely close the old one.