Dios no está poniendo a prueba tu relación, tu pareja es tóxica

You know what this is? This isn’t just some lame letter. It’s an intervention. For you.

Te entiendo de verdad, de verdad. Estás perdidamente enamorada de él y tratas de justificarlo cada vez que te hace algo malo.

Lo entiendo porque una vez estuve en tu lugar. Una vez estuve ciegamente enamorada de un hombre. Juro que ese tipo podía hacer lo que quisiera y aun así, nunca lo dejaría.

Me volqué demasiado en esa relación. Era esa clase de amor cuando olvidas todo y a todos los que te rodean. Esa persona se convierte en el centro de tu mundo.

Todo mi mundo giraba sólo en torno a él. Nuestra relación se convirtió en lo único importante para mí.

Se convirtió en mi último pensamiento antes de irme a la cama, mi primer pensamiento al despertarme. La razón de mi sonrisa. En tan poco tiempo, se convirtió en todo mi universo.

I know that there are no guarantees in life but I never could even imagine that I’d fall so deeply in love with someone who’d be my worst nightmare in the end.

I gave my all to a man who didn’t even deserve for me to wave at him when I see him on the street.

Por su culpa, perdí a mucha gente que me quería de verdad y lo lamento hasta el día de hoy.

He never gave me any reason to love him at all and even so, I loved him with all my heart. I couldn’t explain that to anyone.

I think that’s how love actually is—unexplainable and unreasonable. However, I know that you get me.  

Sólo está jugando contigo, confía en mí. You are worth so much more than that. You are worthy of a man who’ll be able to love you the same way you love him and even more. Someone who’ll appreciate and cherish you.

I turned my back on all the people who spoke badly about him—my family and friends… They all tried to warn me that he wasn’t good for me but I didn’t want to listen. 

Pensé que sólo estaban celosos.

¿Celosa de qué? ¿De una relación tan tóxica y dañada? ¿De un hombre que me faltó al respeto y me humilló tantas veces?

I didn’t think clearly back then. Now I do but it’s too late. I already hurt my loved ones, people who only wanted to save me from that toxic man and who only wanted what was best for me.

This is my story and I only wanted to get through to you through my experience. I wanted to share my story with you and make you realize what is also waiting for you if you don’t stop it in time.

Don’t blame God anymore for your damaged relationship. Trust me, God is always on your side. He would never make you suffer like you’re suffering right now.

God isn’t testing your relationship. All those terrible things that you’re going through right now aren’t God’s fault. It’s only your partner. He is the one who makes you suffer so much.

Despierta. He doesn’t love you and he never will. He’s there only because he knows how you feel about him and that you’ll do whatever it takes to keep him in your life.

I know that he often tells you how he loves you more than anything in this world and how he’ll stay with you until the end, no matter what.

Esos son sólo palabras and words mean nothing when his actions speak differently. Remember that he’s a player and a pretty good one. He’s good with words because he knows that most women like to hear sweet words.

Por favor, sé más listo que yo. Déjalo de una vez por todas. Don’t allow yourself to lose all the people who love you because of a man who never did.

As hard as it is, you have to burn that bridge. You have to close that chapter. It’s time to listen to that advice from your loved ones.

It’s time to take back control over your own life. It’s time to make a change. It’s time to admit that you were wrong all this time. It’s time to show that toxic man who el verdadero jugador es.

Confía en mí, hay un capítulo mejor escrito para ti en tu libro de la vida but you’ll never be able to open it until you completely close the old one.