Você partiu o coração dela, mesmo que ela nunca tenha sido realmente sua

Vocês nunca estiveram juntos, mas mesmo assim, partiste-lhe o coração.

Partiste-lhe o coração de cada vez que lhe deste aquele olhar que só tu sabes dar.

Partia-lhe o coração de cada vez que lhe ligava para o telefone.

Partias-lhe o coração cada vez que lhe tocavas.

You made her feel special around you. You made her love you although she wasn’t supposed to. You made her love you but you knew you couldn’t love her back. You made her feel wanted.
Ela aceitou todos os teus gestos e todas as tuas palavras e pensou que eram para ela.

And if they were meant for her, you changed your mind. You decided it was better not to love her. But, it was already too late. You’d already broken her heart.

Deste-lhe muito do teu tempo. Deste-lhe uma razão para te amar. Também gostava da companhia dela, mas algo o afastou da ideia de a amar.

That’s when you broke her heart.

Partiste-lhe o coração quando a viste no seu ponto mais baixo. Traíste-a quando deste a impressão de que ela te podia contar todos os seus segredos.

Partiste-lhe o coração quando ela pensou que podia confiar em si.

The first time you kissed and the first time you slept together weren’t the same for her as they were for you. You used her. You needed someone to be with, but just for that brief moment when you were feeling lonely.

She needed you for the rest of her life. She had put everything she had at stake. She wanted to take a risk—you.

Deste-lhe a ideia de que vocês os dois ficariam juntos no futuro. Mas esse futuro nunca chegou. Tens de aceitar que és responsável pela dor do desgosto dela. Independentemente dos seus motivos, quer o tenha feito de propósito ou não, tem de aceitar que foi você que lhe partiu o coração.

If you didn’t want to be in this situation, you shouldn’t have let her so close to you. You shouldn’t have texted her. You shouldn’t have hung out with her. You shouldn’t have let her fall in love with you.

That’s why you have to man up and own up to your mistakes. You have to give her an explanation. No matter how hard it is for you to come up with a few cohesive sentences explaining why you did what you did, you have to explain yourself.

Otherwise, she will doubt every single second you spent together. She will repeat your conversations in her head, over and over. She will overanalyze every little thing you’ve ever done or said.

Ela até duvidará que alguma vez tenha gostado dela.

She is not an idiot. She will see you with another girl. She deserves to know why she wasn’t the one who was holding your hand.

Ela fê-lo uma vez. O que é que aconteceu?

Ela tem o direito de saber.