Porque é que tens de ser uma rapariga que simplesmente não quer saber

Ser egoísta. A sério. Sê egoísta. Desde quando é que se pode ignorar completamente a nossa vida e as nossas necessidades para fazer com que outra pessoa se sinta melhor? E quanto a ti? E a tua vida? A tua vida conta?

You’re only going to get one chance to live it. There is no going back. You can’t turn back time and if you don’t take care of yourself, one day you’ll be sorry. One day you’ll regret putting yourself last.

Focus on your goals and your dreams because if you don’t try to make yourself happy, no one else will do it for you.

Eu sei quem tu és porque eu sou tu.

És o único ombro onde os outros podem chorar. Quando os teus amigos se sentem merdoso, they go to you because they know you’ll make them feel better.

You’ll tell them to put themselves first, to love themselves and do what makes them happy. But are you doing the same thing for yourself?

Let me tell you the answer: You’re not. When someone else is hurting, you know just the right thing to say but in the meantime, you don’t even see that you’re going through the same thing.

Ignoras completamente a tua própria dor.  

You don’t even see that you are unhappy, that you put everyone else before you. Your dreams and your goals decay because you’re too busy saving other people’s lives. Just stop it!

Siga o seu próprio conselho e viva a sua vida ao máximo!

Muda toda a tua vida se for preciso. Começar tudo de novo.

Sei que é mais fácil falar do que fazer, mas se queres que as coisas melhorem, não tens outra opção.

You can pretend that you’re happy and keep living the way you live but you’ll reach your ponto de rutura and you’ll want to start all over. The thing is, it may happen too late. Maybe then you won’t be able to do anything about it.

Por isso, faça-o agora!

Mude-se para outra cidade, se quiser. Se se levanta todas as manhãs com um mau pressentimento no estômago porque tem de ir para um emprego que detesta, mude de carreira. Encontre algo que o faça sentir melhor.

Here’s a thought: If it’s possible, do it.

Don’t worry about other people. Don’t worry about what they are going to say to you or how they are going to react. Think of your new decisions as a means of understanding who actually gives a damn about you.

You’ll see; people who really care for you, people who love you, will support you. They will try to make your path easier and they won’t judge you.

Aqueles que lhe viram as costas são os que consomem a maior parte da sua energia. São vampiros emocionais, pessoas que se alimentam de ti para se sentirem melhor.

Life is not easy and this is the cheesiest sentence ever but it’s true: You never know where it’s going to take you. You never know what you are going to live through.

All the roads you have taken, you chose to take for a reason. All the wrong choices you’ve made led you to maturity and realization. Not giving a fuck is just one of the things you have to do.

Temos de aprender com os nossos erros e trabalhar em nós próprios. É preciso aprender a ama-te a ti próprio porque ninguém é mais importante para ti do que tu próprio.

Don’t be scared of the people who judge. They will always have a reason to say something, no matter what you do. Even if you give it everything you’ve got, they will find a reason to say something bad.

Hang out with whomever you want to hang out with. Do whatever you want to do, even if you know it’s wrong. You have to do it to make sure you won’t do it ever again. Blow off some steam and never hold anything inside.

If you do, it will explode eventually. You won’t be able to hold it in any longer, and then you’ll be screwed. Then you’ll realize that every time you wanted to do something and you didn’t, that was a time you destroyed yourself a little bit more.

Veste o que quiseres vestir e mantém a cabeça erguida. Caminha pela estrada como se fosses o dono dela, porque se quisesses, podias. Ninguém te pode fazer mal e tu sabes disso.

Mostre o seu respeito por si próprio e brilhe com confiança. Deixe simplesmente de se preocupar.

You’re not supposed to live life unnoticed. You were born one of a kind, unique. Live your life that way. Don’t let that beautiful interior of yours perish. Don’t let it go unnoticed.

Brilha o mais possível porque só tens uma oportunidade para o fazer.

Hoje.

Agora.