Perché devi essere una ragazza che semplicemente non se ne frega niente

Siate egoisti. Sul serio. Siate egoisti. Da quando va bene ignorare completamente la propria vita e i propri bisogni per far sentire meglio qualcun altro? E voi? Che ne è della vostra vita? La vostra vita conta?

You’re only going to get one chance to live it. There is no going back. You can’t turn back time and if you don’t take care of yourself, one day you’ll be sorry. One day you’ll regret putting yourself last.

Focus on your goals and your dreams because if you don’t try to make yourself happy, no one else will do it for you.

So chi sei perché io sono te.

Siete la sola e unica spalla su cui gli altri possono piangere. Quando i tuoi amici si sentono di merda, they go to you because they know you’ll make them feel better.

You’ll tell them to put themselves first, to love themselves and do what makes them happy. But are you doing the same thing for yourself?

Let me tell you the answer: You’re not. When someone else is hurting, you know just the right thing to say but in the meantime, you don’t even see that you’re going through the same thing.

Ignorate completamente il vostro dolore.  

You don’t even see that you are unhappy, that you put everyone else before you. Your dreams and your goals decay because you’re too busy saving other people’s lives. Just stop it!

Seguite il vostro stesso consiglio e vivete la vostra vita al massimo!

Cambiate tutta la vostra vita, se necessario. Ricominciare tutto da capo.

So che è più facile a dirsi che a farsi, ma se volete che le cose migliorino, non avete altra scelta.

You can pretend that you’re happy and keep living the way you live but you’ll reach your punto di rottura and you’ll want to start all over. The thing is, it may happen too late. Maybe then you won’t be able to do anything about it.

Quindi, fatelo subito!

Trasferitevi in un'altra città se volete. Se vi alzate ogni mattina con una brutta sensazione allo stomaco perché dovete andare a un lavoro che odiate, cambiate carriera. Trovate qualcosa che vi faccia sentire meglio.

Here’s a thought: If it’s possible, do it.

Don’t worry about other people. Don’t worry about what they are going to say to you or how they are going to react. Think of your new decisions as a means of understanding who actually gives a damn about you.

You’ll see; people who really care for you, people who love you, will support you. They will try to make your path easier and they won’t judge you.

Coloro che vi voltano le spalle sono quelli che assorbono la maggior parte delle vostre energie. Sono vampiri emotivi, persone che si nutrono di voi per sentirsi meglio.

Life is not easy and this is the cheesiest sentence ever but it’s true: You never know where it’s going to take you. You never know what you are going to live through.

All the roads you have taken, you chose to take for a reason. All the wrong choices you’ve made led you to maturity and realization. Not giving a fuck is just one of the things you have to do.

Bisogna imparare dai propri errori e lavorare su se stessi. Dovete imparare a amare se stessi perché nessuno è più importante di voi stessi.

Don’t be scared of the people who judge. They will always have a reason to say something, no matter what you do. Even if you give it everything you’ve got, they will find a reason to say something bad.

Hang out with whomever you want to hang out with. Do whatever you want to do, even if you know it’s wrong. You have to do it to make sure you won’t do it ever again. Blow off some steam and never hold anything inside.

If you do, it will explode eventually. You won’t be able to hold it in any longer, and then you’ll be screwed. Then you’ll realize that every time you wanted to do something and you didn’t, that was a time you destroyed yourself a little bit more.

Indossate quello che volete e tenete la testa alta. Camminate per la strada come se fosse vostra, perché se lo voleste, potreste farlo. Nessuno può farvi del male e lo sapete.

Mostra il tuo rispetto per te stesso e risplendi di fiducia. Smettete semplicemente di fregarvene.

You’re not supposed to live life unnoticed. You were born one of a kind, unique. Live your life that way. Don’t let that beautiful interior of yours perish. Don’t let it go unnoticed.

Risplendete al massimo delle vostre possibilità, perché avete solo questa occasione per farlo.

Oggi.

Ora.