Pratique o distanciamento social em relação a quem nunca o mereceu

Para onde quer que se olhe, todos chamam a atenção para a importância do distanciamento social.

They tell you that it’s crucial for you to keep as far away from people as possible because that’s the only way to save your own as well as others’ lives.

But I’m not here to talk to you about this. I’m not here to help you get through the lockdown or inspire you to do something with your life during this time.

No entanto, estou aqui para falar sobre distanciamento social independentemente do vírus.

Aqui para vos dizer o significado de se distanciar daqueles que nunca mereceram estar perto de si em primeiro lugar.

Para variar, deixem de dar acesso àqueles que continuam a fazer-vos mal. Aqueles que te estão a fazer mal e a tornar a tua vida miserável.

I don’t care if we’re talking about your emotional partner, about someone you think of as your best friend, or even one of your closest family members, be it your parents or siblings.

Forget about feeling guilty, because you don’t owe anyone anything. Don’t let your history with someone prevent you from making the right choice.

Stop thinking about how you kicking them out of your life would make these people feel. After all, they don’t think about the consequences of their actions when they treat you like shit, do they now?

Stop worrying whether they’ll make it without you. You’re no one’s guardian angel and it’s not your job to salvar os outros, especially those who clearly don’t want to be saved.

Por isso, por favor, comecem a concentrar-se em vocês próprios. It’s not selfish to get rid of everyone who is upsetting your inner peace.

It’s not selfish to move away from those who are doing everything they can to put you down. Those who are holding you back from reaching your full potential.

The people who keep on telling you that you’re not enough.

Corte pessoas tóxicas off doesn’t make you an awful person. Instead, it means that you’re a woman who loves herself more than she loves others – and that is exactly how things should be.

Escaping from everyone who plays with your head and heart doesn’t make you a horrible person.

Lembra-te: Abandoning those who don’t love you back the way they should, don’t respect you, and don’t appreciate your sacrifices is an act of self-care.

There is nothing bad in distancing yourself from their negative energy and bad vibe. In fact, it is probably the best thing you’ll ever do for yourself.

Let’s get one thing clear: Whoever is not treating you the way merece needs to be cut out as soon as possible. Whoever is taking advantage of you in any way whatsoever shouldn’t have that privilege anymore.

Agora é o momento de aprender a importância de se colocar em primeiro lugar. The importance of not allowing others to have an effect on your happiness and not letting anyone who doesn’t deserve you be a part of your life.

It’s time for you to learn how to love yourself before expecting someone else to do it. To learn how to respect and appreciate yourself.

It’s right now that you have to finally realize how much you deserve, and that settling for less is not an option.

Por conseguinte, mesmo quando este auto-isolamento passar, por favor continue a praticar o distanciamento social. Don’t build high walls around you, but be cautious about who you give access to your heart.

Be careful who gets the entrance pass into your life. Be wary about the ones you’ll let close to you.

Afinal de contas, if this lockdown has taught you anything, it’s that you don’t actually need that many people to get through rough waters. Apesar do que possa ter pensado, a verdade é que pode fazê-lo sozinho muito bem.

You’re capable of facing life’s difficulties without anyone holding your hand. Therefore, you certainly don’t need someone to shoot you in the foot on your path to progress.

Lembre-se: é sempre melhor estar sozinho do que em má companhia.