Quando alguém diz o seu nome num texto: 13 significados ocultos
Here’s a funny but true observation: every time my parents called me by my name when I was little, I would freak out because I knew it was because I either said or did something I shouldn’t have.
As I was growing up, I realized that this “fear” was also present during texting. When someone says my name in a text, I immediately become alert, even if there’s no valid reason for it. 😂
Well, after some time, I’ve realized that there are various reasons why someone calls you by your name in a text. It could be because they’re trying to grab your attention or because they want to make the texting session more personal.
Here’s one pro tip: Don’t freak out when someone says your name in a text. Below you’ll find all the possible reasons and hidden meanings related to this “phenomenon”!
O que significa quando alguém diz o seu nome numa mensagem de texto?
The things guys and girls say in a text can have deeper meanings. There’s so much more behind the simple act of writing a person’s name in a text message, and the following reasons prove that:
1. Querem captar a sua atenção
When a girl or a guy texts you using your name, it’s their way of saying, “Hey, I’m here for you, and I’m giving you my undivided attention.”
It’s a perfect way to remind you how much you mean to them without sending you corny GIFs or jokes. Saying your name in a text is an elegant way of grabbing your attention and making you feel excited about what they’re going to say next.
2. Gostam do seu nome
When you like someone, their name becomes your favorite name in the world. You can’t help but mention it a million times a day because you get a dopamine shot every time you say it. 🤣
The same applies to when someone says your name in a text. That girl or guy likes you (and your name), and that’s why they can’t help but continue mentioning it.
They’ll use every single opportunity to say your name in a text because their brain is programmed to use it frequently and to think about you almost all the time.
3. They’re thinking about you A LOT
When I think about my old crushes, it’s hilarious how much time I spent daydreaming about them. I couldn’t study, work, or do anything without them coming to mind.
Então, como é que se pode saber que alguém está a pensar em si? Quando alguém diz o seu nome num texto, este é um dos indicadores de que passa muito tempo a pensar em si.
Têm vontade de dizer o seu nome mais do que o necessário. Even though they’re aware of the fact that it may seem creepy, they can’t help but keep calling you by your name in a text.
4. They’re trying to connect with you on a deeper level
Saying someone’s name in a text is like maintaining eye contact when talking in person. It has that deep touch, and it makes the conversation more personal.
A pessoa que diz o seu nome numa mensagem de texto também sabe que isso a ajudará a ligar-se a si a um nível mais profundo. Sempre que dizem o seu nome em pessoa ou numa mensagem de texto, ficam entusiasmados e curiosos com a sua reação.
It may sound funny, but saying each other’s names can create a stronger bond. It’s like saying, “You’re my favorite person,” várias vezes por dia sem o dizer.
5. It’s also a way of flirting
Quando uma rapariga ou um rapaz inclui o seu nome numa mensagem seguida de emojis de flirt, then you know they’re flirting with you. When I’m flirting with someone, I also like to use lots of dots. It makes your text more mysterious, and it has this deep undertone.
However, I must admit that saying someone’s name accompanied by emojis is a far better flirting alternative. If you’re interested in flirting back, try mentioning their name as well.
I bet the texting chemistry will become so intense that you’ll have to take a break from texting only to remind yourself to breathe properly. 😉
6. Ou podem estar desiludidos com algo que disse ou fez
Oh, no! Whenever someone says my name, this is the first thing that comes to my mind. I always think that I’ve done something wrong, and that’s why they’re calling me by my name.
Often, this is not the case, but sometimes it is. Think about the things you recently said or did when it comes to that person, and you’ll find your answer.
If they’re not a passive-aggressive type of person, then you can expect them to tell you exactly how they feel and why they’re calling you by your formal name.
7. Querem fazer-te sentir especial
When a girl or a guy calls you by your formal name in a text, this doesn’t have to mean that they’re being serious. They’re actually trying to make you feel special.
Quando alguém de quem gostamos nos chama pelo nosso nome, como é que nos sentimos? Sente-se imediatamente dez vezes mais quente do que estava? Eu sei que sim.
It’s a little bit more difficult to achieve that effect via text, but it’s not impossible. So, yes, when they say your name in a text, it’s their attempt to make you feel special and loved.
O especialista americano em auto-aperfeiçoamento Dale Carnegie confirma-o com as seguintes palavras: “Remember that a person’s name is, to that person, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.”
8. They’re interested in being more than friends with you
São apenas amigos? There are so many girl friends and guy friends who are dying to be something more than just friends with the person they’re into.
If they’re a rapaz tímido or girl, or if they think you don’t like them in return, they will not open up to you so easily. Em vez disso, procurarão formas subtis de mostrar o seu afeto.
For example, they will frequently say your name in a text, praying that you notice. It’s obvious that they’re interested in being more than friends with you, but the question is: Do you notice?
9. They’re initiating a serious conversation with you
Serious text conversations are always tough because you can’t see the person, you can’t feel their vibe, and you certainly don’t know how to start “talking.”
When talking in person, you can at least make a serious facial expression so that the person knows you’re about to start talking in a more serious manner. When texting, you don’t have many options to start a serious conversation. Well, you do.
One popular method is saying the other person’s name. If your convo is far from flirty, then saying one’s name is a universal sign that you’re about to say something really important.
Assim, quando alguém diz o seu nome numa mensagem de texto, esta pode ser a razão. Perhaps they’re interested in talking about your relationship status or other things that require your full attention and a more serious approach.
10. Querem ver a sua reação
Dizer algo como Olá ou What’s up doesn’t have the same effect as saying someone’s name. Regular greetings are just regular, and they don’t imply anything hidden. However, when you say someone’s name in a text, this can mean a lot of things.
One of them is that they’re trying to see your reaction. Now, why would they do that? Maybe because they like you? Or because they’re trying to flirt with you and make your day.
Há muitas explicações possíveis para este facto, e eu digo sempre que devemos seguir o nosso instinto. Also, when someone is interested in seeing your reaction, this can only mean positive things, so there is no need to worry! 😉
11. Because they’re not a fan of corny pet names
Talvez chamá-lo pelo seu nome verdadeiro seja o seu nome de estimação preferido. Nem todos nós somos fãs de nomes de animais de estimação. Porquê? Porque a maior parte deles são muito pirosos e nada originais.
If they constantly call you by your name in a text, this can mean that they’ve chosen to use your name instead of a corny pet name. Por outras palavras, o seu nome é uma alternativa a um apelido.
It can also be that they just need more time until they find a perfect nickname for you. Until then, they’ll continue calling you by your name.
12. Sentem verdadeiramente a tua falta
Existe alguma forma de dizer Eu amo-te ou Tenho saudades tuas sem o dizer de facto? Yes, there is. Saying someone’s name in a text can be an alternative to romantically expressing your feelings.
You can say someone’s name in lots of different tones. When it comes to texting, you can’t hear the tone of their voice, but their intention is what matters.
Saying your name in a text can mean that they miss you a lot and can’t wait to see you again. They just don’t know how to say that, so they keep repeating your name.
13. They’re attracted to you
Saying someone’s name in a text can also be a strong sign of attraction and a sign of respect. Quando alguém se sente atraído por si, o seu nome torna-se o nome preferido dessa pessoa, que o diz com orgulho e entusiasmo.
Como saberá que a pessoa se sente atraída por si? Quando o vir pessoalmente, preste atenção à sua linguagem corporal e à forma como se comporta à sua volta.
Há toques subtis ou contacto visual profundo? Estão a tentar fazer-te rir? Se sim, então sabe they’re attracted to you a um nível mais profundo.
Quando alguém se sente atraído por si, vai naturalmente procurar formas de se aproximar de si. E sim, haverá muitos toques subtis envolvidos.
Como é que se pode saber se alguém gosta de nós através de um texto secreto?
Pode dizer-se que alguém gosta de si através de mensagens de texto se essa pessoa enviar emojis de sedução, fizer muitas perguntas e perguntar sobre o seu dia. Enviam-lhe mensagens de boa noite calorosas e partilham consigo coisas importantes que acontecem na sua vida.
A vossa química textual é quase palpável porque eles fazem realmente um esforço quando se trata de enviar mensagens de texto. O seu objetivo é fazê-lo rir e alegrar o seu dia.
Se a maior parte das coisas que se seguem se repercutirem na pessoa, então sabe que ela gosta muito de si:
• They always text you first
• You have química textual
• They always let you know when they can’t text
• They send flirty emojis
• They ask questions
• They want to know more about you
• They like hearing about your day
• They text back immediately
• They send you textos de bom dia
• They send long texts
• They enjoy hearing about your day
• They send you frequent random texts
• They update you on important things
• They make you laugh
• They send you textos de boa noite
• They compliment you
Conclusão
Quando alguém diz o seu nome numa mensagem de texto, pode estar a a namoriscar consigoou apenas para ver a sua reação. Há várias razões para alguém dizer o seu nome num texto, e a forma mais fácil de o descobrir é através do contexto.
If they like you and you like them back, then try saying their name in a text as well. This will let them know that you’re on the same page. The best of all is that you don’t need to talk about it, but you will say everything just by saying your names. 😊
