10 características verdadeiras de um homem leal

A lealdade é uma caraterística que é tão difícil de encontrar nas pessoas atualmente, especialmente quando falamos de homens.

There is so much temptation and everything is too available, so it’s basically so hard to resist and if you don’t have a strong character, you’ll fold under pressure.

When you are in a mature relationship, the only thing (in the beginning at least) you want to be sure of is that your man is faithful. But, the thing is you can’t get to know your partner in a few weeks or a month or so.

There are people who get married and after years of marriage, they still don’t know everything about each other.

Então, existe uma fórmula mágica que garanta que o seu principal é fiel e leal a si?

Muitas pessoas são enganadas e isso abate-as. São confrontadas com a traição e o abandono.

The person they trusted played with them and afterwards, it’s hard to bounce back from it. It’s hard to trust someone again because you’re expecting the same thing to happen.

Nesse sentido, embora não exista uma fórmula mágica para saber se ele é fiel ou não, há algumas características que definem um homem fiel e, se o seu homem as tiver, não tem nada com que se preocupar.

Ele é altruísta

If your man doesn’t put himself first all the time, it means he really cares about your needs.

Cheating is the most awful form of selfishness and if he did that to you, he doesn’t deserve a second chance—no matter how hard he begs for it.

If he is that selfish and that much of a coward that he can’t admit he wants out from a relationship, then he is not worthy of your time.

A true and loyal man is selfless and doesn’t care that much about himself.

Ele nunca se coloca em primeiro lugar e quer sempre envolver-te em tudo o que faz. Quer que faças parte da vida dele. Esse tipo de o homem é um guardião.

Ele é emocionalmente inteligente

Não só inteligente de uma forma normal, mas emocionalmente inteligente. Ele sabe como agir quando há sentimentos envolvidos.

Ele sabe que, antes de dizer algo, tem de pensar bem nas coisas.

So pay attention. If he doesn’t say the first thing that comes up to his mind, he is not just some regular douchebag.

Ele apoia a sua carreira

Atualmente, muitos homens sentem-se ameaçados por as mulheres e o seu sucessoespecialmente se as mulheres estiverem numa boa fase e forem mais bem sucedidas do que os homens.

But the man who is by your side will be happy for what you’ve accomplished.

Ele apoiará a sua carreira e ajudá-lo-á a ultrapassar todos os obstáculos que encontrar. O seu sucesso é como o dele.

Ele nunca quebra promessas

If he said that he’ll do something, he’ll do it. If he promises to take you on a field trip on a Saturday morning, you can be sure he won’t break his promise last minute. If something really comes up, he’ll make sure to make up for it.

If he says he’ll ditch his friends and won’t watch the game because he promised to hang out with you, he’ll do it.

But also, he will never make a promise he can’t keep. I think that’s fair enough.

Ele não tem interesse noutras mulheres

If he’s dating you, he’s dating you. You are the center of his universe and he doesn’t need to feel gratified by flirting with other women.

You attention is all he needs and he shows that to you every day. He won’t look at other women, not in a sexual and lusty way.

As a matter of fact, the hottest girl can walk by him and you’ll notice her, so will he, but he won’t turn his head 180 degrees and forget to walk for a few seconds.

Ele verifica-o

He makes sure that you are okay. If you haven’t seen each other for a few hours, he’ll call you just to check up on you. He wants to hear your voice and wants to make sure that you’re fine.

Ele gosta muito de si e quer que se sinta segura e amada.

If you’re sick, he’ll be there to take care of you and tuck you in before you go to sleep.

Ele vai à farmácia buscar os medicamentos e preparar a sopa se for preciso.

Ele preocupa-se com a vossa relação

Ele quer investir nela. Quer torná-la mais forte. Ele está a tentar tanto quanto tu e isso é algo que nunca deves ignorar.

A loyal man will never talk trash about a person he loves and if he hears someone attacking you or your relationship, he’ll take a stand and defend it because no one will talk trash about his woman.

Ele quer que confiem nele

And not only does he want that, but he works on it every day. He’ll never do something that will make you suspect him and there will be no lies between the two of you.

Conversation is his main technique and as long as you two talk things out, there will be no problem between the two of you and you won’t have any reason not to trust him. Honesty is a big plus.

He’s not an attention seeker

Ele não é o tipo de homem que quer atenção, que quer que toda a gente goste dele.

He doesn’t seek approval and with that kind of behavior, he is less likely to do things he shouldn’t with other women.

He just doesn’t feel the need to be accepted by anyone except you.

You’re not a threat to him

Ele nunca competirá consigo porque o seu sucesso é tão importante para ele como para si.

Ele colocar-vos-á desafios, mas isso não é mau. Só nos pode fazer querer esforçarmo-nos mais e sermos melhores.

He understands that you have your own life, you have to go through it by yourself and all your accomplishments won’t depress him, but the exact opposite—they will make him also want to be better.