10 vere caratteristiche di un uomo fedele

La lealtà è una caratteristica difficile da trovare nelle persone di oggi, soprattutto quando si parla di uomini.

There is so much temptation and everything is too available, so it’s basically so hard to resist and if you don’t have a strong character, you’ll fold under pressure.

When you are in a mature relationship, the only thing (in the beginning at least) you want to be sure of is that your man is faithful. But, the thing is you can’t get to know your partner in a few weeks or a month or so.

There are people who get married and after years of marriage, they still don’t know everything about each other.

Esiste quindi una formula magica per far sì che il vostro principale vi sia fedele e leale?

Molte persone vengono tradite e questo le abbatte. Si trovano di fronte al tradimento e all'abbandono.

The person they trusted played with them and afterwards, it’s hard to bounce back from it. It’s hard to trust someone again because you’re expecting the same thing to happen.

In quest'ottica, anche se non esiste una formula magica per sapere se è fedele o meno, ci sono alcuni tratti che definiscono un uomo fedele e se il vostro uomo li possiede, allora non avete nulla di cui preoccuparvi.

È altruista

If your man doesn’t put himself first all the time, it means he really cares about your needs.

Cheating is the most awful form of selfishness and if he did that to you, he doesn’t deserve a second chance—no matter how hard he begs for it.

If he is that selfish and that much of a coward that he can’t admit he wants out from a relationship, then he is not worthy of your time.

A true and loyal man is selfless and doesn’t care that much about himself.

Non mette mai se stesso al primo posto e vuole sempre coinvolgervi in tutto ciò che fa. Vuole che tu faccia parte della sua vita. Questo tipo di l'uomo è un custode.

È emotivamente intelligente

Non solo intelligente in modo normale, ma anche emotivamente intelligente. Sa come agire quando sono coinvolti i sentimenti.

Sa che prima di dire qualcosa deve pensarci bene.

So pay attention. If he doesn’t say the first thing that comes up to his mind, he is not just some regular douchebag.

Sostiene la vostra carriera

Molti uomini oggi si sentono minacciati da le donne e il loro successosoprattutto se le donne sono in buona salute e hanno più successo degli uomini.

But the man who is by your side will be happy for what you’ve accomplished.

Egli sosterrà la vostra carriera e vi aiuterà a superare tutti gli ostacoli che incontrerete. Il vostro successo è come se fosse il suo.

Non infrange mai le promesse

If he said that he’ll do something, he’ll do it. If he promises to take you on a field trip on a Saturday morning, you can be sure he won’t break his promise last minute. If something really comes up, he’ll make sure to make up for it.

If he says he’ll ditch his friends and won’t watch the game because he promised to hang out with you, he’ll do it.

But also, he will never make a promise he can’t keep. I think that’s fair enough.

Non ha interesse per altre donne

If he’s dating you, he’s dating you. You are the center of his universe and he doesn’t need to feel gratified by flirting with other women.

You attention is all he needs and he shows that to you every day. He won’t look at other women, not in a sexual and lusty way.

As a matter of fact, the hottest girl can walk by him and you’ll notice her, so will he, but he won’t turn his head 180 degrees and forget to walk for a few seconds.

Ti controlla

He makes sure that you are okay. If you haven’t seen each other for a few hours, he’ll call you just to check up on you. He wants to hear your voice and wants to make sure that you’re fine.

Si preoccupa profondamente di voi e vuole che vi sentiate sicuri e amati.

If you’re sick, he’ll be there to take care of you and tuck you in before you go to sleep.

Correrà in farmacia a prendervi le medicine e vi preparerà la zuppa se ne avrete bisogno.

Si preoccupa della vostra relazione

Vuole investire in essa. Vuole renderlo più forte. Si sta impegnando tanto quanto voi e questo è un aspetto che non dovete mai ignorare.

A loyal man will never talk trash about a person he loves and if he hears someone attacking you or your relationship, he’ll take a stand and defend it because no one will talk trash about his woman.

Vuole che vi fidiate di lui

And not only does he want that, but he works on it every day. He’ll never do something that will make you suspect him and there will be no lies between the two of you.

Conversation is his main technique and as long as you two talk things out, there will be no problem between the two of you and you won’t have any reason not to trust him. Honesty is a big plus.

He’s not an attention seeker

Non è il tipo di uomo che vuole attenzione, che vuole piacere a tutti.

He doesn’t seek approval and with that kind of behavior, he is less likely to do things he shouldn’t with other women.

He just doesn’t feel the need to be accepted by anyone except you.

You’re not a threat to him

Non entrerà mai in competizione con voi perché il vostro successo conta per lui quanto conta per voi.

Vi porrà delle sfide, ma non è una cosa negativa. Può solo farvi venire voglia di impegnarvi di più e di essere migliori.

He understands that you have your own life, you have to go through it by yourself and all your accomplishments won’t depress him, but the exact opposite—they will make him also want to be better.