10 verdaderos rasgos de un hombre leal

La lealtad es un rasgo muy difícil de encontrar en la gente hoy en día, sobre todo cuando hablamos de hombres.

There is so much temptation and everything is too available, so it’s basically so hard to resist and if you don’t have a strong character, you’ll fold under pressure.

When you are in a mature relationship, the only thing (in the beginning at least) you want to be sure of is that your man is faithful. But, the thing is you can’t get to know your partner in a few weeks or a month or so.

There are people who get married and after years of marriage, they still don’t know everything about each other.

Entonces, ¿existe una fórmula mágica que garantice que tu principal te sea fiel y leal?

A muchas personas las engañan y eso las abate. Se enfrentan a la traición y al abandono.

The person they trusted played with them and afterwards, it’s hard to bounce back from it. It’s hard to trust someone again because you’re expecting the same thing to happen.

En ese sentido, aunque no existe una fórmula mágica para saber si es fiel o no, hay algunos rasgos que definen a un hombre leal y si tu hombre los tiene, entonces no tienes nada de qué preocuparte.

Es desinteresado

If your man doesn’t put himself first all the time, it means he really cares about your needs.

Cheating is the most awful form of selfishness and if he did that to you, he doesn’t deserve a second chance—no matter how hard he begs for it.

If he is that selfish and that much of a coward that he can’t admit he wants out from a relationship, then he is not worthy of your time.

A true and loyal man is selfless and doesn’t care that much about himself.

Nunca se antepone a sí mismo y siempre quiere involucrarte en todo lo que hace. Quiere que formes parte de su vida. Ese tipo de el hombre es un guardián.

Es emocionalmente inteligente

No sólo inteligente de forma normal, sino emocionalmente inteligente. Sabe cómo actuar cuando hay sentimientos de por medio.

Sabe que antes de decir algo, tiene que pensárselo bien.

So pay attention. If he doesn’t say the first thing that comes up to his mind, he is not just some regular douchebag.

Apoya tu carrera

Hoy en día, muchos hombres se sienten amenazados por las mujeres y su éxitosobre todo si las mujeres llevan una buena racha y tienen más éxito que los hombres.

But the man who is by your side will be happy for what you’ve accomplished.

Apoyará tu carrera y te ayudará a superar todos los obstáculos que encuentres. Tu éxito es como el suyo.

Nunca rompe sus promesas

If he said that he’ll do something, he’ll do it. If he promises to take you on a field trip on a Saturday morning, you can be sure he won’t break his promise last minute. If something really comes up, he’ll make sure to make up for it.

If he says he’ll ditch his friends and won’t watch the game because he promised to hang out with you, he’ll do it.

But also, he will never make a promise he can’t keep. I think that’s fair enough.

No tiene interés en otras mujeres

If he’s dating you, he’s dating you. You are the center of his universe and he doesn’t need to feel gratified by flirting with other women.

You attention is all he needs and he shows that to you every day. He won’t look at other women, not in a sexual and lusty way.

As a matter of fact, the hottest girl can walk by him and you’ll notice her, so will he, but he won’t turn his head 180 degrees and forget to walk for a few seconds.

Te controla

He makes sure that you are okay. If you haven’t seen each other for a few hours, he’ll call you just to check up on you. He wants to hear your voice and wants to make sure that you’re fine.

Le importas mucho y quiere que te sientas segura y querida.

If you’re sick, he’ll be there to take care of you and tuck you in before you go to sleep.

Irá corriendo a la farmacia a comprarte medicinas y te preparará sopa si lo necesitas.

Se preocupa por su relación

Quiere invertir en ella. Quiere fortalecerla. Lo está intentando tanto como tú y eso es algo que nunca debes ignorar.

A loyal man will never talk trash about a person he loves and if he hears someone attacking you or your relationship, he’ll take a stand and defend it because no one will talk trash about his woman.

Quiere que confíes en él

And not only does he want that, but he works on it every day. He’ll never do something that will make you suspect him and there will be no lies between the two of you.

Conversation is his main technique and as long as you two talk things out, there will be no problem between the two of you and you won’t have any reason not to trust him. Honesty is a big plus.

He’s not an attention seeker

No es el tipo de hombre que quiere llamar la atención, que quiere gustar a todo el mundo.

He doesn’t seek approval and with that kind of behavior, he is less likely to do things he shouldn’t with other women.

He just doesn’t feel the need to be accepted by anyone except you.

You’re not a threat to him

Nunca competirá contigo porque tu éxito le importa tanto como a ti.

Te pondrá retos, pero eso no es malo. Sólo puede hacer que quieras esforzarte más y ser mejor.

He understands that you have your own life, you have to go through it by yourself and all your accomplishments won’t depress him, but the exact opposite—they will make him also want to be better.