An emotional affair is something that happens often nowadays. We live in a world where it is very easy to reach out to someone—even if you are not physically next to them. The fact is that it is really hard to see if your partner is having an emotional affair or not, but if you pay attention to his body language and the words that come out of his mouth a little bit more, you can easily find out if your man is faithful to you or he is thinking of someone else when he is with you.

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1. Ele leva o telemóvel para todo o lado

You know that your man always used to leave his phone all over the house, but recently, he takes it away even when he goes to the toilet. Maybe he doesn’t want you to see texts that he can receive while he is not around or he doesn’t want the other person to wait a long time for a response. Whatever the reason, that is not a good sign, but before you accuse him of anything, make sure you have the real proof that he was unfaithful to you.

2. Ele não menciona o nome dela

If you are talking with your man about his job and he starts telling you a story about his coworker (that is btw a hot, young lady), he doesn’t say her name during the whole story but he addresses her as ‘she’. That is a sign that something is not right because he call every other woman by her name. If you see some other red flag sign except this one, you can be positive that your man is having an caso emocional.

3. Não faz sexo com a mesma frequência que antes

Vê que o seu parceiro criou uma distância entre vocês os dois. Ele já não vai para a cama à mesma hora que você só para evitar ter relações sexuais consigo. Diz que está cansado e, por isso, passa mais tempo ao telemóvel ou a ver televisão sozinho. Todos estes podem ser sinais de um caso emocional, por isso certifique-se de que fala abertamente com o seu parceiro sobre isso. Talvez ainda consigam salvar a vossa relação se reagirem a tempo.

4. Tem um comportamento secreto

If your man keeps some things as secrets from you but the rest of his friends know about them, it is a sign that something is not right anymore. He doesn’t want you to know important things in his life and he rather spend time with others than with you. Also, hiding his phone or changing his passwords on your shared PC is a sign for an alert.

5. Ele está a criticá-lo

Ele faz isso porque a compara com a pessoa com quem está a ter um caso emocional. E se disser algo que possa ofender ligeiramente essa pessoa, ele ficará extremamente defensivo em relação a ela. É capaz de a rebaixar por não ser como a pessoa com quem está a ter um caso.

6. Age de forma distante

Se passa tempo com ele mas sente que ele só está presente fisicamente, pode ter a certeza de que algo não está bem. It doesn’t need to be a sign of an emotional affair, but there is some problem. Try to talk to him and make him open up to you. Maybe the situation will not be so bad afterwards.

7. O seu instinto diz-lhe que algo está errado

Women are blessed with a sixth sense and if you feel that something is wrong, it probably is. You can admit to your man that you don’t feel so close to him anymore and that you don’t want to feel like that because it scares you. Pay attention to his reaction to find out if he is having an affair. If he gets mad about it, it is a surefire sign that he is hiding something. On the other hand, if he explains calmly to you that everything is fine, be patient and listen to everything that he has to say.