An emotional affair is something that happens often nowadays. We live in a world where it is very easy to reach out to someone—even if you are not physically next to them. The fact is that it is really hard to see if your partner is having an emotional affair or not, but if you pay attention to his body language and the words that come out of his mouth a little bit more, you can easily find out if your man is faithful to you or he is thinking of someone else when he is with you.

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1. Lleva su teléfono a todas partes

You know that your man always used to leave his phone all over the house, but recently, he takes it away even when he goes to the toilet. Maybe he doesn’t want you to see texts that he can receive while he is not around or he doesn’t want the other person to wait a long time for a response. Whatever the reason, that is not a good sign, but before you accuse him of anything, make sure you have the real proof that he was unfaithful to you.

2. No menciona su nombre

If you are talking with your man about his job and he starts telling you a story about his coworker (that is btw a hot, young lady), he doesn’t say her name during the whole story but he addresses her as ‘she’. That is a sign that something is not right because he call every other woman by her name. If you see some other red flag sign except this one, you can be positive that your man is having an aventura emocional.

3. No tienes sexo tan a menudo como antes

Ves que tu pareja ha puesto distancia entre los dos. Ya no se acuesta a la misma hora que tú para evitar tener relaciones sexuales contigo. Dice que está cansado, así que pasa más tiempo al teléfono o viendo la tele solo. Todos esos pueden ser signos de una aventura emocional, así que asegúrate de hablar abiertamente con tu pareja sobre ello. Quizá aún podáis salvar vuestra relación si reaccionáis a tiempo.

4. Se comporta de forma reservada

If your man keeps some things as secrets from you but the rest of his friends know about them, it is a sign that something is not right anymore. He doesn’t want you to know important things in his life and he rather spend time with others than with you. Also, hiding his phone or changing his passwords on your shared PC is a sign for an alert.

5. Te está criticando

Lo hace porque te compara con la persona con la que tiene una aventura emocional. Y en caso de que digas algo que pueda ofender ligeramente a esa persona, se pondrá extremadamente a la defensiva con ella. Puede que te menosprecie porque no eres como la persona con la que está teniendo una aventura.

6. Actúa distante

Si pasas tiempo con él pero sientes que sólo está físicamente, puedes estar segura de que algo no está bien. It doesn’t need to be a sign of an emotional affair, but there is some problem. Try to talk to him and make him open up to you. Maybe the situation will not be so bad afterwards.

7. Tu instinto te dice que algo va mal

Women are blessed with a sixth sense and if you feel that something is wrong, it probably is. You can admit to your man that you don’t feel so close to him anymore and that you don’t want to feel like that because it scares you. Pay attention to his reaction to find out if he is having an affair. If he gets mad about it, it is a surefire sign that he is hiding something. On the other hand, if he explains calmly to you that everything is fine, be patient and listen to everything that he has to say.