Está na altura de admitires a ti próprio que mereces mais

It’s time. You waited long enough for him to change, for things to progress, for better days, for more love, for more respect, for more affection, for more of everything you have been unconditionally giving to him. It’s time you admit to yourself you deserve better.

I know your heart doesn’t want to deixar ir. Ainda está a agarrar-se à esperança de que as coisas vão melhorar. Que o teu amor o vai mudar.

That he will finally open his eyes and see you for the precious treasure you are. But if he hasn’t so far, chances are he never will.

Queres coisas simples e normais. Queres alguém que esteja lá para ti.

Queres ser tratada com respeito. Queres um homem que te trate como se fosses a única e mais bela mulher da Terra.

Querem alguém que corresponda aos vossos esforços. Quer alguém que seja capaz de o amar tanto quanto você o ama.

Mas, em troca, continuas a receber metade do seu coração, metade do seu amor, esforços e investimentos de meia-tigela.

For all of you, you are getting just half of him and it isn’t enough. It’s not nearly enough. You deserve so much better.

Sei que estás cansada de tudo. Está cansada de ser infeliz a toda a hora, por vezes até sem razão, porque ele simplesmente lhe deu demasiadas razões no passado.

Sente-se emocionalmente esgotado e, por vezes, até entorpecido por toda a dor. Mas a principal razão para a sua infelicidade é o facto de saber que, no fundo, é assentamento for someone who doesn’t deserve you.

You don’t trust him anymore. He betrayed your trust so many times that even when things are going great, you are unable to relax and enjoy the moment.

You are full of doubts and you can’t shake off that feeling of fear that he will hurt your feelings one more time.

You keep begging him for more time. You are not unreasonable and you know that both of you have to have time for other important people in your life. Yet he doesn’t give you nearly enough time.

He would much rather spend all his time with his friends or do ‘whatever’ than spend it with you. Yet every time you start letting go, he is there and he doesn’t allow you to go.

He should always give you his attention—not only when he is too afraid of losing you. You shouldn’t beg him for more of his time.

Ele deve estar desejoso de a ver sempre que tiverem oportunidade. Deveria ser a sua prioridade e não ter de esperar que ele se lembre que você existe.

You should have mutual trust so strong that nothing can jeopardize it. If he has already lost your trust, the odds are he can’t completely get it back.

Don’t spend your life in fear of his new betrayal. The worst thing about betrayal is that it hurts more the second time around, so stop giving him new chances to hurt you.

You shouldn’t feel tired from your relationship. If you have mutual love, you should feel inspired and energetic in such a way that you feel as if so you can conquer the world.

You should feel happy most of the time. I am not saying all the time because life isn’t all peachy. Life happens—you fight you work it out. But you should never feel like your partner is the sole cause of your misery.

Don’t settle for less than somebody who will love you in such a way that his main objetivo será para vos fazer felizes.

Don’t settle for half of anything.

Procura alguém que te possa dar tudo. Procura alguém que te trate com o respeito que mereces.

Don’t let one-sided love keep you attached to someone unworthy of you.

WEspera por alguém que te ame como se não houvesse amanhã.

Wait for someone you will love more than you ever thought possible. And believe me, that’s not the one you are with now.