Se ele te enviar estes 10 textos, então saberás que ele é um namorado de sucesso

A distância já não desempenha um papel importante nas relações. Agora temos as mensagens de texto e as plataformas de redes sociais para nos mantermos sempre em contacto.

Se mais não for, isto pode até ajudá-lo a ver se ele gosta de si ou não.

You know that he can contact you anytime he wants. He has his phone on him all the time and there is nothing stopping him from texting you or checking up on you to see what you’re up to.

A questão é que não há mais nada que impeça duas pessoas de manterem contacto uma com a outra.

Isto pode dizer muito no início da vossa relação. O comportamento dele através de mensagens de texto pode mostrar-lhe o que ele quer de si e que tipo de homem é realmente.

Isso pode garantir-lhe se ele quer a coisa a sério ou se quer apenas algo de lado. Por isso, só para ter a certeza de que ele é material de jackpot, estas são as mensagens que ele lhe vai enviar:

1. “Hey you!”

Pode ficar desiludido quando recebe uma mensagem com apenas estas duas pobres palavras. Pode até ficar zangado e tem todo o direito de o fazer.

Quer dizer, foi a única coisa que ele conseguiu inventar?

But, and there is always a but, if you look at this from his perspective, then you’ll see that he really couldn’t come up with anything better but he misses you badly, so he had to write something.

Even if it’s just, “Hey you”, it’s an effort which you should never disregard.

2. “Good morning beautiful.”

He wants to be the first thing you think of when you get up in the morning. Isn’t that just adorable?

Every time you text, he’ll be kind and warm to you. At night, he’ll wish you a goodnight because not only does he want him to be the first thing you think of when you wake up, he also wants to be the last thing you think of when you go to bed.

Ele é um bom namorado e não o deve tomar como garantido. Desfrute da sua bondade e de todo o amor que ele claramente tem para lhe dar.

3. “How did your meeting go?”

He cares for you and therefore he cares about what is going on in your life. He doesn’t ask this only because he has to. Ele está realmente interessado in what you’ve been doing and how your day is going.

If you told him about an important meeting you have today, he’ll text you after he knows you’re done so he doesn’t disturb you and he’ll check if everything went well.

If it did, he’ll be happy for you and with you and if it didn’t, he’ll try to console and comfort you by lifting up your spirits because things are going to be better.

4. “I’m so proud of you.”

Your achievements are like his own. He loves you and he’ll do pretty much anything for you. So when you succeed in something it’s like he did it as well.

He’ll text you that he’s proud of you because he really is. Don’t be surprised if he tells everyone all about your success.

Ele quer que todos saibam como és competente e essa é apenas uma das razões pelas quais ele te ama.

5. “I can’t wait to see you.”

He really wants to spend time with you. He misses you and he can’t wait to see you again. You should be so proud of that.

Normalmente, as pessoas tendem a fartar-se umas das outras numa relação. Procuram um pouco de tempo sozinhas.

Querem ir para algum sítio sozinhas, para pensar e descansar um pouco.

But he doesn’t need that. He feels whole when you’re with him and he wants to spend time with you. Isn’t that the perfect boyfriend?

6. “Have you eaten yet?”

This is clearly a sign of love. Why would he care about whether you have you eaten or not if he didn’t care about you?

Devias estar tão feliz que o teu namorado te manda uma mensagem só para saber como estás.

He doesn’t want anything bad to happen to you, so he shows his concern and wants you to know he cares about you and your health. After all, he is planning on staying in your life for a long time.

7. “I want to talk about this face-to-face.”

Só um verdadeiro homem faria a coisa responsável e falaria consigo cara a cara quando há algo sério para falar.

Sure, it’s easier to send a text, but it’s also much more immature. With sending this text, he shows you that he respects you and wants to talk to you like a normal, mature adult.

8. “Let’s stay home tonight. Just the two of us.”

He values his time alone with you. He doesn’t care about fancy dinners in restaurants or going out to bars.

Se lhe perguntar, ele escolherá uma noite agradável e confortável, abraçado a si no sofá.

You’re his priority and he would choose you over anything else, anytime.

9. “You somehow make me want to be better.”

You’re really making him want to be the best version of himself. You affect him positively.

Through your fighting and trying to be the best you can be, you’re encouraging him to do just the same.

O seu sucesso é simultaneamente a sua alegria e o seu desafio. Os seus sonhos que se realizam são um grande impulso para ele tentar fazer o mesmo.

10. “I love you.”

Is there anything better to hear than someone saying he loves you? I think not. Sure, it’s not just about someone saying those words—acts are the things that count as much.

But if he acts like he loves you and writes it to you out of the blue, then you are one lucky girl because you’ve landed yourself a jackpot boyfriend.