Se ti manda questi 10 messaggi, saprai che è un fidanzato da urlo

La distanza non gioca più un ruolo importante nelle relazioni. Ora abbiamo a disposizione sms e piattaforme di social media per rimanere sempre in contatto.

Se non altro, questo può anche aiutare a capire se lui è innamorato di te o meno.

You know that he can contact you anytime he wants. He has his phone on him all the time and there is nothing stopping him from texting you or checking up on you to see what you’re up to.

Il punto è che non è più possibile impedire a due persone di rimanere in contatto tra loro.

Questo può dirvi molto all'inizio della vostra relazione. Il suo comportamento attraverso i messaggi può mostrarvi cosa vuole da voi e che tipo di uomo è veramente.

Questo può assicurarvi se lui vuole la cosa vera o se vuole solo qualcosa di nascosto. Quindi, per essere sicure che sia materiale da jackpot, questi sono gli sms che vi invierà:

1. “Hey you!”

Potreste rimanere delusi quando ricevete un messaggio con queste due povere parole. Potreste anche arrabbiarvi e avete tutto il diritto di farlo.

Cioè, è l'unica cosa che gli è venuta in mente?

But, and there is always a but, if you look at this from his perspective, then you’ll see that he really couldn’t come up with anything better but he misses you badly, so he had to write something.

Even if it’s just, “Hey you”, it’s an effort which you should never disregard.

2. “Good morning beautiful.”

He wants to be the first thing you think of when you get up in the morning. Isn’t that just adorable?

Every time you text, he’ll be kind and warm to you. At night, he’ll wish you a goodnight because not only does he want him to be the first thing you think of when you wake up, he also wants to be the last thing you think of when you go to bed.

È un fidanzato molto serio e non dovete darlo per scontato. Godetevi la sua gentilezza e tutto l'amore che ha chiaramente da darvi.

3. “How did your meeting go?”

He cares for you and therefore he cares about what is going on in your life. He doesn’t ask this only because he has to. È molto interessato in what you’ve been doing and how your day is going.

If you told him about an important meeting you have today, he’ll text you after he knows you’re done so he doesn’t disturb you and he’ll check if everything went well.

If it did, he’ll be happy for you and with you and if it didn’t, he’ll try to console and comfort you by lifting up your spirits because things are going to be better.

4. “I’m so proud of you.”

Your achievements are like his own. He loves you and he’ll do pretty much anything for you. So when you succeed in something it’s like he did it as well.

He’ll text you that he’s proud of you because he really is. Don’t be surprised if he tells everyone all about your success.

Vuole che tutti sappiano quanto siete competenti e questo è solo uno dei motivi per cui vi ama.

5. “I can’t wait to see you.”

He really wants to spend time with you. He misses you and he can’t wait to see you again. You should be so proud of that.

Di solito le persone tendono a stancarsi l'una dell'altra in una relazione. Cercano un po' di tempo da soli.

Vogliono andare da qualche parte da soli per raccogliere i loro pensieri e riposare un po'.

But he doesn’t need that. He feels whole when you’re with him and he wants to spend time with you. Isn’t that the perfect boyfriend?

6. “Have you eaten yet?”

This is clearly a sign of love. Why would he care about whether you have you eaten or not if he didn’t care about you?

Dovresti essere così felice che il tuo ragazzo ti mandi un messaggio solo per sapere come stai.

He doesn’t want anything bad to happen to you, so he shows his concern and wants you to know he cares about you and your health. After all, he is planning on staying in your life for a long time.

7. “I want to talk about this face-to-face.”

Solo un vero uomo farebbe la cosa responsabile e ti parlerebbe faccia a faccia quando c'è qualcosa di serio di cui parlare.

Sure, it’s easier to send a text, but it’s also much more immature. With sending this text, he shows you that he respects you and wants to talk to you like a normal, mature adult.

8. “Let’s stay home tonight. Just the two of us.”

He values his time alone with you. He doesn’t care about fancy dinners in restaurants or going out to bars.

Se glielo chiedete, sceglierà una serata piacevole e confortevole, coccolandosi con voi sul divano.

You’re his priority and he would choose you over anything else, anytime.

9. “You somehow make me want to be better.”

You’re really making him want to be the best version of himself. You affect him positively.

Through your fighting and trying to be the best you can be, you’re encouraging him to do just the same.

Il vostro successo è allo stesso tempo la sua gioia e la sua sfida. I vostri sogni che si realizzano sono una spinta enorme per lui a cercare di fare lo stesso.

10. “I love you.”

Is there anything better to hear than someone saying he loves you? I think not. Sure, it’s not just about someone saying those words—acts are the things that count as much.

But if he acts like he loves you and writes it to you out of the blue, then you are one lucky girl because you’ve landed yourself a jackpot boyfriend.