Si te manda estos 10 mensajes, sabrás que es el novio perfecto

La distancia ya no desempeña un papel importante en las relaciones. Ahora tenemos los mensajes de texto y las redes sociales para estar siempre en contacto.

Si nada más, esto puede incluso ayudarle a ver si le gustas o no.

You know that he can contact you anytime he wants. He has his phone on him all the time and there is nothing stopping him from texting you or checking up on you to see what you’re up to.

La cuestión es que no hay nada que impida que dos personas sigan en contacto.

Esto puede decirte mucho al principio de vuestra relación. Su comportamiento a través de mensajes de texto puede mostrar lo que quiere de ti y qué tipo de hombre que realmente es.

Puede asegurarte si quiere algo de verdad o si sólo quiere algo secundario. Así que, para asegurarte de que es material para el premio gordo, estos son los mensajes que te enviará:

1. “Hey you!”

Puede que te decepciones cuando recibas un mensaje con sólo estas dos pobres palabras. Puede que incluso te cabrees y tienes todo el derecho a hacerlo.

¿Es lo único que se le ocurrió?

But, and there is always a but, if you look at this from his perspective, then you’ll see that he really couldn’t come up with anything better but he misses you badly, so he had to write something.

Even if it’s just, “Hey you”, it’s an effort which you should never disregard.

2. “Good morning beautiful.”

He wants to be the first thing you think of when you get up in the morning. Isn’t that just adorable?

Every time you text, he’ll be kind and warm to you. At night, he’ll wish you a goodnight because not only does he want him to be the first thing you think of when you wake up, he also wants to be the last thing you think of when you go to bed.

Tiene madera de novio y no deberías darlo por sentado. Disfruta de su amabilidad y de todo el amor que claramente tiene para darte.

3. “How did your meeting go?”

He cares for you and therefore he cares about what is going on in your life. He doesn’t ask this only because he has to. Está realmente interesado in what you’ve been doing and how your day is going.

If you told him about an important meeting you have today, he’ll text you after he knows you’re done so he doesn’t disturb you and he’ll check if everything went well.

If it did, he’ll be happy for you and with you and if it didn’t, he’ll try to console and comfort you by lifting up your spirits because things are going to be better.

4. “I’m so proud of you.”

Your achievements are like his own. He loves you and he’ll do pretty much anything for you. So when you succeed in something it’s like he did it as well.

He’ll text you that he’s proud of you because he really is. Don’t be surprised if he tells everyone all about your success.

Quiere que todo el mundo sepa lo competente que eres y ésa es sólo una de las razones por las que te quiere.

5. “I can’t wait to see you.”

He really wants to spend time with you. He misses you and he can’t wait to see you again. You should be so proud of that.

Normalmente, las personas tienden a hartarse la una de la otra en una relación. Buscan un poco de tiempo a solas.

Quieren irse a algún lugar a solas para ordenar sus pensamientos y descansar un poco.

But he doesn’t need that. He feels whole when you’re with him and he wants to spend time with you. Isn’t that the perfect boyfriend?

6. “Have you eaten yet?”

This is clearly a sign of love. Why would he care about whether you have you eaten or not if he didn’t care about you?

Deberías alegrarte de que tu novio te mande un mensaje sólo para saber cómo estás.

He doesn’t want anything bad to happen to you, so he shows his concern and wants you to know he cares about you and your health. After all, he is planning on staying in your life for a long time.

7. “I want to talk about this face-to-face.”

Sólo un hombre de verdad haría lo responsable y hablaría contigo cara a cara cuando hay algo serio de lo que hablar.

Sure, it’s easier to send a text, but it’s also much more immature. With sending this text, he shows you that he respects you and wants to talk to you like a normal, mature adult.

8. “Let’s stay home tonight. Just the two of us.”

He values his time alone with you. He doesn’t care about fancy dinners in restaurants or going out to bars.

Si se lo pides, elegirá una tarde agradable y cómoda acurrucado contigo en el sofá.

You’re his priority and he would choose you over anything else, anytime.

9. “You somehow make me want to be better.”

You’re really making him want to be the best version of himself. You affect him positively.

Through your fighting and trying to be the best you can be, you’re encouraging him to do just the same.

Tu éxito es a la vez su alegría y su reto. Tus sueños hechos realidad son un gran estímulo para que él intente hacer lo mismo.

10. “I love you.”

Is there anything better to hear than someone saying he loves you? I think not. Sure, it’s not just about someone saying those words—acts are the things that count as much.

But if he acts like he loves you and writes it to you out of the blue, then you are one lucky girl because you’ve landed yourself a jackpot boyfriend.