Se fizeres estas 5 coisas bonitas, vais definitivamente atrair um homem a sério

To meet a man is easy but to meet a man you want to date is like winning the lottery. The dating world is like living in a jungle. Only the strongest ones survive and while you’re searching for the right one, there are a lot of deadly wrong ones out there.

Se um errado nos apanha nas suas garras, damos por nós a engasgar-nos com as nossas próprias lágrimas, a gritar com o mundo, zangados com a sua injustiça.

It’s always easier to blame them and their inability to commit, their insecurity and the fact that they are emotionally unavailable, and mostly that is true but it’s not the only factor why you attract the wrong kind of guys.

Some things depend on you, too. It’s true that you can’t change the environment you’re surrounded by but you can adapt yourself. Not change, just adapt, and then you have a chance of meeting an actual real man. Appreciate yourself more and don’t take just anything that comes your way.

Women know to do this out of fear of staying single, so they settle for the first man who is not that awful. This is the biggest mistake you can make. Stay true to yourself, don’t change but adapt by improving.

1. Ama o teu corpo

You are just perfect the way you are. Love every single thing about your body because you own it, it’s yours. It’s unique, no one else has it. That’s one of the reasons it has to be special.

Once you learn to appreciate your body, you’ll appreciate yourself more and you won’t contentar-se com menos do que mereces. Compre um vestido bonito, talvez um que mostre mais os seus ombros, porque os homens adoram ver os ombros nus.

But make sure you don’t dress in something that screams sex on your first date. It will leave the wrong impression or it will just appear that you’re trying too hard.

2. Don’t act hot ‘n’ cold

Real men don’t buy this shit. Real men don’t like playing these games. So, if you want to attract the wrong kinds of guys or an immature mama’s boy, act interested one day and completely ignore him the next.

This works with douchebags and not someone you would really like to date. Don’t act like you’re not interested and expect him to read your mind.

If you like him, tell him and if you feel comfortable and you trust him enough to tell him, then he’s probably the right kind of man you would like to date.

3. Trate-se como ele a quer tratar

A man likes seeing a woman who puts herself first, who is independent and strong. He wants to see that you can take care of yourself and you don’t need anybody’s help.

Ele precisa de ver que tu podes ama-te a ti próprio da mesma forma que ele a amaria a si. Ele quer ver que se respeita a si própria e que ele também a respeitará.

Tente investir em si própria o mais que puder. Isso irá mostrar-lhe que se preocupa consigo mesma tanto quanto ele.

4. Ser amável

This is one beautiful trait most women have and all real men adore. Society and the media have both shown a completely different picture of what men love— a sexy, dirty badass who doesn’t care about anybody other than herself.

That is true but only to some extent. You have to care about yourself and love yourself, but in addition to this, you have to have compassion for others. And that’s what real men really like.

Who wouldn’t want a nice, kind woman always by their side, a woman they know won’t cheat on them and make them look like a complete idiot? So, yes, kindness works.

Experimente um dia e veja por si próprio. Só um aviso: a bondade só funciona com homens a sério e não com rapazes.

5. Deixem-no conduzir

Pare de tentar estar sempre no controlo. Se finalmente encontrou o homem que ama e quer passar o resto da sua vida com ele, deixe-o mandar durante algum tempo. Aprenda a assumir a liderança dele, porque ninguém aguenta uma vida inteira a mandar em si.

Also, it leaves the impression that you don’t trust him and you don’t think he is capable of making the right decisions. It’s okay to think that you are right but dismissing his opinions and his input may really prejudicar a sua relação.

Precisa de um homem que saiba tomar decisões e defender-se a si próprio. A única coisa que precisa de aprender a fazer é ouvi-lo de vez em quando e dar-lhe uma oportunidade de provar o seu valor.

It’s not the point to change yourself, just to try to make yourself better. If you succeed in this, you’ll automatically draw real men closer to you. And not only that but this will also benefit you and make you the best version of yourself.