Si haces estas 5 cosas bonitas, atraerás a un hombre de verdad

To meet a man is easy but to meet a man you want to date is like winning the lottery. The dating world is like living in a jungle. Only the strongest ones survive and while you’re searching for the right one, there are a lot of deadly wrong ones out there.

Si un mal te atrapa entre sus garras, te encuentras ahogándote en tus propias lágrimas, gritándole al mundo, furioso por su injusticia.

It’s always easier to blame them and their inability to commit, their insecurity and the fact that they are emotionally unavailable, and mostly that is true but it’s not the only factor why you attract the wrong kind of guys.

Some things depend on you, too. It’s true that you can’t change the environment you’re surrounded by but you can adapt yourself. Not change, just adapt, and then you have a chance of meeting an actual real man. Appreciate yourself more and don’t take just anything that comes your way.

Women know to do this out of fear of staying single, so they settle for the first man who is not that awful. This is the biggest mistake you can make. Stay true to yourself, don’t change but adapt by improving.

1. Ama tu cuerpo

You are just perfect the way you are. Love every single thing about your body because you own it, it’s yours. It’s unique, no one else has it. That’s one of the reasons it has to be special.

Once you learn to appreciate your body, you’ll appreciate yourself more and you won’t conformarse con menos de lo que te mereces nunca más. Cómprate un vestido bonito, quizá uno que enseñe más los hombros, porque a los hombres les encanta ver los hombros al descubierto.

But make sure you don’t dress in something that screams sex on your first date. It will leave the wrong impression or it will just appear that you’re trying too hard.

2. Don’t act hot ‘n’ cold

Real men don’t buy this shit. Real men don’t like playing these games. So, if you want to attract the wrong kinds of guys or an immature mama’s boy, act interested one day and completely ignore him the next.

This works with douchebags and not someone you would really like to date. Don’t act like you’re not interested and expect him to read your mind.

If you like him, tell him and if you feel comfortable and you trust him enough to tell him, then he’s probably the right kind of man you would like to date.

3. Trátate como él quiere tratarte

A man likes seeing a woman who puts herself first, who is independent and strong. He wants to see that you can take care of yourself and you don’t need anybody’s help.

Necesita ver que puedes quiérete a ti mismo de la misma manera que él te amaría a ti. Quiere ver que te respetas a ti misma y él te respetará a ti.

Intenta invertir en ti tanto como puedas. Le demostrarás que te preocupas por ti tanto como él.

4. Sé amable

This is one beautiful trait most women have and all real men adore. Society and the media have both shown a completely different picture of what men love— a sexy, dirty badass who doesn’t care about anybody other than herself.

That is true but only to some extent. You have to care about yourself and love yourself, but in addition to this, you have to have compassion for others. And that’s what real men really like.

Who wouldn’t want a nice, kind woman always by their side, a woman they know won’t cheat on them and make them look like a complete idiot? So, yes, kindness works.

Pruébalo alguna vez y compruébalo por ti mismo. Solo una advertencia: la amabilidad solo funciona con hombres de verdad y no con niños.

5. Que dirija

Deja de intentar tener siempre el control. Si por fin has encontrado al hombre que amas y quieres pasar el resto de tu vida con él, déjale mandar durante un tiempo. Aprende a seguir su ejemplo, porque nadie puede aguantar toda una vida siendo mandado.

Also, it leaves the impression that you don’t trust him and you don’t think he is capable of making the right decisions. It’s okay to think that you are right but dismissing his opinions and his input may really dañar tu relación.

Necesitas un hombre que sepa tomar decisiones y valerse por sí mismo. Lo único que tienes que aprender a hacer es escucharle de vez en cuando y darle la oportunidad de demostrar su valía.

It’s not the point to change yourself, just to try to make yourself better. If you succeed in this, you’ll automatically draw real men closer to you. And not only that but this will also benefit you and make you the best version of yourself.