Se você notar estes 8 sinais, você está namorando um psicopata real e legítimo
Of course, you can’t know for sure that you are on a date with a psychopath because they are the masters of disguise. You’ll never see their true colors because they are such good actors. They can hide their true selves for as long as they need to.
Years can pass before you realize that you are completely emotionally used by a very dangerous man. And when you realize it, it’s too late to run away from pain and heartbreak. You have already fallen into his trap.
People usually think that psychopaths can’t feel any form of love but that isn’t true. Usually they have one person they are extremely attached to. It’s their mother or one of their grandparents.
But, when it comes to romantic relationships, you can be sure they won’t have any feelings for you.
Check out some of the traits of a psychopath and use them as a warning next time you’re on a date. There is no way to get out of a relationship with a psychopath quickly, but there is hope of avoiding one if you react in time.
1. São demasiado charmosos
Há uma diferença entre as pessoas que são naturalmente encantadoras e as pessoas que estão a exagerar. Os psicopatas vão arrebatar-nos com as suas histórias e o seu charme.
As suas histórias parecerão demasiado boas para serem verdadeiras e eles falarão de si próprios.
After talking to them, you’ll think that you’ve just met the most perfect person on the face of the earth. That should be your first red flag that you are on a date with a psycho.
2. Brincarão com as suas emoções
Usam histórias simpáticas e jogam com as suas emoções. Convencê-lo-ão de que são bonitos e calmos e que detestam drama.
After, you’ll see that drama is basically all around them because they provoke it.
É provável que também mencionem a sua ex, que é uma grande cabra e que, claro, ainda está apaixonada por eles, mas que eles conseguiram, de alguma forma, afastar.
3. Os seus egos são enormes
São semelhantes aos narcisistas, mas diferentes. Narcisistas querem ser superiores e os melhores em todas as situações em que se encontram, enquanto os psicopatas querem controlar as outras pessoas.
They want to use them to their benefit and they never feel remorse. Moreover, they feel happy when they’ve hurt someone.
4. Arranjam desculpas para o seu comportamento a toda a hora
They are just perfect at changing your reality. Although they will act like total jerks and hurt you over and over again, they will rewrite reality and make it look like it’s all your fault.
If you face them with evidence and try to prove to them that it’s not your fault, they will completely ignore it and redirect the conversation in another direction to get away with it.
In the end, you’ll end up fighting about something that has nothing to do with your initial confrontation.
5. Nascem mentirosos
You’re faced with one lie after another. Their lies will be so truthlike and filled with details. They can come up with a false answer to your question in a matter of seconds.
You probably won’t have any idea whether they are telling the truth or not. And if you try to bust them and confront them about their lying, be sure they are going to get their revenge and hurt you on purpose because you’ve hurt their egos.
6. Criam o caos à paisana
They will make you jealous on purpose and they will provoke you. Don’t be surprised that after they have given all their attention to you, they go online and post photos with their exes or comment on their exes’ posts using inside jokes just to mess with your head.
O caos é a sua serenidade.
7. Não têm culpa
When they do something nasty to someone, they don’t feel remorse or guilt. They don’t possess that feeling. Other people’s suffering means absolutely nothing to them.
They will go on doing whatever they want, no matter whether it bothers someone. They don’t care for anyone but themselves.
8. Falta-lhes empatia
Se lhes contarmos uma história sobre como alguém partiu o teu coração or something bad that happened to you, you won’t get an emotional reaction from a psychopath.
Eles tentarão fingir-se emotivos, mas você conseguirá ver através disso.
Será uma falsa emoção. O que eles fazem é estudar a forma como as pessoas reagem a diferentes situações e tentam copiá-las porque não conseguem invocar essas emoções por si próprios.
Em geral, é preciso ter muito cuidado. Há grandes probabilidades de se cruzar com um verdadeiro psicopata em algum momento da sua vida.
Maybe it doesn’t have to be someone you’re dating; maybe it’s a colleague from work. But if you’re dating a psychopath and you don’t know it, the risk is huge.
You can end up heartbroken, broke, homeless and if you’re an extremely emotional type, even dead.
