Se noti questi 8 segni, stai uscendo con una vera e propria psicopatica

Of course, you can’t know for sure that you are on a date with a psychopath because they are the masters of disguise. You’ll never see their true colors because they are such good actors. They can hide their true selves for as long as they need to.

Years can pass before you realize that you are completely emotionally used by a very dangerous man. And when you realize it, it’s too late to run away from pain and heartbreak. You have already fallen into his trap.

People usually think that psychopaths can’t feel any form of love but that isn’t true. Usually they have one person they are extremely attached to. It’s their mother or one of their grandparents.

But, when it comes to romantic relationships, you can be sure they won’t have any feelings for you.

Check out some of the traits of a psychopath and use them as a warning next time you’re on a date. There is no way to get out of a relationship with a psychopath quickly, but there is hope of avoiding one if you react in time.

1. Sono eccessivamente affascinanti

C'è una differenza tra chi è naturalmente affascinante e chi esagera. Gli psicopatici vi faranno perdere la testa con le loro storie e il loro fascino.

Le loro storie sembreranno troppo belle per essere vere e si faranno notare.

After talking to them, you’ll think that you’ve just met the most perfect person on the face of the earth. That should be your first red flag that you are on a date with a psycho.

2. Giocano con le vostre emozioni

Useranno storie simpatiche e giocheranno con le vostre emozioni. Vi convinceranno che sono carini e tranquilli e che odiano i drammi.

After, you’ll see that drama is basically all around them because they provoke it.

Probabilmente menzioneranno anche la loro ex, che è una stronza totale e ovviamente è ancora innamorata di loro, ma che in qualche modo sono riusciti ad allontanare da lei.

3. Il loro ego è enorme

Sono simili ai narcisisti, ma diversi. Narcisisti vogliono essere superiori e i migliori in ogni situazione in cui si trovano, mentre gli psicopatici vogliono avere il controllo sugli altri.

They want to use them to their benefit and they never feel remorse. Moreover, they feel happy when they’ve hurt someone.

4. Si giustificano in continuazione per il loro comportamento

They are just perfect at changing your reality. Although they will act like total jerks and hurt you over and over again, they will rewrite reality and make it look like it’s all your fault.

If you face them with evidence and try to prove to them that it’s not your fault, they will completely ignore it and redirect the conversation in another direction to get away with it.

In the end, you’ll end up fighting about something that has nothing to do with your initial confrontation.

5. Sono nati bugiardi

You’re faced with one lie after another. Their lies will be so truthlike and filled with details. They can come up with a false answer to your question in a matter of seconds.

You probably won’t have any idea whether they are telling the truth or not. And if you try to bust them and confront them about their lying, be sure they are going to get their revenge and hurt you on purpose because you’ve hurt their egos.

6. Creano il caos sotto copertura

They will make you jealous on purpose and they will provoke you. Don’t be surprised that after they have given all their attention to you, they go online and post photos with their exes or comment on their exes’ posts using inside jokes just to mess with your head.

Il caos è la loro serenità.

7. Mancano di senso di colpa

When they do something nasty to someone, they don’t feel remorse or guilt. They don’t possess that feeling. Other people’s suffering means absolutely nothing to them.

They will go on doing whatever they want, no matter whether it bothers someone. They don’t care for anyone but themselves.

8. Mancano di empatia

Se raccontate loro una storia su come qualcuno ti ha spezzato il cuore or something bad that happened to you, you won’t get an emotional reaction from a psychopath.

Cercheranno di comportarsi in modo emotivo, ma voi sarete in grado di vedere oltre.

Sarà un'emozione falsa. Quello che fanno è studiare il modo in cui le persone reagiscono alle diverse situazioni e cercare di copiarlo, perché non sono in grado di invocare quelle emozioni da soli.

In generale, bisogna fare molta attenzione. Ci sono alte probabilità di imbattersi in un vero psicopatico a un certo punto della propria vita.

Maybe it doesn’t have to be someone you’re dating; maybe it’s a colleague from work. But if you’re dating a psychopath and you don’t know it, the risk is huge.

You can end up heartbroken, broke, homeless and if you’re an extremely emotional type, even dead.