Se tu e a tua melhor amiga são muito chegadas, vão enviar estes 12 textos
Enviar mensagens de texto entre amigos é algo completamente diferente de enviar mensagens de texto a alguém ao acaso.
The way in which they communicate is unique because they speak the same language—by saying a little they actually say a lot.
Quanto mais próximos estiverem, mais haverá piadas privadas, palavras vossas e coisas que só vocês percebem.
Se alguma vez precisasse de outra metade, a sua melhor amiga seria a pessoa certa. Ela é ‘your person.’
Surely we couldn’t fit all of that into just 12 texts, and the variety and intensity of the texts is something that varies from besties to besties.
No entanto, há algumas básicas que indicam que tu e a tua melhor amiga são muito próximas:
1. “If we’re both single by the time we reach 40, we’re moving in together and possibly getting a cat or a dog.”
You always have this as a backup plan if Prince Charming doesn’t show up. Even if he does, your bestie is your soulmate anyway.
2. “What do we think about this; do we like it?”
All the important and less important decisions you make together, regardless if it’s about major life-changing decisions or selfies you want to post today to Snapchat or Instagram.
Sabes que a tua melhor amiga é a tua melhor conselheira e que te dará sempre conselhos directos.
3. “Let’s sleep in one bed.”
Estão tão próximos que são como um casal. Um cobertor pode servir-vos aos dois.
4. “Don’t even think about texting him. Oh God, you already texted him didn’t you?”
A best friend is always there to make sure you don’t make a fool out of yourself, especially when your love life is at stake.
Mas, por vezes, até ela se atrasa e aquela mensagem infeliz, ou mesmo uma mensagem de seguimento, já foi enviada.
5. “What the hell does he mean by this?” ( screenshot of the actual conversation)
You are involved in each other’s romantic lives to the point that when you meet your friend’s crush, you want to say:
“Hi, nice to meet you, even though I already kind of know you because I participated in creating most of the texts she sent you.”
Além disso, não se trata de intromissão. Isto é necessário porque a maioria dos homens de hoje envia mensagens de texto com tantos sinais contraditórios que precisa de ajuda para as decifrar.
6. “Text me back when you’re done with all the drama.”
Although you are used to listening to each other’s pointless dramas, there will come a point when enough is enough, and this text is necessary.
There are no hard feelings. You know you are brutally honest with each other, and you wouldn’t have it any other way.
7. “Why haven’t you liked my Facebook/Instagram photo yet? Are you sick or something?”
Just a fun way to tell your friend you need her support in the form of likes and cute comments…after all, she did help you pick out that pic, and it’s only right she is there first to participate.
8. “ I took your dress/shirt/ jeans/…”
In the world of true besties, there is no ‘mine’ or ‘your’ clothes. There is ‘our’ clothes, and you take things without asking. Anyway, you send a text to be polite.
When one of you is back from a shopping spree, the other one asks “What new things did you buy for us?”
9. “Is everything OK? You haven’t texted me for hours?”
When you don’t hear from each other for a few hours, all the alarms go off. You are used to being in touch constantly.
10. “Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha”
Because… laugh emojis and simply writing lol don’t give enough credit to a text your friend just sent you.
11. “Love you”
As soon as you think about expressing love to your best friend, you do it. There’s no need to wait or think about if the other side will considero-o pegajoso.
12. “ You: Vine?
Bestie: I don’t feel like it tonight, I’m super tired.
You: Come on…pleeease…It’s my treat?
Bestie: OK. “
If you ask for something twice it never fails. Your happiness is important to your bestie, and even if she doesn’t feel like going somewhere or doing something she’ll do it because she loves you and wants to make you happy.
