Si tú y tu mejor amiga sois súper íntimas, os enviaréis estos 12 mensajes de texto
Los mensajes de texto entre amigos son algo totalmente diferente a los mensajes de texto con alguien al azar.
The way in which they communicate is unique because they speak the same language—by saying a little they actually say a lot.
Cuanto más unidos estéis tú y tus mejores amigos, más habrá bromas privadas, palabras propias y cosas que sólo vosotros entendáis.
Si alguna vez necesitaras otra mitad, tu mejor amiga sería la indicada. Ella es ‘your person.’
Surely we couldn’t fit all of that into just 12 texts, and the variety and intensity of the texts is something that varies from besties to besties.
Sin embargo, hay algunas básicas que indican que tú y tu mejor amiga estáis súper unidas:
1. “If we’re both single by the time we reach 40, we’re moving in together and possibly getting a cat or a dog.”
You always have this as a backup plan if Prince Charming doesn’t show up. Even if he does, your bestie is your soulmate anyway.
2. “What do we think about this; do we like it?”
All the important and less important decisions you make together, regardless if it’s about major life-changing decisions or selfies you want to post today to Snapchat or Instagram.
Sabes que tu mejor amiga es la que mejor te aconseja, y siempre te lo dará sin rodeos.
3. “Let’s sleep in one bed.”
Estáis tan unidos que parecéis un matrimonio. En una manta cabéis los dos.
4. “Don’t even think about texting him. Oh God, you already texted him didn’t you?”
A best friend is always there to make sure you don’t make a fool out of yourself, especially when your love life is at stake.
Pero incluso ella llega tarde a veces, y ese desafortunado texto o incluso un texto de seguimiento ya está enviado.
5. “What the hell does he mean by this?” ( screenshot of the actual conversation)
You are involved in each other’s romantic lives to the point that when you meet your friend’s crush, you want to say:
“Hi, nice to meet you, even though I already kind of know you because I participated in creating most of the texts she sent you.”
Además, esto no es entrometerse. Esto es necesario porque la mayoría de los hombres de hoy envían textos con tantas señales contradictorias que necesitas ayuda para descifrarlos.
6. “Text me back when you’re done with all the drama.”
Although you are used to listening to each other’s pointless dramas, there will come a point when enough is enough, and this text is necessary.
There are no hard feelings. You know you are brutally honest with each other, and you wouldn’t have it any other way.
7. “Why haven’t you liked my Facebook/Instagram photo yet? Are you sick or something?”
Just a fun way to tell your friend you need her support in the form of likes and cute comments…after all, she did help you pick out that pic, and it’s only right she is there first to participate.
8. “ I took your dress/shirt/ jeans/…”
In the world of true besties, there is no ‘mine’ or ‘your’ clothes. There is ‘our’ clothes, and you take things without asking. Anyway, you send a text to be polite.
When one of you is back from a shopping spree, the other one asks “What new things did you buy for us?”
9. “Is everything OK? You haven’t texted me for hours?”
When you don’t hear from each other for a few hours, all the alarms go off. You are used to being in touch constantly.
10. “Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha”
Because… laugh emojis and simply writing lol don’t give enough credit to a text your friend just sent you.
11. “Love you”
As soon as you think about expressing love to your best friend, you do it. There’s no need to wait or think about if the other side will te considero pegajoso.
12. “ You: Vine?
Bestie: I don’t feel like it tonight, I’m super tired.
You: Come on…pleeease…It’s my treat?
Bestie: OK. “
If you ask for something twice it never fails. Your happiness is important to your bestie, and even if she doesn’t feel like going somewhere or doing something she’ll do it because she loves you and wants to make you happy.
