Um conselho de Ano Novo para cada tipo de personalidade

O que é que deve mudar no seu comportamento e personalidade em 2025?

Que conselhos o ajudarão a ter um ano novo mais feliz e a fazer as coisas melhor e de forma diferente desta vez?

Bem, tudo depende do tipo de personalidade Myers-Briggs a que pertence.

ISTJ

Please, have some fun! Being a person who sticks to their principles is rare in today’s world but that doesn’t mean that you have to spend another year being stiff and not letting yourself loosen up a little bit.

Pare de planear todos os seus passos e, para variar, vá com a corrente e seja o mais espontâneo possível.

Veja onde a vida o levará e anseie por não saber o que esperar a seguir.

ISTP

Don’t spend the entire year trapped in your room.

You might be an introvert who cherishes their alone time, privacy, and personal space, but that doesn’t mean you should cut off everyone who wants to come near you before even giving them a chance.

Acreditem em mim quando vos digo que há pessoas que merecem o vosso tempo e atenção.

Sim, alguns irão provavelmente magoá-lo, mas, por outro lado, há aqueles que se esforçarão por lhe devolver o sorriso.

ISFJ

Let 2025 be the year in which you’ll stop repressing your emotions.

Come on, we all know that you’re not that insensitive badass you try to pretend to be.

Instead, you have a lot of feelings, and it is time to understand that showing them won’t make you appear weak and won’t make people lose respect over you.

Em vez disso, isso tornará a sua vida muito mais fácil e todos começarão a vê-lo como uma pessoa muito mais genuína.

ISFP

Por favor, tira a tua máscara de pessoa sem coração e começa a deixar as pessoas entrarem. Permite que alguém quebre as paredes à volta do teu coração, e baixa a tua guarda.

Don’t get me wrong—it is perfectly acceptable to be careful about the ones you open up to because not everyone deserves to get your heart on a silver platter.

However, don’t exaggerate since you don’t want to chase some valuable people away.

ENTP

You’re someone who enjoys expressing your attitudes on every possible occasion.

And that is great for you: it shows that you are courageous enough to speak up, that you have an opinion of your own, and that you don’t just blindly follow the masses.

However, don’t forget to slow down this year, and start choosing your battles.

Deixar de perder os nervos por causa de coisas e pessoas irrelevantes e deixar de discutir por cada pequena coisa com todos os que se cruzam no seu caminho.

ENTJ

Deixar de lado a inveja e o seu medos de perda que o estão a comer vivo.

The ones who walk away from you were obviously never meant to stick around, and you can’t keep them by your side by trying to control their every move.

Instead, you’ll just do the opposite and scare them away. Whoever wants to be a part of your life will be there—with or without your possessiveness.

ENFP

Deixe de agradar às pessoas, porque essa não é definitivamente a forma de fazer com que alguém goste mais de si.

Stand up for yourself, and remember that you don’t need to depend on what others might say.

Every now and then, show the world that you have an attitude and that you can’t be manipulated into changing your mind.

ENFJ

If you don’t cut out the pensar demais , acabará por vos matar espiritualmente.

E o que há de melhor do que o início de um novo ano para deixar para trás todos os seus hábitos tóxicos?

I know this is hard to accept, but you’re not going to change the outcome of things if you obsess about them all the time.

De facto, a única coisa que conseguirá é dar a si próprio muitas dores de cabeça desnecessárias.

INTJ

For as long as you can remember, you’ve always relied on logic. You’ve always been a person who does what’s right and smart.

Well, why don’t you try making 2025 a bit different? Do an experiment, and just for once, go where your heart takes you and follow your emotions.

INFJ

Stop romanticizing people and idealizing situations. Face reality, even when it’s harsh and painful.

It’s about time you started using your brains instead of only going after your soul’s desires.

Yes, in most case scenarios, this is the harder path, but you’re an adult and have to start doing what’s best for you.

INTP

Deixe de ser tão submisso a todos à sua volta, incluindo o seu par romântico, os seus amigos e a sua família.

You’re strong enough to take the wheel of your own life and don’t need anyone else to show you the path.

Accepting advice from the ones whose opinion you cherish is always welcome, but don’t forget that you’re the one who makes the final call.

After all, this is your life, and you’re the only one responsible for it.

INFP

Let this year be the one in which you’ll stop expecting too much of people.

Don’t get me wrong—I’m not saying that you ought to baixar os seus padrões e começar a contentar-se com menos do que merece.

However, maybe you shouldn’t get your hopes up that much.

It is sad, but you simply need to stop looking at everything from your point of view: there are some evil people out there, and just because you would never do something bad, it doesn’t mean they wouldn’t either.

ESFP

Spending each day like it’s your last and enjoying every breath you take is exciting—until you mature, become an adult, and realize that sometimes, you have to stick with your plans and that often, life is a boring set of daily activities you need to get done.

Well, it appears that you still haven’t come to this conclusion. 2025 is the year in which you’ll have to take your head down from the clouds and start acting more responsibly.

ESFJ

Stop being so obsessed with social norms. Yes, you’re a part of this society, and no one wants to be an outcast, but that doesn’t mean that you have to do the impossible just to fit in.

Please, let go of your fear of rejection, start being your true self, and don’t ever change for the sake of others.

Os verdadeiros amam-nos tal como somos e os outros que se lixem.

ESTP

Abrandar um pouco e começar a encontrar a beleza na paz.

Em vez de passar mais um ano a preservar o seu estatuto de borboleta social, concentre-se em alguma auto-introspeção e em algumas pessoas que realmente merecem a sua presença.

ESTJ

Em 2025, saia da sua zona de conforto.

It doesn’t matter whether this is a romantic relationship which hasn’t been making you feliz for a while, a job you want to quit or something else: the point is that you keep yourself stuck in one place just because you’re afraid of the unfamiliar.

Bem, está na altura de isso mudar. Tenha coragem suficiente para se lançar no desconhecido e veja o que o futuro lhe traz.