Un consiglio per il nuovo anno per ogni tipo di personalità

Qual è la cosa che dovreste cambiare del vostro comportamento e della vostra personalità nel 2025?

Quali consigli vi aiuteranno a vivere un nuovo anno più felice e a fare le cose in modo migliore e diverso questa volta?

Tutto dipende dal tipo di personalità Myers-Briggs a cui si appartiene.

ISTJ

Please, have some fun! Being a person who sticks to their principles is rare in today’s world but that doesn’t mean that you have to spend another year being stiff and not letting yourself loosen up a little bit.

Smettete di pianificare ogni vostra mossa e, per cambiare, seguite la corrente e siate il più spontanei possibile.

Guardate dove vi porterà la vita e non vedete l'ora di non sapere cosa vi aspetterà dopo.

ISTP

Don’t spend the entire year trapped in your room.

You might be an introvert who cherishes their alone time, privacy, and personal space, but that doesn’t mean you should cut off everyone who wants to come near you before even giving them a chance.

Fidatevi di me quando vi dico che ci sono persone che meritano il vostro tempo e la vostra attenzione.

Sì, alcuni probabilmente vi faranno del male, ma d'altra parte ci sono quelli che cercheranno in tutti i modi di farvi tornare il sorriso.

ISFJ

Let 2025 be the year in which you’ll stop repressing your emotions.

Come on, we all know that you’re not that insensitive badass you try to pretend to be.

Instead, you have a lot of feelings, and it is time to understand that showing them won’t make you appear weak and won’t make people lose respect over you.

Al contrario, vi renderà la vita molto più facile e tutti inizieranno a percepirvi come una persona molto più genuina.

ISFP

Per favore, toglietevi la maschera di persona senza cuore e iniziate a far entrare le persone. Permetti a qualcuno di rompere i muri intorno al tuo cuore e abbassa la guardia.

Don’t get me wrong—it is perfectly acceptable to be careful about the ones you open up to because not everyone deserves to get your heart on a silver platter.

However, don’t exaggerate since you don’t want to chase some valuable people away.

ENTP

You’re someone who enjoys expressing your attitudes on every possible occasion.

And that is great for you: it shows that you are courageous enough to speak up, that you have an opinion of your own, and that you don’t just blindly follow the masses.

However, don’t forget to slow down this year, and start choosing your battles.

Smettete di perdere i nervi per cose e persone irrilevanti e smettete di litigare per ogni piccola cosa con chiunque incroci il vostro cammino.

ENTJ

Lasciate andare la gelosia e la vostra timori di perdita che vi stanno mangiando vivi.

The ones who walk away from you were obviously never meant to stick around, and you can’t keep them by your side by trying to control their every move.

Instead, you’ll just do the opposite and scare them away. Whoever wants to be a part of your life will be there—with or without your possessiveness.

ENFP

Smettete di fare i piacioni, perché non è certo questo il modo per farvi amare di più da qualcuno.

Stand up for yourself, and remember that you don’t need to depend on what others might say.

Every now and then, show the world that you have an attitude and that you can’t be manipulated into changing your mind.

ENFJ

If you don’t cut out the sovrappensiero , alla fine vi ucciderà spiritualmente.

E cosa c'è di meglio dell'inizio di un nuovo anno per lasciarsi alle spalle tutte le abitudini tossiche?

I know this is hard to accept, but you’re not going to change the outcome of things if you obsess about them all the time.

In realtà, l'unica cosa che otterrete sarà quella di procurarvi un sacco di mal di testa inutili.

INTJ

For as long as you can remember, you’ve always relied on logic. You’ve always been a person who does what’s right and smart.

Well, why don’t you try making 2025 a bit different? Do an experiment, and just for once, go where your heart takes you and follow your emotions.

INFJ

Stop romanticizing people and idealizing situations. Face reality, even when it’s harsh and painful.

It’s about time you started using your brains instead of only going after your soul’s desires.

Yes, in most case scenarios, this is the harder path, but you’re an adult and have to start doing what’s best for you.

INTP

Smettete di essere così sottomessi a tutti coloro che vi circondano, compresi il vostro partner romantico, i vostri amici e la vostra famiglia.

You’re strong enough to take the wheel of your own life and don’t need anyone else to show you the path.

Accepting advice from the ones whose opinion you cherish is always welcome, but don’t forget that you’re the one who makes the final call.

After all, this is your life, and you’re the only one responsible for it.

INFP

Let this year be the one in which you’ll stop expecting too much of people.

Don’t get me wrong—I’m not saying that you ought to abbassare gli standard e iniziate ad accontentarvi di meno di quanto meritate.

However, maybe you shouldn’t get your hopes up that much.

It is sad, but you simply need to stop looking at everything from your point of view: there are some evil people out there, and just because you would never do something bad, it doesn’t mean they wouldn’t either.

ESFP

Spending each day like it’s your last and enjoying every breath you take is exciting—until you mature, become an adult, and realize that sometimes, you have to stick with your plans and that often, life is a boring set of daily activities you need to get done.

Well, it appears that you still haven’t come to this conclusion. 2025 is the year in which you’ll have to take your head down from the clouds and start acting more responsibly.

ESFJ

Stop being so obsessed with social norms. Yes, you’re a part of this society, and no one wants to be an outcast, but that doesn’t mean that you have to do the impossible just to fit in.

Please, let go of your fear of rejection, start being your true self, and don’t ever change for the sake of others.

Quelli che sono veri vi ameranno così come siete, e gli altri possono andare a farsi fottere.

ESTP

Rallentate un po' e iniziate a trovare la bellezza nella pace.

Invece di passare un altro anno a preservare il vostro status di farfalla sociale, concentratevi su un po' di auto-introspezione e su alcune persone che meritano davvero la vostra presenza.

ESTJ

Nel 2025, lasciate la vostra zona di comfort.

It doesn’t matter whether this is a romantic relationship which hasn’t been making you felice for a while, a job you want to quit or something else: the point is that you keep yourself stuck in one place just because you’re afraid of the unfamiliar.

È ora che le cose cambino. Abbiate il coraggio di andare verso l'ignoto e di vedere cosa vi porterà il futuro.