Being a catch is ultimately attractive. But, most of the time, people confuse being a catch with having a lot of potential daters and never being single.
They don’t know that there are two sides to being a catch. Being a catch means never being single and always having others pursuing you and courting you.
But being a catch also means being forever single because other people might find you too intimidating.
Especially if you’re not afraid to say what you mean and you’re not afraid to show your confidence, others will find you too intimidating and they will be afraid to approach you.
And then you start thinking that you’re not attractive and you find yourself asking your friend the inevitable question: Am I attractive?
But the reality is the total opposite. This has nothing to do with not being attractive.
On the contrary, it means you’re too attractive, which intimidates them and prevents them from reaching you.
If that is the case, you should not be frustrated over this because if they are afraid of approaching you, it means they don’t even deserve you.
Wait for someone who will show you real confidence and who will not be afraid to stand by your side.