While some people are quick to forgive and forget, others can hold onto a grudge like it’s their lifeline. Whether it’s a stubborn refusal to let bygones be bygones or a deep emotional wound that’s hard to heal, the zodiac can explain a lot about why some signs simply can’t let go.
Grudges aren’t just about holding onto anger—they’re about protecting oneself from further harm or betrayal. Some zodiac signs are naturally more inclined to cling to the past, either because of their intense emotions, high standards, or an innate need to set boundaries.
These signs aren’t necessarily trying to be difficult; instead, their stubbornness is often a way of preserving their emotional wellbeing or reinforcing their sense of justice.
This list highlights the zodiac signs most likely to hold onto a grudge for the long haul. If you’ve ever wronged one of these signs, be prepared for a long road to forgiveness—if forgiveness is even in the cards at all! So, who makes the cut for the zodiac’s most stubborn grudge-holders?
1. Taurus
It’s no wonder you made it onto the list. You are the most stubborn sign of them all and you will hold a grudge forever. When someone steps on your toes, you will never forgive them. It wouldn’t be surprising if you had a little black book with names underlined in red to keep track of who did you wrong.
Actually, you want to forgive someone and accept their apology, but you are too stubborn and too proud to do sot.
Once someone makes you upset, you can even step on your pride and accept the apology, but you’re never going to trust that person again.
2. Leo
You are the absolute ruler of the world. If anyone does you wrong, they better turn around and run fast. They can forget about hanging out with you ever again. No one wants to piss off a lion.
Not only will you hold the grudge for so long, but you will also be very mean. It’s your defense mechanism.
You turn into an utterly testy person to protect yourself. Usually, you are very protective of others, but when you get hurt, you close up and create a mean surface to keep everyone out.
You are able to let go of the grudge, but the person who committed that crime will have to really prove themselves worthy of your attention to get back into the game.
But, actually, having a friend like you is worth suffering in order to get you back.
3. Libra
You will completely shut down anyone who insulted you in any way in your life. They won’t even get a chance to apologize because you are so skilled in making yourself invisible when you want.
You are also an Oscar-worthy actor. You can pretend like everything is fine and that you forgave that person, and then in a few days, you shove it all back in their face. You will never cool down and you can hold a grudge for eternity.
You have the ability to give someone the silent treatment until they crack—no one beats you at that game. Usually, you are very fair and logical, but when someone steps on your toes, you go berserk and you forget what is right and what is wrong. Even if you forgive someone, you will never forget.
4. Scorpio
When it comes to holding grudges, no one does it with more intensity than Scorpio. You are the zodiac’s emotional detective, and when someone wrongs you, it’s as if they’ve committed a cardinal sin.
Betrayal cuts deep, and your trust is not easily given—or regained. You don’t just hold grudges; you stew in them, letting your emotions fuel your resolve never to let the offender back into your inner circle.
While you may forgive on the surface to keep the peace, underneath lies a quiet determination to never forget. It’s not about being petty—it’s about protecting your heart from further damage. Beware anyone who breaks your trust because, with you, redemption is a steep mountain to climb.
5. Capricorn
Capricorns are not just goal-oriented in their careers—they also take grudges very seriously. You believe in respect and loyalty, and when someone crosses a line, you see it as a personal failure of their character.
Forgiveness is not in your vocabulary unless the offender proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that they are genuinely sorry. Even then, you might keep them at arm’s length because rebuilding trust feels like wasted energy to you.
You’re not one to lash out, but your icy silence speaks volumes and can last indefinitely. To you, holding a grudge is less about emotional turmoil and more about enforcing boundaries. After all, you have no time for anyone who doesn’t value your worth.
6. Aquarius
While Aquarius might come across as carefree and detached, they are surprisingly stubborn when it comes to holding grudges.
When someone betrays your trust or challenges your beliefs, you can be as unyielding as a rock. Forgiveness might happen eventually, but only after you’ve convinced yourself that the person has truly learned their lesson.
Your grudge-holding is less about revenge and more about principle—you want others to understand the weight of their actions and how they affect you.
Those who cross you should know that winning back your trust is no easy feat, but for those who succeed, your loyalty runs deeper than most.
