They value their ability to keep everything under control. And if loneliness is the price to pay, they will seal the deal.
They choose these men because they know they won’t get emotionally involved and they won’t question their abilities or their authority.
There is nothing worse for a strong woman than compromising, letting their partner see their vulnerable side and mutual decision-making.
The only people they trust is themselves. So the ideal choice for a relationship is a man who won’t get involved too much. Because he doesn’t care.
Sometimes, the heart makes its own decisions and their mind gets overwhelmed with questions like: “What if he hurts me?”, “What if I let him love me and he doesn’t know how?”, “what if he tries to manipulate me?”
They will question themselves but in the end, they are never going to give up. They are never going to let anyone compromise their freedom or independence.
Underneath it all, they are so scared to lose what it took them so long to build. That’s why women choose emotionally unavailable men. Because they choose to.