When you are in a committed relationship, it doesn’t mean that you have the right to rule over your partner and make decisions for the both of you.
These women know that and they know that in order to make a man fall in love and commit, they have to give them some space. Men function like that, unlike women.
When a woman is hurt, she will have the need to talk it out with someone.
She’ll crave emotional support and understanding but when a man is hurt or has some kind of a problem, he’ll close up. He’ll try to find a way to deal with it on his own.
That’s why you need to give him some space. If he comes home irritated and you see that he has a problem, let him sort it out.
Once he’s done, he’ll tell you all about it. If you bother him with millions of questions like, what’s happening, why are you acting all weird, you’ll only make him feel worse and you won’t get an answer. Let him lock himself up in his man cave and deal with his shit alone.