Being a good listener means you’re interested in what is going on in other people’s lives.
It means you’re not egocentric and only interested in yourself and talking about your life. Being a good listener is a top attractive quality one can have.
Has anyone ever told you that they feel like they can tell you anything?
If yes, you should feel flattered because it means they find you reliable and they enjoy talking to you.
But if no one has said that but you notice that people like to talk to you or when they have a problem, they go to you for advice, it means they think you are a great listener.
It means you are highly attractive and you appreciate others.
You appreciate hearing what is going on in their lives and you’re always there to help them cope with their difficulties.