9. He plays the hot and cold game

BySelma June
man sitting in a room with graffiti

One day he wants to be with you all the time and loves spending time with you, giving you the most amazing compliments and all those accidental touches that make your blood surge with desire.

And the next day he is so busy that the guy is practically non-existent.

The explanation is quite simple—he’s in love with you but he’s not ready to come forward.

Maybe he’s not sure how you feel, maybe he’s afraid of rejection or getting his heart broken.

But for one moment he loses himself and lets go of all the boundaries and walls.

He is as close to you as it gets without letting you know he’s into you.

And he’s afraid that you have figured it out, so he turns cold the next day.

But still, if he has fuckboy tendencies, let the boy loose. You don’t need those kinds of games in your life.

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