Author: Selma June

If you want to take a sneak peek into the male mind, our relationship expert Selma is here to guide you through the process. She explains the good and the bad side of male behaviour through the female perspective and gives women precious dating advice.
  • 6. Do you have opinions?

    If you’re the type of woman who has an opinion on everything, and you don’t just nod at everything he says, he’ll notice it. If he sees that you have strong opinions regardless of the topic, he’ll see you as his equal, and he’ll respect you. Men want to be challenged because it’s in their…

  • 3. Whether you enjoy life.

    Except for your smile and eyes, they’ll notice the way you walk and the way you talk. These are all indicators of your personality and your overall contentment with your life. They notice if you’re talking with passion and whether you’re interested in what’s happening around you. They notice whether you enjoy life and appreciate the little…

  • 2. Eyes.

    No, they’re not interested in the amount of mascara on your eyelashes. They don’t notice any of it. But, they will notice if your eyes display sadness, grief or happiness. Your eyes will tell them if your smile is genuine and if you enjoy being with them. There’s no need to worry about anything else except…

  • 1. Smile.

    While you’re worrying about the color of your lipstick, men will only notice your smile. When it comes to men, your smile is the most powerful weapon in your possession, but sometimes when we’re preoccupied with other less important things, we simply forget to smile. A smile is a universal sign that will tell your…

  • 10. Play a player

    To play a player properly, you need to know some basic rules, but the most important rule of playing is to NEVER fall in love. This is just a game, remember that. Make him think that you like him, while you’re enjoying your single life to the fullest. Make him feel special while knowing that everything…

  • 7. Maintain the mystery

    Don’t give out too much information about yourself. Give him just enough to answer the question, but not enough that he would have the complete story. No mentioning of exes, of your dreams, hopes, and fears. You see, the most important thing to do is to remain mysterious and by doing all of this, you…

  • 5. Flirt

    You’re heading to the second half of the game, the crowd is on their feet and the ball is your court. Look at him seductively across the room; make him come to you. Talk to him, laugh at his jokes, but show him that you’re not falling for his womanizing tactics. Don’t compliment him; keep…