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  • 7. Use body language

    No one can stay cool when being seduced with body language. When you use body language, you are sending messages that are indirect but they will stay carved deep in his mind. They roll around in his subconscious, subtly telling him that you are interested in him. You may lean forward to him, touch him accidentally,…

  • 6. Get his heart pumping

    Other than getting his heart pumping with love, try to get it pumping for another reason. Give him an adrenaline boost. Take him somewhere, make him do something exciting with you. Most guys are daredevils and they want to test their limits, so the best way to enchant or impress him and make him see…

  • 2. Stand up to him

    Sometimes, when you think he has crossed the line, stand up to him and put a stop to his aggressiveness. Be brave and show him that no one can mess with you. This will either scare him because he is a coward, in which case you don’t need him, or it will make him realize…

  • 1. Be yourself

    This is the first and most important thing. If he doesn’t like you for who you are, then don’t even try to make him obsessed with you because you’ll get sick of pretending to be something you’re not and your relationship will fail, sooner or later. You have to show him all of your sides,…

  • 8. Lack of self-love

    Have your emotional needs ever been met by your mother? If not, you’ll have a hard time loving yourself and creating healthy relationships with others. Lack of self-love and codependency (emotional or psychological dependence on a partner) will dominate your being. If you’ve never experienced a mother’s unconditional love, you’ll feel undeserving of it. Subconsciously, you’ll think that you’re the one to…

  • 7. You have an avoidant-attachment style

    If your parent-child relationship wasn’t healthy, you would become a legit candidate for developing an avoidant-attachment style during adulthood. Here’s how the psychology of avoidant-attachment style is explained by Insider: “When our needs aren’t met consistently by our primary caregivers, we form the belief that they won’t be met by any significant other, [and] that we can’t ever rely…