Breakups or any form of significant loss deprive us of the sanity and rationality we may previously have been proud of.
It hurts like heck, but you learn a few lessons along the way. You learn how to cope with unpleasant feelings. You learn how to let it go and move on with your life.
The most important thing you learn is that the pain will pass, that it makes you stronger, and that you are ready for someone who will love you like you deserve.
Heartbreak changes every zodiac sign differently, but change is inevitable for all of us. Read below if you want to know how your zodiac sign handles heartbreak.
1. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
For this zodiac sign, it’s important to stay focused on the future. That’s why Aquarians try to heal as soon as possible after a heartbreak.
They find new things to look forward to, or try to occupy themselves with work.
They do whatever it takes just so they don’t think of their former relationship.
Their natural curiosity drives them to explore hobbies they may have neglected during the relationship, or even pick up new ones.
An Aquarian might suddenly start learning a new language, volunteering for a cause, or deep-diving into books that fuel their intellectual thirst.
One of their most significant traits is that they are independent. In a relationship, they aren’t at all possessive, they give independence to their partners because they like equality.
After they heal, they enjoy reconnecting with their solitude or they might even start to think that they prefer being single, as it frees up their intellectual capacities and gives them more time to dedicate to their interests.
After they experience heartbreak, they go into seclusion. After they get over the initial shock, they may be depressed but they don’t show their suffering or seek sympathy from people around them.
They channel their energy into envisioning a better future, filled with aspirations that have nothing to do with their past.
They start going out like never before, trying to prove to their friends and family they are fine.
Exploring new places or people that have been missing out on their company is their number one priority.
2. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
In love and relationship, Pisces are blindly loyal and very caring. They are also generous, compassionate and extremely faithful and caring.
This is a sign that is ready for the most romantic and honest relationship.
Their romantic nature makes them believe in fairytales, which is why heartbreak hits them harder than most.
Because of their personality, they feel pretty shattered and really need some time to heal. Their heart can easily be broken, and picking up the pieces takes time.
While their initial reaction is to retreat into their dreamy world, they often find themselves reminiscing about the good times, sometimes replaying old memories that bring both comfort and pain.
Sometimes, they can also swim away from the problem and ignore their pain. But that only makes the pain last longer and hurt even more once they eventually confront it.
Friends and family often play a crucial role in pulling Pisces back to reality, reminding them that their sensitivity is a gift, not a burden.
They believe in forever love, and heartbreak can shatter their illusion about “happily ever after.“
This deep emotional pain changes their perspective on love. They start to think that love isn’t for them, and it is difficult for them to start a new relationship.
However, once they’ve worked through the pain, their boundless capacity for love allows them to open up once again, though with a little more wisdom this time around.
3. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
An Aries never shows how much they really suffer, not even to their closest friends or family members. They like to give others the impression of people who do not care too much.
Beneath this tough exterior, though, is someone trying to make sense of the unexpected blow to their ego and heart.
After being heart broken, an Aries may want to train for a marathon or take up spinning to remind others and themselves how capable they are and on how much their ex is missing out.
Their competitive spirit drives them to prove they’re better off, often engaging in challenges that push their limits.
They don’t do well with pain, so they delay confronting their pain for as long as they possibly can. Instead, they channel their energy into projects or adventures that help distract them from the ache.
However, those closest to them can often catch glimpses of their vulnerability in fleeting moments.
Because they lead their lives with such optimism and abandon, any downturn in a relationship can come as a complete shock. It may take them by surprise, but an Aries isn’t one to stay down for long.
But we should think of them as a phoenix that rises from the ashes and moves on even more ready for anything that may come.
Their resilience is their superpower, allowing them to face heartbreak with bravery and emerge stronger, ready to tackle whatever comes next.
4. Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Feeling broken-hearted is a huge blow to the emotional state of a Taurus. They don’t like changes, so they do their best to try to save the relationship.
Their loyal nature often leads them to overextend themselves, even when things are clearly falling apart. A Taurus will try to find every possible way to make things work before accepting defeat.
At first, fear of change stops them from moving on, but after the healing process, they become aware that the break has given them many new opportunities that they might otherwise miss.
They slowly start to embrace their newfound independence, learning to prioritize their personal growth over clinging to the past.
After heartbreak, they go looking for as much comfort as possible. A Taurus feels anger after a breakup. They usually feel rage, and they are ready to crush everything in their way.
However, their anger is often short-lived, as they channel it into productive activities like reorganizing their space or indulging in self-care rituals.
In this process, the main comfort for them is food.
They find solace in cooking elaborate meals or visiting their favorite restaurants, grounding themselves in familiar pleasures. In future relationships, they trust their head, not their heart.
This cautious approach helps them avoid repeating the mistakes of the past, ensuring that they build something truly solid when they’re ready to love again.
5. Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
The biggest challenge for any Gemini’s love life is to find an emotion that lasts, especially as they get older.
Their dual nature often makes them restless, always seeking something exciting and new. This can make heartbreak feel less devastating at first but more confusing over time as they try to understand their feelings.
They aren’t used to heartbreak because they don’t like to get too serious in a relationship.
However, when it does happen, Geminis generally want to be anywhere but home after a breakup. Sitting still and dwelling on their emotions isn’t their style; they prefer action and distraction.
Geminis are social butterflies, and rather than seeking isolation, they tend to surround themselves with people as a distraction when they’re feeling down.
They might dive into group outings, spontaneous road trips, or attending events to keep their minds busy.
For this flirty sign, there’s nothing a night out with friends can’t fix. They may even indulge in lighthearted flirting as a way to remind themselves of their charm.
It’s clear to Geminis that breakups are not the best thing in the world, but it is also clear to them that life goes on after heartbreak.
They give themselves just a little bit of time to heal and are ready to continue with their life.
They start looking for someone new very quickly and forget about heartbreak even faster, convinced that new experiences are the best cure for an old wound.
6. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer is a very emotional sign, and feelings are the most important thing in their relationships. They gladly show their sensibility to the world without even thinking they might get hurt.
Their open-hearted approach to love makes heartbreak particularly devastating, often leaving them feeling exposed and vulnerable.
When it comes to heartbreak, Cancerians are very childish. They don’t like negative feelings and start acting like kids who have been refused to buy ice cream.
They retreat into their shell, avoiding the world and drowning in their emotions. Nostalgia often takes over as they relive every happy moment with their ex, making it harder for them to let go.
They start thinking that relationships and love make no sense. That life doesn’t make sense. They feel like the universe is crumbling beneath them.
Their overwhelming sadness can often seep into other aspects of their lives, affecting their work, hobbies, and even their relationships with friends and family.
They don’t think they will ever find another love. Honestly, they are a total mess. Their physical health is endangered; swollen face, constantly runny nose, and zero appetite.
But the beauty of Cancer is their resilience. Slowly, they begin to realize that their capacity for love is infinite, and they’re capable of rebuilding.
Fortunately, after some time, after they heal, they start to look at everything differently. Heartbreak is left in the past, and they are ready to move on.
Because they are eternal optimists, even a breakup doesn’t stop them from believing in fairytale love.
7. Leo (January 20 – February 18)
Leos generally have a sixth sense about all of their relationships, and they’re pretty good at determining who has sincere intentions.
That’s why heartbreak can be pretty confusing for them. They often wonder how they could have misread the situation or allowed themselves to get hurt.
It affects Leo’s ego. Although they are saddened by the loss of their SO, the greater problem is their hurt pride, which makes them do things they may regret later.
They might throw themselves into extravagant distractions, such as hosting parties, embarking on luxurious vacations, or reinventing their image.
They don’t let their ex-partner know that they have been hurt, even if their heart is broken. Leos go out and have fun, posting flawless selfies and trying to prove how much fun they are having.
Their social media often becomes a highlight reel, designed to show their ex what they’re missing.
Afterward, it’s not uncommon for them to blame themselves for everything and even go into a shame spiral. They replay the relationship in their minds, searching for where it went wrong.
They’re usually very confident, but there’s nothing like heartbreak to cut them down a few notches. However, Leos don’t stay down for long.
Once they’ve processed their emotions, they return with even greater strength, ready to shine brighter than ever.
8. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgos are one of the most careful signs of the zodiac. Trust needs to be built with a Virgo, slowly, steadily, and patiently. When they are hurt, they completely change.
The loss of trust in someone they allowed into their inner circle can feel almost unbearable, and their analytical minds may replay every moment of the relationship in painstaking detail, searching for what went wrong.
Every relationship is special and meaningful to them, and they want them to last as long as possible.
When a Virgo commits, they do so with the intention of building something lasting, which is why a breakup feels like the collapse of a well-thought-out plan.
A Virgo prefers a stable relationship to having fun. So, when heartbreak comes along, it feels like someone has ripped their heart out of their chest.
Their practical nature becomes a double-edged sword, as they try to suppress their emotions while silently drowning in them.
Heartbreak leads them to a total shutdown of their emotions and affection.
They throw themselves into work, hobbies, or any project that offers structure and a sense of purpose. However, this emotional retreat often leaves them feeling lonely and misunderstood.
They feel like no one will ever deserve their love or that they are going to be hurt every time they enter into a relationship. They turn cold-hearted.
Heartbreak makes them numb, and it can take a very long time to find themselves again. But when they do, Virgos emerge stronger and wiser, with a renewed focus on what truly matters to them.
9. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Finding a compatible partner is the main priority in the life of people born with their Sun in Libra.
They thrive in harmonious relationships, and a breakup feels like a disruption to their entire sense of balance and self-worth.
They hate being alone. Partnership is very important for them, so any break is extremely stressful.
A Libra might spend hours analyzing the breakup, wondering what they could have done differently to maintain the relationship.
They often struggle to reconcile their need for peace with the harsh reality of heartbreak.
Because they don’t like to be alone, they move into a new relationship relatively quickly, which helps them heal their broken heart more easily and forget about their former love.
While this approach may seem like a shortcut to healing, it can sometimes lead to unresolved emotions bubbling up later.
However, this can be very dangerous as it affects their confidence even more. In moments of solitude, they seek comfort in love poetry or another form of art filled with tragedy.
Their artistic soul finds solace in beauty, whether through music, painting, or creating something that expresses their pain.
They feel that the only way of getting over a heartbreak is finding new love and getting into a relationship as soon as possible.
But over time, Libras learn that true healing comes from finding balance within themselves, not just in partnerships.
10. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Scorpios are passionate and assertive people. They are known for their calm and cool behavior. Once Scorpios fall in love, they are very dedicated and faithful.
However, they enter into a relationship very carefully, because they need a lot of time to build trust and respect for partners.
Once they have finally gotten over the heartbreak, it’s unusual for a Scorpio to turn back to it. However, dealing with a broken heart makes them surprisingly weak.
Once they understand what has happened, they are sad and disappointed and their confidence is dangerously damaged.
Their intense emotions can manifest as anger or frustration, but they rarely show this vulnerability to others.
They don’t embark on new relationships, except for short ones, based on physical attraction.
After a couple of weeks, they are usually back on their feet, acknowledging their hurt feelings and in full control of their emotions, turning them into lessons learned and not holding any grudges.
They rise from the ashes with a renewed sense of purpose and a clearer understanding of what they want in a partner.
They’re pretty easy going and can accept that not everyone will be their forever person, and that they have to experience heartbreak at least once in their life. And they’re always “real” about who they are.
They consider feeling sorry for yourself to be unattractive.
11. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius is one of the biggest travelers among all the zodiac signs. Their adventurous spirit and love for freedom make them resilient in the face of heartbreak.
They are open-minded and optimistic, always looking for the silver lining, even when their heart is aching.
Sagittarians tend to get over heartbreak faster than others.
It’s not that they’re not hurting or that they forget the ex quickly; it’s just that they don’t want to hold onto the past or show their real emotions.
They value their independence too much to let heartbreak define them.
They are restless, and after their relationship ends, they go as far away as possible.
Whether it’s planning a solo backpacking trip, exploring a new city, or diving into a new hobby, Sagittarius uses adventure as a way to heal.
They believe the world is too big and full of possibilities to stay stuck in sadness for too long.
They try to plan many adventures with their friends. These shared experiences not only distract them but also remind them of the joys of connection and laughter.
And that’s because after a breakup, they have a tendency to hide their true feelings and show their ‘perfect’ look to others.
Their pride keeps them from revealing the depth of their pain, but over time, they find healing in the freedom and excitement of discovering new paths.
12. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorns find it painfully hard to express their feelings. They choose to quietly suffer, even if that means they can’t talk it out with their closest friends.
Their stoic nature often leads others to believe they’re unaffected, but deep down, they feel heartbreak intensely.
They hate feeling weakness of any kind. They choose unhealthy ways when dealing with their emotional problems.
Capricorn might throw themselves into work, taking on extra projects to distract from their inner turmoil. Their ambition becomes both a coping mechanism and a way to regain control over their life.
They try to forget all about their heartbreak so they can get back to being themselves again, even if the heartbreak still haunts them late at night.
Their nights are often spent reflecting on what went wrong, replaying conversations, and strategizing how to avoid the same mistakes in the future.
Capricorn gets busy or starts making changes to their daily routine. They don’t easily embark on a new relationship because they need some time to start trusting people again.
But when they do, they approach love with a newfound sense of caution and wisdom.
They start changing their traditional views on love and relationships. Over time, heartbreak teaches Capricorns that vulnerability isn’t a weakness—it’s a strength.
This realization helps them grow into more compassionate and open-hearted individuals, ready to rebuild when the time is right.
