10 cosas que deberías saber antes de salir con una mujer alfa

Cuando salgas con una mujer alfa significa que estás tratando con una mujer que no es como las mujeres normales.

Sabe lo que quiere, cómo lo quiere y cuándo lo quiere, y si intentas cambiarla, te dejará en el mismo segundo.

Es independiente y sabe decir lo que piensa, pero por otro lado es bastante emocional y bondadosa.

Así que, para todos los que pensáis que salir con una mujer alfa será pan comido y que podréis hacerla girar alrededor de vuestro dedo meñique, tengo malas noticias para vosotros.

Not only will you get hurt in a relationship like that but if she doesn’t get the love she needs, she will do everything to make you hate all other women.

Y eso, amigo mío, no es cosa fácil. Esto es lo que tienes que saber antes de empezar a salir con ella, así que lee con atención.

She doesn’t need you

In fact, she doesn’t need anyone. She knows how to survive por su cuenta and she definitely doesn’t need a man to complete her.

A woman like this will never show that she needs you but that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t want you badly.

She is independent, self-sufficient and she feels damn good in her own skin. So, whatever you do, don’t try to change her because you won’t succeed.

Es emocionalmente estable

Ella no es el tipo de mujer que llorará hasta quedarse dormida sólo porque estabas ligando con otra chica.

She knows how much she brings to the table and she surely won’t waste her time or her tears on you. A woman like this knows what she deserves so she won’t settle for less than what she deserves.

Está rodeada de gente positiva

Lo último que necesita son vampiros emocionales que la dejen seca. Sus puertas están cerradas a ese tipo de personas y solo está rodeada de personas positivas.

So, if you try to make her fight with her family and friends or if she sees that you are not the man you pretended to be, she will leave you and won’t even give you an excuse as to why.

No es fácil de manejar

With a girl like this, you will have to go the extra mile to show her how much you love her. It won’t be enough for her to buy her expensive gifts and, in doing so, buy her love.

She wants you to spoil her with loyalty. Ordinary things are not for her and she won’t settle for them. So, if you really love her, show her that she is special and that you are so blessed to have her in your life.

Pero ella vale cada segundo de tu tiempo

She has a strong attitude and she won’t let any man guíala. So, don’t freak out the first time she declines to do something for you. She does that because she doesn’t feel comfortable and you should respect that.

De hecho, puedes aprender de su actitud para trabajar en ti mismo. Estoy seguro de que te beneficiará de diferentes maneras y te convertirás en una mejor persona gracias a ella.

Sabe lo que quiere

And she wants it right away. For a woman like this, there are no obstacles and no problems that she can’t handle. She is progressive and she will do anything to achieve her goals.

When she decides to go after something, she will let you know about that and you can be sure that she won’t change her mind just because you don’t like something about it.

Es lista

A woman like this is smart and she knows when it is time to express her opinion. She is not ashamed to talk about things that are considered to be taboo in front of other people and she definitely won’t feel bad about it.

In fact, she will be proud of mentioning something that others would like to mention too but are too scared that society won’t accept them if they do.

Te desafiará mucho

Una mujer así es conocida por desafiarte mucho. Discutirá contigo todo el día si tiene que convencerte de que tiene razón.

She will push you to your limits and she will want to make a better person out of you. Thanks to her, you will reveal that you have some abilities that you didn’t know you had.

Quiere que la respetes

Si quieres salir con una mujer alfa, you should respect everything about her—her lifestyle, her opinion and the way she drinks freaking coffee in the morning.

She can’t live with someone who will always tell her to change this or that because if she is to be changed, it will be because she wants it and not because others do. She wants you to have your opinion but to respect hers as well.

She doesn’t want you to protect her

Ella es el tipo de mujer who can live on her own so don’t try to protect her. She knows how to do that by herself and she will just be irritated if you offer her something like this.

Déjala ser y siempre, pero siempre, mantén una buena comunicación con ella porque esa es la clave de toda relación exitosa.