10 caras que experimentas cuando estás perdidamente enamorada de él
There is one person out there who has the ability to make you feel some emotions you have never experienced before with anyone else. You all know that love cannot be just a perfect road without any flaws—but the day you cross the path of this specific man, you feel like it is a no-brainer. You feel this way because of the effect he has on you.
1. Buenas vibraciones
He makes you feel a bunch of pleasant feelings. You don’t have to worry about anything with him, and it feels good.
Te sientes tranquilo y cómodo cuando está a tu lado; te hace reír y, de alguna manera, te hace sentir bendecido.
Bendita porque sabes que, en el fondo, eres la afortunada que tiene la oportunidad de crear una relación única, un vínculo único con él, simplemente porque ha accedido a dejarte entrar en su mundo.
2. Seguridad
He is neither Captain America nor Professor X—and he’s perfectly aware of that—but you cannot help feeling safe with him and within your relationship.
Haces todo lo posible para que los dos os sintáis así, a gusto y felices, aunque sepas que sois dos individuos independientes en primer lugar. No hay mejor sensación que estar enamorado pero siendo libre.
3. Mente abierta
Le consideras especial porque no sólo te hace sentir que eres increíble, sino que, en realidad, también es excepcional.
Le aprecias de verdad por lo que es. Tiene defectos, por supuesto, como cualquiera. Pero lo que piensas de esa declaración no es otra cosa que: “And so what? Nobody’s perfect.”
4. Positividad
When it comes time to thinking of him, your brain doesn’t function the same way. Your mind experiments with an unlimited number of ideas and dreams; your words are meaningful; your feelings are intense; your adoration has no limits; your sweetness is pure; your honesty is genuine.
You do feel confident about being yourself with him. You are not scared of thinking about the future and including him in it. You don’t wonder if he will still be close to you in several months and/or years because you peacefully feel like you don’t need to wonder—he will.
5. Atención
You observe him. You may stop doing whatever you are doing at a specific moment just to look at him, and you don’t get tired of doing it.
You simply adore that human being you are looking at. You just don’t do it in a creepy way. He might ask you sometimes why you are doing that… just listen to your heart; it gives you the answer.
6. Gestión de la ira
You don’t have time to be angry toward him. You are mad sometimes, of course—you are human after all—but it does not last more than a few minutes – or a few hours si estás muy, muy, enfadado. Si es así, cálmate, piensa con claridad y abre el tema. Tu enfado desaparecerá.
7. Adoración profunda
Amas, amas de verdad y nunca dejas de hacerlo. Estás aquí y allí para los demás, pero lo más importante es que estás aquí y allí para él.
You care for any relationship you have with anyone close to you, but the one you share with him is one of your favorite ones. That man doesn’t need to try being a light in your life to feel that way. That is just who he is—your light.
8. Honestidad
You don’t need to play any mind games, to lie about your feelings, to try any kind of manipulation, and to have any kind of freaking control.
Todo suena muy natural. Confías en él. Puede que no seas capaz de dar una razón para ello, así que, ¿Por qué? Simplemente porque tu instinto te lo dice, y nunca se equivoca.
9. Sin miedo
“What if” doesn’t exist – or at the very least, it doesn’t last because you fight for what you sincerely wish, and you dare to live new adventures with him. You are aware that life is short, and you know you don’t want to waste your relationship.
On the other hand, you don’t rush anything because you know good things take time to come, always.
10. Realista
In the end—yes, you love him to the point that you always try to think before saying anything hurtful, painful or regretful. ¿Es ser estúpido?
En realidad, es el comportamiento de alguien que nunca da nada por sentado, y menos a esa persona en particular.
Por Mathilde Clemence Personne
