10 razones por las que las "solteras para siempre" son las mejores novias

1. Ella entiende el amor de tantas maneras completamente diferentes

Just because she was alone for a long time doesn’t mean she doesn’t understand love or the meaning of it. She is a woman who knows how to love herself, how to love her life and how to love her friends and family.

Es una mujer que aprendió por las malas lo que es realmente el amor y te dará lo mejor de sí misma. Te dará lo que espera que le des. Y nada menos.

2. Sabe a qué atenerse

Sabe quién es y se aprecia demasiado como para dejar que nadie le quite su valía o su autoestima. Sabe lo que quiere y te quiere a ti. Créeme, no hay mayor honor que ese.

Sabe muy bien lo que siente y nunca te hará adivinar lo que piensa o cómo se siente. No le interesan los juegos porque le gusta ser realista.

3. Nunca se precipita

She takes everything slowly because she knows what she’s been through and she respects herself enough to ask you to respect her as well. And if she decided to let you in, rest assured that she didn’t do it in the heat of the moment.

She took her time to think it through, to see if you’re worth it. And she will keep on doing it because she values both your time and hers.

4. No es pegajosa

She learned to be on her own and she really enjoys it. She will never be angry if you are spending time with your friends or by yourself because she needs some time on her own as well. And she will not be overly needy because that’s just not who she is.

5. No aguantará gilipolleces

Ella no se reconstruyó para que tú la rompieras y no pasó todo ese tiempo aprendiendo a quererse para que tú le quitaras ese amor.

Have no doubt that she will give you a piece of her mind when it comes to it. She knows better than to put up with anyone’s crap.

6. Sabe lo especial y única que es

She felt special before you and she will probably feel special after you. The reason she decided to let you in is because you managed to come through all of her defensive mechanisms and there is something about you that made her think that she’s listo para el amor.

But that doesn’t mean that she will forget how to love herself or how to make herself feel special. It just means that you won’t have to put as much as effort in dancing around. Instead, that effort will be put into making memories and living adventures together.

7. Se liberó de cargas emocionales

Una mujer que dedicó tanto tiempo a sí misma aprendió a hacer las paces con su pasado y aprendió que las relaciones de rebote no son lo suyo.

She took time to heal and to move on which is why there won’t be crazy exes coming to your door, no memories haunting her because she defeated them long time ago. 

8. Está contigo porque quiere, no porque lo necesite

And that’s the reason she will put the effort to make you happy and to make you stay. Knowing that someone is with you because they want to be, because they love spending time with you, they love your stupid jokes and all your flaws, is the most amazing feeling in the world—knowing that your significant other loves you for you, not for the things you can do for them.

9. Tiene un alto nivel de exigencia

She wasn’t alone by chance—she was alone by choice. She is not interested in settling for anything less than what she deserves. She is not interested in lowering her standards just so she can say that she is in relationship. She has high standards and you met them all.

10. Es capaz de ver tu valía 

Ella siempre se asegurará de que te sientas apreciado porque sabe lo que se siente cuando te dan por sentado y lo que se siente cuando alguien está contigo sólo porque tienen miedo de estar solos.

Se asegurará de que te sientas querido y respetado, igual que ella quiere ser querida, apreciada y respetada. La relación que tendrás con ella será la relación con el premio gordo seguro