10 señales de que tu ex te ha superado y no quiere volver contigo

Toda ruptura es emocionalmente difícil de manejar y aceptar.

But, one of the worst feelings in the world is when you still have strong emotions for someone who doesn’t love you anymore and who has obviously moved on with his life.

You simply don’t know what to do with the amor que quedó en ti y te pasas el día descifrando sus señales e intentando averiguar si hay al menos algún rastro de esperanza de que volváis a estar juntos.

Por tanto, si tiene dudas sobre si tu ex te ha superado o todavía te quiereAquí tienes 10 señales para regalar he doesn’t want you atrás.

Sé que a veces es difícil aceptar la verdad, pero siempre es mejor que vivir en una mentira.

Por lo tanto, si descubre que su ex hace la mayoría, o todas, de las cosas que se mencionan a continuación, tenga la certeza de que para él la reconciliación no es una opción.

Bloquea tu número y tus cuentas sociales

One of the most obvious signs your ex-boyfriend doesn’t want you back is the fact that he has changed his phone number or that he has blocked yours.

It is possible that he did this because he was hurt, but the fact is that he doesn’t want you back.

Otra buena señal es que bloquee todas tus cuentas en las redes sociales.

By doing this, this guy doesn’t leave any options open. He wants to make sure that you have no possibility of contacting him ever again.

The harsh truth is that he doesn’t want you to have access to his social network profiles, because he doesn’t want you to know what he’s been doing and where he’s been going.

The same is with your profiles—he is not interested in seeing what you’ve been up to.

Blocking you may not be the most mature thing your ex has done, but it is clear that he was ready to go of his way to ignore you, so please respect his wishes and don’t even think about chasing him.

Te devuelve tus cosas y quiere recuperar las suyas

        

When we break-up with someone but still have deep feelings for that person, it is usual for us to hold on to the memories we have that remind us of that person. Some of these memories are tied up in our ex-lover’s belongings.

But, if your ex-boyfriend insists on giving you your stuff back as soon as possible and getting back his own, it is probable that he doesn’t want to have anything to do with you.

Sé que probablemente pienses que te llama para devolverte tus cosas sólo porque quiere algún tipo de contacto contigo, pero probablemente eso esté lejos de la verdad.

It is likely that he wants to have a fresh start and that he doesn’t want to keep anything that could remind him of you.

This guy is clearly over you, so he doesn’t need your things as something to hold on to.

At the same time, it doesn’t seem that reconciliation is an option for him, so he wants to have all of his belongings back right away.

He doesn’t try to contact you

Uno de los primeros signos de que su tu ex novio sigue sintiendo algo por ti es que intenta contactar contigo de todas las formas posibles.

But, if this guy is over you, he won’t contact you in any way. Instead, he will try avoiding any possible contact.

This doesn’t necessarily have to mean that this man will be rude to you, but he just knows that there is no need for the two of you stay in touch.

He doesn’t want to fool himself, thinking you could stay friends.

Por lo tanto, piensa que cualquier tipo de contacto entre vosotros dos es innecesario.

For men and women to stay in touch after the split has happened is nothing uncommon, but if your boyfriend doesn’t have the desire to do so, it is obvious that he doesn’t plan on getting back together with you and that he wants to move on with his life without you in it.

He doesn’t respond to your phone calls and texts messages

Cuando ves que tu ex novio sigue adelante con su vida, tu primer impulso es intentar acercarte a él, antes de que se olvide por completo de ti.

Pero, estoy aquí para decirte que este es el mayor error que podrías cometer.

Al hacer esto, sólo le estás mostrando que puede tenerte cuando quiera y sólo lo estás alejando más de ti.

This way, he’ll perceive you as being too needy and desperate and that is the last thing you want.

Por lo tanto, si sigues llamando o enviando mensajes de texto a tu ex, pero no obtienes una respuesta afirmativa o él nunca es el primero en ponerse en contacto contigo, es una de las señales obvias your ex doesn’t want you back y tienes que aceptarlo.

A veces es posible que atienda tu llamada o responda a tu mensaje, pero debes asegurarte de no confundir su amabilidad con su interés por ti.

If you are the only one reaching out and you are not getting any signals back, maybe it’s time to take the hint and give up on him for good.

He doesn’t reach out to you after you followed the no-contact rule

Probablemente lo sabes todo sobre la regla de no contacto y has decidido utilizarla para que tu ex vuelva a tu vida.

Desapareciste de su vista durante algún tiempo y te aseguraste de que los dos no tuvieran contacto en ese periodo.

Así que esperabas que se diera cuenta de lo mucho que te echaba de menos y que comprendiera que tú eres la mujer para él.

Esperabas que viera lo mucho que te quiere y que volvierais a estar juntos.

Pero no pasa nada parecido. Sigue sin ponerse en contacto contigo y mucho menos pedirte que volvamos a estar juntos.

On the contrary, instead of realizing that he can’t live without you, it appears that he was perfectly fine without you and that reconciliation is not at the back of his mind.

If this guy didn’t miss you while you followed the no contact rule, it is more than likely that he has moved on with his life and that he doesn’t think of you anymore.

Tiene una nueva relación seria

Lo primero que puede ayudarte a saber si tu novio realmente ha pasado página es su estado sentimental.

Si este chico se queda soltero for a long time after the two of you broke up, it is clear that he is not ready for a good relationship and it is possible that he still hasn’t gotten over you. The same is if he jumps from one relationship to another.

Puede que haya encontrado a alguien, pero es obvio que para él es sólo una relación de rebote y ves que no está preparado para comprometerse.

Si hace esto, sólo te está demostrando que está intentando por todos los medios pasar página contigo, pero que está eligiendo el camino equivocado para hacerlo.

But, one of the biggest signs that your ex doesn’t want you back is the fact that he has found someone he loves.

When you see that he has settled down and that he is committed to his new relationship, it is clear that he has turned a new page in his life and that he doesn’t need anything from the past in it.

No es celoso

Siempre que un chico sienta algo por ti, sentirá celos hasta cierto punto.

If your boyfriend still wants you in his life, he will never be happy that you are dating someone new or just the fact that you’ve put yourself back on the dating market.

Por supuesto, he’ll probably try to hide his jealousy porque sabe que no tiene derecho a ello.

But, you two were together for a long time and you’ll know how to recognize his jealousy.

On the other hand, if this guy doesn’t show any clear sign of remorse or jealousy when he sees you with another guy and if he really wishes you all the best in your new relationship and gives you relationship advice, it is clear that he doesn’t have any romantic feelings for you.

He may appreciate you as a person with whom he’s been through a lot, but the harsh truth is that he doesn’t see you as ‘his woman’ any longer.

He doesn’t flirt with you

Una de las señales your ex doesn’t want you back es su comportamiento cada vez que os encontráis cara a cara.

If he still has feelings for you, his body language and non-verbal gestures will show it to you. But, if he has moved on, he won’t flirt with you in any way.

This guy won’t use every opportunity he gets to make you smile, to touch you discretely.

He won’t be sexually suggestive nor will he try to remind you all of your past times. He may act friendly to you, but he will never cross a border with you.

Respetará tus límites y esperará que tú seas igual, diciéndote indirectamente que sigas con tu vida.

No está interesado en reunirse con usted

En un hombre siente algo por tise desviará de su camino para verte, aunque sea por un minuto.

But, one of the signs he doesn’t want you back is if he doesn’t put any effort into seeing you in person.

Aunque le llames para quedar, siempre tiene alguna excusa y está claro que no le interesa verte.

The harsh truth you have to accept is that he doesn’t want to see you because he doesn’t miss you.

A este chico no le interesa hablar de todo lo que pasó entre vosotros dos y para él, volver a estar juntos ni siquiera es una opción que esté dispuesto a reconsiderar.

Actúa con indiferencia hacia ti

Esto puede resultarte chocante, pero si tu ex novio es muy malo contigo, es posible que aún sienta algo por ti.

Probablemente esté dolido por algo que ha ocurrido en vuestra relación o por el hecho de que no le persigas.

But, when you see that your ex is acting indifferently to you, you should know that he has really moved on with his life and that he doesn’t want you back.

Parece que a este tipo no le afecta nada de lo que hagas o digas y que no puedes molestarle, hagas lo que hagas.

Probablemente será educado cada vez que te vea, pero eso es todo. Cuando un chico es indiferente, no se esforzará por verte ni por evitarte. Para él, sólo eres un recuerdo lejano y nada más.