10 señales de que ya no le gustas

Las relaciones son totalmente impredecibles. Pueden aportarte una inmensa felicidad o pueden obligarte a pasar por los sentimientos más confusos del mundo. Esto último es, con diferencia, lo peor, por supuesto.

When things are fine in a relationship, you simply don’t give a shit about what could go wrong (because there’s no point in invoking evil forces).

But when you feel like things are not like they used to be, in 90% of cases you’re right.

La pregunta es: ¿por qué? And the answer is that our mind becomes used to a certain pattern of behaviors by our partner and when that cycle breaks, our intuition becomes like a warning sign telling us that something’s not right.

So, if you’re feeling like she’s been behaving differently lately and she seems like a totally different person (she no longer gives a shit about certain things), chances are that she’s not into you anymore.

Also, that is the main reason why you’re here in the first place reading this article.

But before coming to any conclusions, you need to know that there are many factors that trigger a woman’s behavior.

Not every sign means that she’s not into you. Las mujeres son, con diferencia, las seres complejos en la tierra (y esto ni siquiera es una exageración).

Así, cuando una mujer decide hacer algo o, más bien, no hacerlo, hay cientos de razones para ello y estas razones se procesan y actualizan constantemente en su mente.

Por ejemplo, si de repente le resultan molestos tus hábitos, no te lo dirá inmediatamente (desgraciadamente, no hay una explicación válida para esto).

Instead, she will secretly hold grudges against you and her actions will show you that something’s wrong.

Also, if she’s having some other issues unrelated to you or your relationship, this might also be a trigger to exhibit certain behavior, like ignoring your calls, not looking you in the eye or similar.

How can you differentiate between the two? How can you know that the signs she’s exhibiting mean that she’s not into you anymore or that she’s just pissed off for some other reason?

You see, if one or two signs coincide with the hypothesis that she’s not interested in you anymore, this doesn’t have to be the case.

But if the whole sequence of signs is indicating that she no longer gives a shit about you, then dude, I’m sorry to say but it’s probably the damn truth.

Pay attention to the signs below and I’m sure you’ll get an answer. But before doing that, remember that even if everything goes in favor of her losing affection for you, do not stress about it!

There’s a reason why this is so and I promise you that sooner or later you’ll find out that things are just as they’re supposed to be.

10 signs she’s not into you anymore

Su actividad sexual ha cambiado

Radical changes in your sexual activity is a sure indicator that something’s wrong in a relationship and it is one of the first signs she’s not into you anymore.

Firstly, if she always all of a sudden has a headache just before the two of you are about to have sex, know that it’s a lie.

Estos dolores de cabeza de los que suelen quejarse las mujeres no tienen nada que ver con un verdadero problema de salud.

They are invented as excuses for when they are not in the mood to have sex with you. It’s as simple as that.

En segundo lugar, if the two of you are still having sex but she’s just lying there like a sack of potatoes, something’s not right.

It means that she’s either bored as fuck or she’s not interested in having intercourse with you. Honestly, what’s the difference?

If a woman is not present during the action, it means she’s somewhere deep in her thoughts where having sex with you is just a small barrier that she needs to deal with in order to continue being absent.

Otro indicador que grita su indiferencia es que ya no se molesta en comprar lencería sexy como solía hacer antes.

Obviously, she no longer gives a damn about whether you’re going to have a hard-on or not.

On the contrary, she is probably praying to God that you don’t, so that she doesn’t have to fake her headache or sleep with you only to tick you off of her daily agenda.

Nunca se molesta en devolverte la llamada

Antes te llamaba diez veces al día sólo para oír tu voz. Y ahora nunca, nunca se molesta en devolverte la llamada aunque la llames como cien veces.

She either pretends that she somehow didn’t see you calling or that the battery hd somehow magically emptied, which prevented her from calling you back.

Also, she never thinks of calling you when she’s at a concert, with her friends or when something hilarious is going on.

She’s not doing this because she doesn’t feel like sharing anything with you.

She literally doesn’t care if her voice or something funny is going to make your day because that is not something she has time to bother with.

Summarized, she never bothers to call you back because she’s not into you anymore. Period.

Tiene otras prioridades

Antes eras su prioridad número uno, pero ahora mirar al techo se ha convertido en algo más importante que pasar tiempo contigo.

Obviamente, sus prioridades han cambiado y ya no le importa pasar tiempo de calidad contigo.

Cuando una de sus amigas la llama, se levanta en el mismo segundo, se viste en un tiempo récord, se maquilla y sale, dejándote con la duda de cómo demonios ha conseguido vestirse tan rápido y salir del local a la velocidad de la luz.

She no longer makes excuses to her boss that she’s sick or something to get a day off because that would mean she would have to spend it with you.

Su trabajo se ha convertido en un santuario al que acude para cumplir con su sagrado deber y, si dices una palabra al respecto, serás castigado al instante por tus pecados.

She doesn’t give a shit about how she looks in front of you

Bedsheet-sized T-shirts, baggy pants, grandma’s panties, messy hair, no make-up at all and the list goes on… If a woman doesn’t invest in her looks while being with you, it means that there’s something seriously wrong going on.

Antes, se comportaba como una modelo por la casa con todas esas camisas sedosas, bragas sexys, el pelo arreglado y con las piernas perfectamente depiladas y ahora te cuesta reconocer a esta mujer.

She no longer gives a damn about shaving and not shaving is the second biggest indicator that she doesn’t care if you’ll notice it, aka not giving a fuck about what you’ll think of her.

But when she’s going to some fancy dinner with her colleagues or friends, she makes sure to transform herself into a model again.

But not for your eyes evidently and that’s the biggest difference when it comes to this.

Te falta contacto físico

El contacto físico era una parte inevitable de vuestra relación (característica de toda relación sana), pero ahora parece que os evitáis mucho.

I mean, she seems to avoid physical touch because it doesn’t feel the same.

You no longer hold hands, kiss each other when you go to work, have cuddle sessions in front of the TV, etc. and when you think of doing it, it just seems wrong because you’re afraid of her reaction or that she’ll even get offended by it.

You’ve literally become strangers whose only physical touch occurs when you unintentionally touch each other, instantly saying sorry as you do it.

You don’t even look like a couple anymore, instead like some flatmates.

Véase también:17 señales evidentes de atracción física entre dos personas

Evita el contacto visual

Contacto visual is the soul and foundation of every healthy relationship, so if your woman is avoiding it at all costs, know that it’s no good.

Las personas que evitan el contacto visual ocultan algo que les preocupa.

If she’s constantly avoiding eye contact, it means she’s probably no longer interested in you romantically or physically but she just can’t admit it yet.

Y éste es el mayor signo de falta de pasión en una relación.

Cuando la pasión se desvanece, es muy difícil volver a encender el fuego.

The only way to fix things is to make enormous efforts and sometimes do things that you don’t feel comfortable doing at the moment (such as looking your partner in the eye).

Hay muchas parejas que parecen carecer pasión en una relación pero sobreviven porque, en última instancia, siguen interesados el uno en el otro.

And if she doesn’t bother looking you in the eye at all, it definitely means she’s not interested in saving your relationship from breaking.

Significa que se siente más cómoda ignorándote (a tus ojos) que afrontando el problema, mirándote a los ojos y diciendo exactamente lo que quiere decir.

She claims that she’s not ready for something serious

Cuando empezasteis a salir, todo parecía ir en la dirección de una relación seria.

Os comportasteis como cualquier otra pareja, locamente enamorados el uno del otro y sintiendo que nada os separaría jamás.

But now she claims that she’s all of a sudden not ready for something serious.

Now she claims that she’s not satisfied with how things are going and she wants to abort the relationship and put another label on it.

Ella quiere friendzone usted even though you’re simply unable to be friends with someone with whom you’ve gone through a lot and built a whole empire. She wants to lure you into the spell of being friendzoned.

But, of course, you won’t let her do that. You will either cut the crap and leave her or demand that she express herself and be honest with you. But there will be no friendzone for sure.

Ya no comparte sus problemas contigo

Solías conocer a todos y cada uno de sus compañeros de trabajo y sus hábitos, así como los de su jefe, su familia e incluso sus mascotas.

Antes te sabías todos sus problemas por orden alfabético, pero ahora no te enteras de nada.

Ya no te bombardea con cada uno de sus pensamientos sobre todo, quejándose de cómo eso la hace sentir una mierda.

I mean, it’s not like you miss any of it but still, it is a huge change after all.

It makes you wonder if she’s telling all of her problems to someone else now, to her friends or family.

Whomever it may be, it’s a fact that you’re no longer eligible to be the listener to her problems, which is really concerning.

She no longer shares her fears and thoughts with you because she doesn’t feel a connection or because she doesn’t give a shit about your opinion on things happening in her life. I’m sorry to tell you this but it’s the only truth.

Ella ya no está interesada en tu vida

Not only is she not interested in you being a participant in her life, she’s also no longer interested in your life either.

Antes jugaba contigo a videojuegos, te preguntaba por tu trabajo, tus preferencias, las comidas que te gustaría que te preparara, etc., pero ahora ya no parece interesarle nada de eso.

She no longer complains about your constant going out with your friends or neglecting her needs, she no longer complains about your socks left under the bed, she no longer worries if you’ll miss the sale of your favorite game.

And if a woman doesn’t complain, you can be sure that something’s wrong.

You can be sure that she’s not interested in any single thing going on in your life because she no longer wants to be a part of it.

You could moonwalk in your pajamas in the middle of night, she wouldn’t give a damn.

That’s how women work. If they decide they won’t give a damn about something, they’ll make sure to do it right.

Evita hablar de planes futuros

What future plans? Future plans have become like a taboo in your relationship and you simply no longer mention anything because you’re afraid of her reaction.

Evita hablar de planes de futuro contigo porque es evidente que no se ve contigo en el futuro.

Cuando a una mujer le gustas de verdad, se asegurará de organizar los planes con tres años de antelación para que todo salga a pedir de boca.

So, if you see that she’s feeling uneasy at the mention of a Christmas party with your parents or similar, you can be sure that she doesn’t want to spend time with YOU. Period.

¿Y por qué perderías el tiempo esforzándote por entenderla?

Instead of killing yourself trying to find the signs that she’s no longer into you, enjoy your life and focus on yourself because the only truth is that sólo se vive una vez and there’s no point in trying to fix something that is obviously not meant to last.